Raising Children

The Blessing of Children - pgs 167-172

Note: Again in this chapter, simply skip any questions that do not apply to you if you are not a mom.

Realize
1. Read the following verses: Psalm 113:9; 127:3-5; and Matthew 19:13-15. What do they tell us about God's view of children?

2. How is the world's view of children different than God's view?

Reflect
3. This issue is probably the most controversial one addressed in Lies Women Believe. Why do you think this subject evokes such a strong reaction from so many women?

4. What are some of the factors that commonly influence people's decisions about the size and timing of their family? Put a check mark next to any factors that have influenced your decisions in this area.

5. the Scripture does not explicitly address the subject of birth control (except for the instance when Pharaoh forbade Jewish women from having children). However, it has much to say about children and childbearing: for example,

* children are a blessing and a gift from God;

* they are primary means of passing the faith from one generation to the next;

* God is the One who opens and shuts the womb; childbearing is a primary purpose of marriage (Malachi 2:15);

* the willingness to bear children is a vital evidence of a woman's faith (1 Timothy 2:15; 5:14).

We also know that God is sovereign and that He can be trusted (Jeremiah 29:11). What implications would these truths have for a couple as they make decisions related to childbearing?

Respond
6. Would you say that your decisions in relation to childbearing have been based on...
* fear or faith?
* natural, human reasoning or biblical thinking?
* selfish motives or a commitment to the kingdom of God?
* personal emotions and desires or a sincere desire to honor God?

7. If you have any doubt or confusion as to whether your position on childbearing is pleasing to the Lord, write out a prayer asking God to show you the Truth and to give you the faith and courage to walk in the Truth.

8. Sometimes it's easy to forget that your children really are a blessing? If you have children, write their names and ages below. Next to each name write a phrase or two explaining how that child has been a blessing to you.

Prayer of the Day
Lord, thank You for the gift of children. Help me to welcome them even as You do. Show me how to fulfill my calling as a woman - to be the bearer and nurturer of life, whether that means having physical children of my own or "mothering" spiritual children You entrust in me. Amen.