This week we are looking at how to replace a doubting attitude with an attitude of faith. I really like how the author defines faith. Faith is believing the Word of God and acting upon it, no matter how I feel, because God promises a good result.
The key point in that statement is "no matter how I feel". It doesn't matter how we feel, we just need to act on what we know is right. To know what is right, we need to be in God's Word everyday. We have to believe 100% what we are reading and, if we have genuine faith, we will take what we learn and apply it to our lives. It's not going to be easy, but it is something we have to do. We really see how much faith we have when we are faced with a test in our lives. That is when those who have genuine faith will still be standing, but not alone. They will be standing with their arms stretched high, praising God for the test and for seeing them through it.
The Lord is faithful to us, no matter how far away we drift from Him. He is always there, waiting on us to come back to our senses and to welcome us back home. God promises us that if we have faith in Him through everything in our lives, He will bring something good out of it. We may not see the good in a situation at the present moment, but God will work things out for good.
Even when our faith is small, God is there, reaching out for us to take hold of Him so He can draw us near to Him.
Monday, June 1, 2009
Wednesday, May 13, 2009
Week Five - Replace a Critical Attitude
I apologize for the delay in this week's post. We are studying this week how to identify a critical attitude and replace it. Having a critical attitude causes us to be in the wilderness spiritually. Criticism is to dwell on the perceived faults of another with no view to their good. This type of attitude can eat away at you and pull you further and further away from God.
Let's look at some of the reasons we may have a critical attitude.
* Unforgiveness - Maybe you have not forgiven someone of a wrong they have done and you criticize everything they do. Your criticism is just covering for an unforgiving heart.
* Bitterness - No one can see bitterness, but before long it squirms its way around your heart and strangles your love for God. Bitterness is the pain of heart caused by living apart from God's grace.
* Envy and Resentment - Sometimes we are critical because we are jealous of someone's success and we try to pull that person down to our level.
* Careless, Thoughtless Words - Many times the critical words we say are just careless words, us not thinking before we speak.
* Pride - When we criticize someone, we are really trying to lift ourselves up, to make ourselves look better. Criticism also cloaks insecurity. We criticize to take the focus off of our faults.
This is not a problem with our mouths, it's a problem with our hearts. Through God's Word, we need to do "heart surgery" and remove these attitudes that strangle our love for Him. If we truly study His Word and apply it to our lives, we will have no room for criticism in our hearts and lives.
Let's look at some of the reasons we may have a critical attitude.
* Unforgiveness - Maybe you have not forgiven someone of a wrong they have done and you criticize everything they do. Your criticism is just covering for an unforgiving heart.
* Bitterness - No one can see bitterness, but before long it squirms its way around your heart and strangles your love for God. Bitterness is the pain of heart caused by living apart from God's grace.
* Envy and Resentment - Sometimes we are critical because we are jealous of someone's success and we try to pull that person down to our level.
* Careless, Thoughtless Words - Many times the critical words we say are just careless words, us not thinking before we speak.
* Pride - When we criticize someone, we are really trying to lift ourselves up, to make ourselves look better. Criticism also cloaks insecurity. We criticize to take the focus off of our faults.
This is not a problem with our mouths, it's a problem with our hearts. Through God's Word, we need to do "heart surgery" and remove these attitudes that strangle our love for Him. If we truly study His Word and apply it to our lives, we will have no room for criticism in our hearts and lives.
Monday, May 4, 2009
Week Four - ...With Contentment
Last week we learned how to replace a covetous attitude. This week we are going to see that we need to replace covetousness with contentment.
Contentment is...
* a satisfaction with what God has provided.
* to rest in what you have and to seek nothing more.
* a settled sense of adequacy.
Contentment is not just being satisfied with the things we own, but being satisfied with the situation we are in. If you are single, be content with that. If you are married, be content with that. If you have a job at all, be content with it. This list could go on and on. Contentment definitely goes against the grain, especially in our "get what you want and get it now" society.
Only God can give us true contentment. Have you ever purchased anything thinking "If I just had _____, then I would be happy"? It didn't work, did it? So many times in our lives we feel that if we had more money, a different job, a new car, etc. that we will be happy. The truth is, we have everything we need to be content in Jesus Christ.
I pray that each of us would see that Christ is all we need.
Contentment...has a nice ring to it, doesn't it? Makes you feel peaceful and at rest. We may think that we can only have contentment in our dreams, but we can be content is this life. We need to be content with what God has given us and know that He is all we need.
Contentment is...
* a satisfaction with what God has provided.
* to rest in what you have and to seek nothing more.
* a settled sense of adequacy.
Contentment is not just being satisfied with the things we own, but being satisfied with the situation we are in. If you are single, be content with that. If you are married, be content with that. If you have a job at all, be content with it. This list could go on and on. Contentment definitely goes against the grain, especially in our "get what you want and get it now" society.
Only God can give us true contentment. Have you ever purchased anything thinking "If I just had _____, then I would be happy"? It didn't work, did it? So many times in our lives we feel that if we had more money, a different job, a new car, etc. that we will be happy. The truth is, we have everything we need to be content in Jesus Christ.
I pray that each of us would see that Christ is all we need.
Friday, May 1, 2009
Week Two - Closing
Again, this has been a week where my toes have been stepped on...HARD! Covetousness is not something I would have told you a week ago that I have a problem with. We all need to peel back the layers of our heart and see where our commitment lies. Do we really live for God 100% and allow Him to supply us with the desires of our heart, or do we take matters into our own hands and get what we want when we want it? Unfortunately, most people, myself included, just get things when we want them.
We live in a society where we have to have it now...we even get impatient waiting on the microwave!!! We need to learn to be content with what we have. Do we really need the new car, house, clothes, shoes, electronics, appliances, etc.? This list could go on forever. If you are like me, I own each of these things already, but when something bigger or better comes along I start hating the things I do have, thinking the newer version is somehow going to be better than what I already own.
This week has really been an eye-opener. Covetousness hinders us from growing spiritually. We put the desire to obtain possessions over the desire to grow closer to God and seek Him. I realize now that wanting "things" is just a way to fill a void in me that only God can fill. If I am truly satisfied and content with my life and my possessions, and seek God in everything I do, I will not have the desire to want things that will only end up as trash anyway.
We are not going to take anything we own with us when we die. Only what we have done for God and His kingdom will last in the end.
We live in a society where we have to have it now...we even get impatient waiting on the microwave!!! We need to learn to be content with what we have. Do we really need the new car, house, clothes, shoes, electronics, appliances, etc.? This list could go on forever. If you are like me, I own each of these things already, but when something bigger or better comes along I start hating the things I do have, thinking the newer version is somehow going to be better than what I already own.
This week has really been an eye-opener. Covetousness hinders us from growing spiritually. We put the desire to obtain possessions over the desire to grow closer to God and seek Him. I realize now that wanting "things" is just a way to fill a void in me that only God can fill. If I am truly satisfied and content with my life and my possessions, and seek God in everything I do, I will not have the desire to want things that will only end up as trash anyway.
We are not going to take anything we own with us when we die. Only what we have done for God and His kingdom will last in the end.
Monday, April 27, 2009
Week Three - Replace A Covetous Attitude...
Reading the title of this week's lesson I thought "I don't consider myself greedy, but I'm going to do the lesson anyway." Well, just like the first week about the complaining attitude, my eyes were opened and I see that I am greedy or covetous. It doesn't have to be about large things like promotions, houses, etc. This sin can take over your life just by coveting little things, like an outfit someone is wearing, pets, electronics (iPods, video games, etc.) and a million other things.
When the desire to have something that someone else has takes over your life and becomes the one and only thing you think about, you have a major problem. Take a look around your house. Is there a place for everything and everything in it's place? If you are like me, the answer is NO. I have too many things taking control of my house. Obviously, a lot of things in your house are needed so your household or job can function properly; but, consider all of the things we just "wanted", either purchased on impulse or you saw someone else have one and saved until you got it. Were they needed items or can you find them buried under a pile of clothes somewhere in the house?
The Bible says we are to be content with what we have. Everything we need, the Lord gives us. If we do not have it, it's not needed right now. This hits me today because just yesterday I was coveting a washer/dryer combo I saw. I've wanted one for a long time, but I realize I should be content with the ones I have and be happy they are working properly. That may seem simple to you, but this is where this sin starts, in the simple things. Before long, if you continue to give into this sin, you are either so far in debt you can't see out, or you are miserable because you think you need more and more things to be happy. In reality, if we are saved, we have everything we need to be happy in Christ.
First and foremost, He died for us. He took all of our sins upon Himself and died so we wouldn't have to. Second, He provides for our needs. We have clothes on our backs (maybe not the latest fashions, but we are clothed). We have food on the table (maybe we can't eat out everyday, but we are not going hungry).
This ties into last week's lesson on a thankful attitude. If we are truly thankful for what the Lord has given us, we will be content with what we have. This is an underestimated sin. I pray God will open our eyes this week to how important it is to be content and not be greedy or covet what others have.
When the desire to have something that someone else has takes over your life and becomes the one and only thing you think about, you have a major problem. Take a look around your house. Is there a place for everything and everything in it's place? If you are like me, the answer is NO. I have too many things taking control of my house. Obviously, a lot of things in your house are needed so your household or job can function properly; but, consider all of the things we just "wanted", either purchased on impulse or you saw someone else have one and saved until you got it. Were they needed items or can you find them buried under a pile of clothes somewhere in the house?
The Bible says we are to be content with what we have. Everything we need, the Lord gives us. If we do not have it, it's not needed right now. This hits me today because just yesterday I was coveting a washer/dryer combo I saw. I've wanted one for a long time, but I realize I should be content with the ones I have and be happy they are working properly. That may seem simple to you, but this is where this sin starts, in the simple things. Before long, if you continue to give into this sin, you are either so far in debt you can't see out, or you are miserable because you think you need more and more things to be happy. In reality, if we are saved, we have everything we need to be happy in Christ.
First and foremost, He died for us. He took all of our sins upon Himself and died so we wouldn't have to. Second, He provides for our needs. We have clothes on our backs (maybe not the latest fashions, but we are clothed). We have food on the table (maybe we can't eat out everyday, but we are not going hungry).
This ties into last week's lesson on a thankful attitude. If we are truly thankful for what the Lord has given us, we will be content with what we have. This is an underestimated sin. I pray God will open our eyes this week to how important it is to be content and not be greedy or covet what others have.
Monday, April 20, 2009
Week Two - ...With A Thankful Attitude
Memory Verse: I Thessalonians 5:18
Last week we learned about replacing a complaining attitude; but, what do we replace it with...a thankful attitude. If we were to write a list of things we complain about vs. things we should be thankful for, the thankful list should far out way the complaints.
God has given us so much to be thankful for! No matter where we are in our lives or what situation we are in, there is always something to be thankful for. We are alive and breathing, aren't we? Every day that God gives us and allows us to wake up is a gift from Him. I witnessed this firsthand yesterday at church. In the back of my mind I knew this was the subject of the lesson this week, but I didn't really connect the two until today. Yesterday, I heard a man say "I want to thank the Lord for all of His blessings to me and my family. He has truly blessed us." Now, that may not seem like a profound statement to you, but as an outsider looking in I saw lots of reasons for this person to complain and doubt God, but he chose to be thankful instead. I truly admire this person for the testimony he has to the others around him.
Can we say that? Do people around us see that we are thankful and not complainers? The best way to witness to someone is to live in a way that shows Christ. When we know Jesus lives in our hearts people can tell by our fruit. This is off subject a little bit, but it ties together in the end. Here is one way to remember that others should be able to tell if we are saved by our fruit.
Focus - Is our focus on ourselves or on God?
Repentance - Have we truly repented of our sins and chosen to live for Christ?
Understanding - Do we understand why we are right with God? Because of Jesus' death on the cross
Invitation - When were you saved? We are not saved by works. We should remember a time where we humbled ourselves before God and allowed Him into our lives.
Thankfulness - For what God has done for us.
I would encourage everyone to do the two exercises at the end of today's lesson (pages 36-37). I believe God will bless those who are truly grateful for everything He give us and allows to happen in our lives(even things we think are bad at the time).
I pray this week we will all put into practice replacing our complaining attitude with a thankful attitude.
Last week we learned about replacing a complaining attitude; but, what do we replace it with...a thankful attitude. If we were to write a list of things we complain about vs. things we should be thankful for, the thankful list should far out way the complaints.
God has given us so much to be thankful for! No matter where we are in our lives or what situation we are in, there is always something to be thankful for. We are alive and breathing, aren't we? Every day that God gives us and allows us to wake up is a gift from Him. I witnessed this firsthand yesterday at church. In the back of my mind I knew this was the subject of the lesson this week, but I didn't really connect the two until today. Yesterday, I heard a man say "I want to thank the Lord for all of His blessings to me and my family. He has truly blessed us." Now, that may not seem like a profound statement to you, but as an outsider looking in I saw lots of reasons for this person to complain and doubt God, but he chose to be thankful instead. I truly admire this person for the testimony he has to the others around him.
Can we say that? Do people around us see that we are thankful and not complainers? The best way to witness to someone is to live in a way that shows Christ. When we know Jesus lives in our hearts people can tell by our fruit. This is off subject a little bit, but it ties together in the end. Here is one way to remember that others should be able to tell if we are saved by our fruit.
Focus - Is our focus on ourselves or on God?
Repentance - Have we truly repented of our sins and chosen to live for Christ?
Understanding - Do we understand why we are right with God? Because of Jesus' death on the cross
Invitation - When were you saved? We are not saved by works. We should remember a time where we humbled ourselves before God and allowed Him into our lives.
Thankfulness - For what God has done for us.
I would encourage everyone to do the two exercises at the end of today's lesson (pages 36-37). I believe God will bless those who are truly grateful for everything He give us and allows to happen in our lives(even things we think are bad at the time).
I pray this week we will all put into practice replacing our complaining attitude with a thankful attitude.
Friday, April 17, 2009
Week One - Closing
Thank you for joining us for the study of Lord Change my Attitude. It's not too late to ask your friends and family to join us.
This study is about the attitudes that affect our growth in Christ and, boy, were our toes stepped on this week?! I hope that each of us takes this study very seriously and works to apply the truths learned and also to change our attitudes. With that said, let me ask you each some questions to cause you to think.
Question One: Are you open to considering what the Lord has to say about changing your attitude?
This is not a self-help book. This is a study on what God has to say about our attitudes.
Question Two: Are you willing to be changed?
If change was easy, everyone would be doing it; but the fact is most people are just staying the same.
Question Three: Are you willing to change your attitude?
This study is about attitudes. It's not about our actions or circumstances.
Question Four: Are you willing to focus exclusively on YOUR attitude?
It is so easy to point out someone else's bad attitude and never even see that we also have a bad attitude.
This week's lesson about a complaining attitude really hit home with me. I've never really considered myself a complainer, or least I always thought I had a reason to complain, if I did. Well, now I see that God doesn't like complaining, no matter what the reason. When we complain we are basically telling God that He is not giving us what we want, when we want it, and we want Him to cater to us. This lesson was a wake-up call to me. Complaining and a negative attitude toward people and things around us is SIN and God HATES sin!
Changing something that is a habit that we have had for years is not easy. Attitudes are patterns of thinking formed over a long period of time. You can't change your attitudes in a few minutes. Hopefully, this study will help us identify the attitudes we need to change and give us the tools we need to being that change process. I pray that God will use this study and that we will give our attitudes to God to allow Him to change us to be more like Him.
This study is about the attitudes that affect our growth in Christ and, boy, were our toes stepped on this week?! I hope that each of us takes this study very seriously and works to apply the truths learned and also to change our attitudes. With that said, let me ask you each some questions to cause you to think.
Question One: Are you open to considering what the Lord has to say about changing your attitude?
This is not a self-help book. This is a study on what God has to say about our attitudes.
Question Two: Are you willing to be changed?
If change was easy, everyone would be doing it; but the fact is most people are just staying the same.
Question Three: Are you willing to change your attitude?
This study is about attitudes. It's not about our actions or circumstances.
Question Four: Are you willing to focus exclusively on YOUR attitude?
It is so easy to point out someone else's bad attitude and never even see that we also have a bad attitude.
This week's lesson about a complaining attitude really hit home with me. I've never really considered myself a complainer, or least I always thought I had a reason to complain, if I did. Well, now I see that God doesn't like complaining, no matter what the reason. When we complain we are basically telling God that He is not giving us what we want, when we want it, and we want Him to cater to us. This lesson was a wake-up call to me. Complaining and a negative attitude toward people and things around us is SIN and God HATES sin!
Changing something that is a habit that we have had for years is not easy. Attitudes are patterns of thinking formed over a long period of time. You can't change your attitudes in a few minutes. Hopefully, this study will help us identify the attitudes we need to change and give us the tools we need to being that change process. I pray that God will use this study and that we will give our attitudes to God to allow Him to change us to be more like Him.
Monday, April 13, 2009
Week 1 - Replace a Complaining Attitude
This week we are beginning our new Bible study..."Lord, Change My Attitude". Take a look at the table of contents, you will see there are 5 positive and 5 negative attitudes. The one we are going to look at in more detail this week is a complaining attitude.
The author, James MacDonald, suggests a memory verse for each weeks lesson. This week it is Philippians 2:14-15. This is a wonderful verse to commit to memory to remind us on a daily basis that we should not complain.
I have found, just today, that it is really amazing at how much complaining goes on around us. Whether it is us complaining or those around us, it's everywhere. I've tried to watch everything I've said today, so as not to complain, and I know I caught myself probably a dozen times. If you have a complaining spirit, it becomes part of your life and eventually you don't notice it anymore, it just happens. Unfortunately, everyone else around you does notice. Not only are you dragging them down with your complaints, you (in the long run) are dragging yourself down.
The author said "In the short term, complaining separates us from God; in the long term it becomes a lifestyle that sends us to the wilderness". Complaining is a sin. No matter how big or small the complaint, it is SIN. Sin means "missing the mark, failing in regard to God's holy standard and just demands."
What we put in our minds determines what comes out in our words and actions. If we think on things that are pure, just, righteous, etc., these things will show in the way we talk to others and in our actions. If we surround ourselves with the negativity of this world, we will show that to others by complaining.
Complaining about things as simple as traffic or the weather seem so commonplace today, but they are wrong. This has truly been a challenge to me. I pray God will use this study in all of our lives to show us how to grow closer to Him in all aspects of our lives.
The author, James MacDonald, suggests a memory verse for each weeks lesson. This week it is Philippians 2:14-15. This is a wonderful verse to commit to memory to remind us on a daily basis that we should not complain.
I have found, just today, that it is really amazing at how much complaining goes on around us. Whether it is us complaining or those around us, it's everywhere. I've tried to watch everything I've said today, so as not to complain, and I know I caught myself probably a dozen times. If you have a complaining spirit, it becomes part of your life and eventually you don't notice it anymore, it just happens. Unfortunately, everyone else around you does notice. Not only are you dragging them down with your complaints, you (in the long run) are dragging yourself down.
The author said "In the short term, complaining separates us from God; in the long term it becomes a lifestyle that sends us to the wilderness". Complaining is a sin. No matter how big or small the complaint, it is SIN. Sin means "missing the mark, failing in regard to God's holy standard and just demands."
What we put in our minds determines what comes out in our words and actions. If we think on things that are pure, just, righteous, etc., these things will show in the way we talk to others and in our actions. If we surround ourselves with the negativity of this world, we will show that to others by complaining.
Complaining about things as simple as traffic or the weather seem so commonplace today, but they are wrong. This has truly been a challenge to me. I pray God will use this study in all of our lives to show us how to grow closer to Him in all aspects of our lives.
Friday, April 10, 2009
Day Five
Walking In The Truth By Glorifying God - pgs 262-265
Realize
Rewrite each of the five truths listed on pages 262-265. Then look up the corresponding verses and describe how the verses confirm the truth.
Truth #18: Ephesians 5:25-27
Truth #19: Romans 8:29
Truth #20: 1 Peter 5:10
Truth #21: 2 Corinthians 4:17-18
Truth #22: Colossians 1:16-18; Revelation 4:11
Reflect
Complete this sentence: The truth that I most need to claim today is the truth that...
Respond
I surrender to that truth and will make the following changes in order to act upon the truth...
Prayer of the Day
Lord, thank You that this life is a whole lot bigger than just me. I admit that often I am at the center of my own little world. The truth is, however, that I am not on this earth for You to make me happy; I am here to glorify You and bring You pleasure. That is what I want to do, Lord, today and every day of my life. As I do, You have promised that I will experience fullness of joy and the delights of Your pleasures. I claim the truth today that ______________ and surrender to that truth today by ___________. Amen.
Realize
Rewrite each of the five truths listed on pages 262-265. Then look up the corresponding verses and describe how the verses confirm the truth.
Truth #18: Ephesians 5:25-27
Truth #19: Romans 8:29
Truth #20: 1 Peter 5:10
Truth #21: 2 Corinthians 4:17-18
Truth #22: Colossians 1:16-18; Revelation 4:11
Reflect
Complete this sentence: The truth that I most need to claim today is the truth that...
Respond
I surrender to that truth and will make the following changes in order to act upon the truth...
Prayer of the Day
Lord, thank You that this life is a whole lot bigger than just me. I admit that often I am at the center of my own little world. The truth is, however, that I am not on this earth for You to make me happy; I am here to glorify You and bring You pleasure. That is what I want to do, Lord, today and every day of my life. As I do, You have promised that I will experience fullness of joy and the delights of Your pleasures. I claim the truth today that ______________ and surrender to that truth today by ___________. Amen.
Thursday, April 9, 2009
Day Four
Walking In The Truth By Relinquishing Control - pgs 259-262
Realize
Rewrite each of the six truths listed on pages 259-262. Then look up the corresponding verses and describe how the verses confirm the truth.
Truth #12: Philippians 2:13; 1 Thessalonians 5:24
Truth #13: Ezekiel 18:19-22
Truth #14: Galatians 6:7-8
Truth #15: Matthew 16:25; Luke 1:38
Truth #16: Ephesians 5:21
Truth #17: Titus 2:4-5
Reflect
Complete the sentence: The truth that I most need to claim today is the truth that...
Respond
I surrender to that truth and will make the following changes in order to act upon the truth...
Prayer of the Day
Lord, thank You that I can find joy and freedom by relinquishing control of my life to You. I understand that true freedom is found by submitting to You. I claim the truth today that __________ and surrender to that truth today by ___________________. Amen.
Realize
Rewrite each of the six truths listed on pages 259-262. Then look up the corresponding verses and describe how the verses confirm the truth.
Truth #12: Philippians 2:13; 1 Thessalonians 5:24
Truth #13: Ezekiel 18:19-22
Truth #14: Galatians 6:7-8
Truth #15: Matthew 16:25; Luke 1:38
Truth #16: Ephesians 5:21
Truth #17: Titus 2:4-5
Reflect
Complete the sentence: The truth that I most need to claim today is the truth that...
Respond
I surrender to that truth and will make the following changes in order to act upon the truth...
Prayer of the Day
Lord, thank You that I can find joy and freedom by relinquishing control of my life to You. I understand that true freedom is found by submitting to You. I claim the truth today that __________ and surrender to that truth today by ___________________. Amen.
Wednesday, April 8, 2009
Day Three
Walking In The Truth of Christ's Sufficiency - pgs 256-259
Okay, the new study is going to be (drum roll)....."Lord Help Me Change My Attitude Before It's Too Late" by James MacDonald. This study will begin on Monday, April 13th. Invite your friends to join us. The book can be purchased at most Christian book stores.
Realize
Rewrite each of the five truths listed on pages 256-259. Then look up the corresponding verses and describe how the verses confirm the truth.
Truth #7: 2 Corinthians 12:9
Truth #8: 1 John 1:7
Truth #9: Romans 6:6-7
Truth #10: 1 Corinthians 6:9-11
Truth #11: Psalm 107:20; 119:105
Reflect
Complete the sentence: The truth that I most need to claim today is the truth that...
Respond
I surrender to that truth and will make the following changes in order to act upon the truth...
Prayer of the Day
Lord, thank You that Your grace is sufficient to help me even in my deepest need or strongest bondage. I claim the truth today that __________ and surrender to that truth today by ___________________. Amen.
Okay, the new study is going to be (drum roll)....."Lord Help Me Change My Attitude Before It's Too Late" by James MacDonald. This study will begin on Monday, April 13th. Invite your friends to join us. The book can be purchased at most Christian book stores.
Realize
Rewrite each of the five truths listed on pages 256-259. Then look up the corresponding verses and describe how the verses confirm the truth.
Truth #7: 2 Corinthians 12:9
Truth #8: 1 John 1:7
Truth #9: Romans 6:6-7
Truth #10: 1 Corinthians 6:9-11
Truth #11: Psalm 107:20; 119:105
Reflect
Complete the sentence: The truth that I most need to claim today is the truth that...
Respond
I surrender to that truth and will make the following changes in order to act upon the truth...
Prayer of the Day
Lord, thank You that Your grace is sufficient to help me even in my deepest need or strongest bondage. I claim the truth today that __________ and surrender to that truth today by ___________________. Amen.
Tuesday, April 7, 2009
Day Two
Walking In The Truth About God - pgs 253-256
Realize
Rewrite each of the six truths listed on pages 254-256. Then look up the corresponding verses and describe how the verses confirm the truth.
Truth #1: Psalm 119:68; 136:1
Truth #2: Romans 8:32, 38-39
Truth #3: Ephesians 1:4-6
Truth #4: Psalm 23:1
Truth #5: Isaiah 28:16
Truth #6: Isaiah 46:10
Reflect
Complete this sentence: The truth that I most need to claim today is the truth that...
Respond
I surrender to that truth and will make the following changes in order to act upon the truth...
Prayer of the Day
Lord, thank You for Your Word that tells me the truth about who You are, what You have done for me, and how much You love me. I claim the truth today that __________ and surrender to that truth today by ____________. Amen.
Realize
Rewrite each of the six truths listed on pages 254-256. Then look up the corresponding verses and describe how the verses confirm the truth.
Truth #1: Psalm 119:68; 136:1
Truth #2: Romans 8:32, 38-39
Truth #3: Ephesians 1:4-6
Truth #4: Psalm 23:1
Truth #5: Isaiah 28:16
Truth #6: Isaiah 46:10
Reflect
Complete this sentence: The truth that I most need to claim today is the truth that...
Respond
I surrender to that truth and will make the following changes in order to act upon the truth...
Prayer of the Day
Lord, thank You for Your Word that tells me the truth about who You are, what You have done for me, and how much You love me. I claim the truth today that __________ and surrender to that truth today by ____________. Amen.
Monday, April 6, 2009
Walking In Freedom - Day One
Surrendering To The Truth - pgs 243-252
Well, here we are again. It's the last week of this Bible study and time to choose a new one. The only suggestion I have received is "Lord Help Me Change My Attitude Before It's Too Late" by James MacDonald. This study is fine with me. If anyone else has a suggestion, please comment on this post. We need to make a decision ASAP so everyone can get the new book to begin on Monday, April 13th. I'll let everyone know on Wednesday (8th) what the new lesson will be for sure. Because this new book has the study guide build in, we will go back to the old format of posting on the blog on Mondays and Fridays, not everyday.
Realize
1. Look through the forty lies listed in the table of contents. During the course of this study, has the Lord shown you any specific areas where you have been deceived? List one or more lies that you realize now you have believed.
2. Illustrate how believing those lies has put you in bondage.
Reflect
3. What corresponding truth from God's Word counters each lie you listed above? Write the truths below, and note where you can find them in the Bible.
4. How can the truths you have identified set you free from bondage and sanctify you?
Respond
5. Just knowing the Truth is not enough. You must surrender to the Truth. What do you need to change in your thinking or your lifestyle that is not currently in line with the Truth of God's Word?
Prayer of the Day
Lord, thank You for showing me the lies that have held me in bondage and the Truth that can set me free. Please help me to surrender to and act on the Truth every time a lie presents itself. Amen.
Well, here we are again. It's the last week of this Bible study and time to choose a new one. The only suggestion I have received is "Lord Help Me Change My Attitude Before It's Too Late" by James MacDonald. This study is fine with me. If anyone else has a suggestion, please comment on this post. We need to make a decision ASAP so everyone can get the new book to begin on Monday, April 13th. I'll let everyone know on Wednesday (8th) what the new lesson will be for sure. Because this new book has the study guide build in, we will go back to the old format of posting on the blog on Mondays and Fridays, not everyday.
Realize
1. Look through the forty lies listed in the table of contents. During the course of this study, has the Lord shown you any specific areas where you have been deceived? List one or more lies that you realize now you have believed.
2. Illustrate how believing those lies has put you in bondage.
Reflect
3. What corresponding truth from God's Word counters each lie you listed above? Write the truths below, and note where you can find them in the Bible.
4. How can the truths you have identified set you free from bondage and sanctify you?
Respond
5. Just knowing the Truth is not enough. You must surrender to the Truth. What do you need to change in your thinking or your lifestyle that is not currently in line with the Truth of God's Word?
Prayer of the Day
Lord, thank You for showing me the lies that have held me in bondage and the Truth that can set me free. Please help me to surrender to and act on the Truth every time a lie presents itself. Amen.
Friday, April 3, 2009
Day Five
Living A God-Centered Life - pgs 228-235
Realize
1. Why are you alive? If you had to write a short life purpose statement, what would you say?
Reflect
2. According to Revelation 4:11, why were we created?
3. Read Philippians 1:21-24; 3:7-16. How would Paul answer the question, "Why are you alive?"
4. Read Acts 20:22-24. How did Paul's passion to fulfill God's purpose for his life enable him to endure and press on in spite of adversity?
Respond
5. What gets in the way of your being full abandoned to Christ and His agenda in the world (e.g., particular people, goals, possessions, desires, etc.)?
6. Write a prayer confessing any areas of your life where you have been looking out for yourself and your own interests, and express your desire to live a life that is wholly centered on God.
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I confess that my natural tendency is to look out for myself, my interests, and my happiness. But I realize that it's not about me-it's all about You and Your kingdom, You will, Your glory. I do not exist so You can make me happy. I was created to bring pleasure and glory to You and to reflect the light of Christ. I know that I will only find true joy as I lay down my life to that end. Amen.
Realize
1. Why are you alive? If you had to write a short life purpose statement, what would you say?
Reflect
2. According to Revelation 4:11, why were we created?
3. Read Philippians 1:21-24; 3:7-16. How would Paul answer the question, "Why are you alive?"
4. Read Acts 20:22-24. How did Paul's passion to fulfill God's purpose for his life enable him to endure and press on in spite of adversity?
Respond
5. What gets in the way of your being full abandoned to Christ and His agenda in the world (e.g., particular people, goals, possessions, desires, etc.)?
6. Write a prayer confessing any areas of your life where you have been looking out for yourself and your own interests, and express your desire to live a life that is wholly centered on God.
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I confess that my natural tendency is to look out for myself, my interests, and my happiness. But I realize that it's not about me-it's all about You and Your kingdom, You will, Your glory. I do not exist so You can make me happy. I was created to bring pleasure and glory to You and to reflect the light of Christ. I know that I will only find true joy as I lay down my life to that end. Amen.
Thursday, April 2, 2009
Day Four
God's Grace Is Sufficient - pgs 226-228
Realize
1. Why do you think many people choose to just give up - on their marriages, their jobs, their children?
2. Describe a time when you were tempted to give up, throw in the towel, and say, "I just can't take any more." What caused you to feel that way? What did you do?
Reflect
3. Read 2 Corinthians 11:22-30. Do you think Paul ever felt like he just couldn't take any more? What do you think kept him going?
4. Now read 2 Corinthians 12:7-10. In what ways do you think Paul's "thorn in the flesh" was used by God? What did he learn about God's grace that he might not have learned any other way?
Respond
5. List two or three circumstances in your life that you cannot handle on your own. Then, write these words next to each circumstance: "Your grace is sufficient for me."
Prayer of the Day
Lord, at times I feel that I simply can't take any more. I feel so very weak. Yet You promise that Your grace is sufficient for me and that Your strength is made perfect in my weakness. Help me to walk in Your grace and Your strength today. Thank You that, by Your grace, I can go on. Amen.
Realize
1. Why do you think many people choose to just give up - on their marriages, their jobs, their children?
2. Describe a time when you were tempted to give up, throw in the towel, and say, "I just can't take any more." What caused you to feel that way? What did you do?
Reflect
3. Read 2 Corinthians 11:22-30. Do you think Paul ever felt like he just couldn't take any more? What do you think kept him going?
4. Now read 2 Corinthians 12:7-10. In what ways do you think Paul's "thorn in the flesh" was used by God? What did he learn about God's grace that he might not have learned any other way?
Respond
5. List two or three circumstances in your life that you cannot handle on your own. Then, write these words next to each circumstance: "Your grace is sufficient for me."
Prayer of the Day
Lord, at times I feel that I simply can't take any more. I feel so very weak. Yet You promise that Your grace is sufficient for me and that Your strength is made perfect in my weakness. Help me to walk in Your grace and Your strength today. Thank You that, by Your grace, I can go on. Amen.
Wednesday, April 1, 2009
Day Three
Gaining An Eternal Perspective - pgs 223-226
Realize
1. Describe a time when you prayed for something, and it took God a long time to answer. (Or describe a prayer request you have been praying for a long time and are still awaiting God's answer.)
2. What do we learn from the following Bible characters?
*God promised to end Sarah's barrenness and give her and Abraham a child. How long did they wait for that promise to come true? (Genesis 12:4-5; 21:5)
* How long was Joseph in prison (for a crime he didn't commit) after the cupbearer promised to bring Joseph's case to Pharaoh? (Genesis 40:23-41:1)
* Joshua prayed for victory over his enemies. How quickly did God answer his request? (Joshua 10:12-14)
*Mary and Martha knew that Jesus could heal their sick brother, Lazarus. How long did they wait before Jesus returned to them? (John 11:17)
Reflect
3. What purposes might God have for not solving our problem or not changing our difficult circumstance as quickly as we wish? In what ways does God's waiting to answer our requests achieve His hold, eternal purposes in our lives?
4. According to Revelation 21:1-7, what do we have to look forward to? How can this vision help us to endure pain and suffering in this life here on earth?
Respond
5. Read Psalm 130:5. Waiting is a deliberate action that often requires more courage than taking matters into our own hands. It requires trust, obedience, hope and perseverance. What is one current situation in your life where you need to simply and quietly wait on the Lord?
Prayer of the Day
Father, sometimes it is so hard to endure when it seems like nothing is changing in my circumstances. Help me to wait for Your timing, Lord, knowing that You will act at the right time. Until then, teach me to trust, obey, hope and persevere. Be glorified in my life, Lord. Amen.
Realize
1. Describe a time when you prayed for something, and it took God a long time to answer. (Or describe a prayer request you have been praying for a long time and are still awaiting God's answer.)
2. What do we learn from the following Bible characters?
*God promised to end Sarah's barrenness and give her and Abraham a child. How long did they wait for that promise to come true? (Genesis 12:4-5; 21:5)
* How long was Joseph in prison (for a crime he didn't commit) after the cupbearer promised to bring Joseph's case to Pharaoh? (Genesis 40:23-41:1)
* Joshua prayed for victory over his enemies. How quickly did God answer his request? (Joshua 10:12-14)
*Mary and Martha knew that Jesus could heal their sick brother, Lazarus. How long did they wait before Jesus returned to them? (John 11:17)
Reflect
3. What purposes might God have for not solving our problem or not changing our difficult circumstance as quickly as we wish? In what ways does God's waiting to answer our requests achieve His hold, eternal purposes in our lives?
4. According to Revelation 21:1-7, what do we have to look forward to? How can this vision help us to endure pain and suffering in this life here on earth?
Respond
5. Read Psalm 130:5. Waiting is a deliberate action that often requires more courage than taking matters into our own hands. It requires trust, obedience, hope and perseverance. What is one current situation in your life where you need to simply and quietly wait on the Lord?
Prayer of the Day
Father, sometimes it is so hard to endure when it seems like nothing is changing in my circumstances. Help me to wait for Your timing, Lord, knowing that You will act at the right time. Until then, teach me to trust, obey, hope and persevere. Be glorified in my life, Lord. Amen.
Tuesday, March 31, 2009
Day Two
Purpose In Suffering - pgs 221-223
Realize
1. List several different kinds of suffering that you or others you know have had to endure (e.g., financial disaster).
2. Give two or three illustrations of the natural human instinct to escape from suffering (e.g., divorce).
3. Why is suffering an inescapable fact of the human condition? Will we ever be totally free from suffering and pain while we live in this world? Why not?
Reflect
4. What do the following verses in the book of 1 Peter teach us about the purposes of God in suffering and how we should respond to suffering?
* 1:7
* 2:21-23
* 3:9
* 3:14-17
* 4:1-2
* 4:12-16, 19
* 5:8-10
5. Give an illustration of the "redemptive, sanctifying fruit" that suffering has produced in your life.
Respond
6. How could a painful situation you are facing at this time be for you "a pathway to sanctification and a doorway into greater intimacy with God"?
Prayer of the Day
Lord, at times when I am hurting, my natural instinct is to cry out for relief. But I don't want to forfeit the blessings that You can bring to me and to others through my suffering. Thank You that You use suffering to make us more mature, more like Your Son, who suffered for us. Help me to embrace the pain and to allow You to fulfill all Your purposes in and through my life. Amen.
Realize
1. List several different kinds of suffering that you or others you know have had to endure (e.g., financial disaster).
2. Give two or three illustrations of the natural human instinct to escape from suffering (e.g., divorce).
3. Why is suffering an inescapable fact of the human condition? Will we ever be totally free from suffering and pain while we live in this world? Why not?
Reflect
4. What do the following verses in the book of 1 Peter teach us about the purposes of God in suffering and how we should respond to suffering?
* 1:7
* 2:21-23
* 3:9
* 3:14-17
* 4:1-2
* 4:12-16, 19
* 5:8-10
5. Give an illustration of the "redemptive, sanctifying fruit" that suffering has produced in your life.
Respond
6. How could a painful situation you are facing at this time be for you "a pathway to sanctification and a doorway into greater intimacy with God"?
Prayer of the Day
Lord, at times when I am hurting, my natural instinct is to cry out for relief. But I don't want to forfeit the blessings that You can bring to me and to others through my suffering. Thank You that You use suffering to make us more mature, more like Your Son, who suffered for us. Help me to embrace the pain and to allow You to fulfill all Your purposes in and through my life. Amen.
Monday, March 30, 2009
Dealing With Circumstances - Day One
Accepting Our Circumstances - pgs 215-221
Before I get started with today's questions, I just want to remind everyone that after this week there is only one week of lessons left. Please be looking into what you want the next lesson to be and let me know by commenting on a post this week or next. I would like to say that I personally would like to have a study where the study guide is part of the book (where you don't have to purchase 2 books).
Realize
1. Describe Eve's circumstances in the Garden, before the entrance of sin. In spite of an ideal setting, Eve managed to become discontent and make a wrong choice. What does that say about our circumstances and our choices?
2. Look at the list of "if onlys" on pages 219-220. Do any of these apply to you? What are your personal "if onlys" - circumstances you blame for your wrong responses or your lack of joy?
3. What sinful responses have you been excusing or rationalizing because of circumstances beyond your control (e.g., I have not honored my husband, have spoken critically of him to others, and have been worrying because of his poor financial decisions)?
4. Give an example of a circumstance in your life that revealed some thing about your heart that needed to be changed (e.g., you become impatient while waiting in the line at the supermarket).
5. Read 2 Corinthians 4:8-11, 16. How did the apostle Paul emerge from his circumstances as a victor, rather than a victim?
Respond
6. List one of more difficult circumstances you are facing at this time. next to each circumstance describe your inward and outward response to that situation. God may or may not choose to change your circumstance, but if you will let Him, He will use your circumstance to change you. What changes are needed in your attitude or your responses?
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I confess that I often let my circumstances control my attitudes and my responses. I want to be controlled by Your Spirit. Please help me to trust in You, regardless of what is going on around me, and to learn to rejoice and be content in every circumstance. Amen.
Before I get started with today's questions, I just want to remind everyone that after this week there is only one week of lessons left. Please be looking into what you want the next lesson to be and let me know by commenting on a post this week or next. I would like to say that I personally would like to have a study where the study guide is part of the book (where you don't have to purchase 2 books).
Realize
1. Describe Eve's circumstances in the Garden, before the entrance of sin. In spite of an ideal setting, Eve managed to become discontent and make a wrong choice. What does that say about our circumstances and our choices?
2. Look at the list of "if onlys" on pages 219-220. Do any of these apply to you? What are your personal "if onlys" - circumstances you blame for your wrong responses or your lack of joy?
3. What sinful responses have you been excusing or rationalizing because of circumstances beyond your control (e.g., I have not honored my husband, have spoken critically of him to others, and have been worrying because of his poor financial decisions)?
4. Give an example of a circumstance in your life that revealed some thing about your heart that needed to be changed (e.g., you become impatient while waiting in the line at the supermarket).
5. Read 2 Corinthians 4:8-11, 16. How did the apostle Paul emerge from his circumstances as a victor, rather than a victim?
Respond
6. List one of more difficult circumstances you are facing at this time. next to each circumstance describe your inward and outward response to that situation. God may or may not choose to change your circumstance, but if you will let Him, He will use your circumstance to change you. What changes are needed in your attitude or your responses?
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I confess that I often let my circumstances control my attitudes and my responses. I want to be controlled by Your Spirit. Please help me to trust in You, regardless of what is going on around me, and to learn to rejoice and be content in every circumstance. Amen.
Friday, March 27, 2009
Day Five
Dealing With Depression - pgs 204-210
Realize
1. Read Psalm 42. Describe some of the circumstances David was facing and how he was feeling when he wrote this psalm.
2. Which verses in this passage show that David...
- was honest with God about how he was feeling?
- made himself face the root issues of his depression?
- turned to God in his depression?
- counseled his heart according to the Truth of God's character?
- exercised faith in God's ultimate victory over his feeling and circumstances?
Reflect
3. It is commonly assumed today that depression is caused by physiological and neurological problems. But the Scriptures indicate that spiritual issues can actually produce physical and emotional symptoms of depression. Select two or three of those issues (top of page 205) and explain how they could contribute to symptoms of depression.
4. Describe an occasion whey you experienced physical or emotional symptoms related to depression, as a result of one or more of these spiritual issues.
5. Select two or three of the following "divine resources" and explain why they are important in dealing with depression: prayer, forgiveness, confession of sin, obedience, acceptance, yielding "rights", the body of Christ, God's grace, the Word, praise and faith.
6. Many Christians have experienced a "dark night of the soul", even while they are walking with God. Read Isaiah 50:10; Hebrews 4:14-16; and 12:3. According to God's Word, what should a believer do at such times?
Respond
7. Read Psalm 42:11. Write it in your own words below, putting your name where the psalmist says "O my soul". Write this verse on a card, and put it in a place where you will be reminded to quote it to yourself as needed.
Prayer of the Day
Lord, You are my Light in the darkness, my Hope in times of despair, and my Helper in life's most desperate hours. You life up my head. No matter how great the darkness I am experiencing emotionally, help me to look to You, to wait patiently for You, and to trust that You are faithful and that Your mercy and grace will sustain me. Amen.
Realize
1. Read Psalm 42. Describe some of the circumstances David was facing and how he was feeling when he wrote this psalm.
2. Which verses in this passage show that David...
- was honest with God about how he was feeling?
- made himself face the root issues of his depression?
- turned to God in his depression?
- counseled his heart according to the Truth of God's character?
- exercised faith in God's ultimate victory over his feeling and circumstances?
Reflect
3. It is commonly assumed today that depression is caused by physiological and neurological problems. But the Scriptures indicate that spiritual issues can actually produce physical and emotional symptoms of depression. Select two or three of those issues (top of page 205) and explain how they could contribute to symptoms of depression.
4. Describe an occasion whey you experienced physical or emotional symptoms related to depression, as a result of one or more of these spiritual issues.
5. Select two or three of the following "divine resources" and explain why they are important in dealing with depression: prayer, forgiveness, confession of sin, obedience, acceptance, yielding "rights", the body of Christ, God's grace, the Word, praise and faith.
6. Many Christians have experienced a "dark night of the soul", even while they are walking with God. Read Isaiah 50:10; Hebrews 4:14-16; and 12:3. According to God's Word, what should a believer do at such times?
Respond
7. Read Psalm 42:11. Write it in your own words below, putting your name where the psalmist says "O my soul". Write this verse on a card, and put it in a place where you will be reminded to quote it to yourself as needed.
Prayer of the Day
Lord, You are my Light in the darkness, my Hope in times of despair, and my Helper in life's most desperate hours. You life up my head. No matter how great the darkness I am experiencing emotionally, help me to look to You, to wait patiently for You, and to trust that You are faithful and that Your mercy and grace will sustain me. Amen.
Thursday, March 26, 2009
Day Four
Facing Life's Changing Seasons - pgs 200-203
Realize
1. Describe what happens to you during "that time of the month". What physical and emotional changes to you experience?
2. How do you normally respond to those changes? Do your actions generally affect your relationships positively or negatively? Explain.
3. In what ways do you try to excuse your behavior-either aloud or just to yourself-when you don't feel well physically?
Reflect
4. Read Psalm 139:1-18 and Luke 12:7. How well does God know you? How is His intimate knowledge of you comforting?
5. List some divine resources that are available when your body is changing and feel out of control (e.g., the grace of God).
Respond
6. What practical steps can you take to ensure that, even if you are experiencing physical changes and your emotions are swinging wildly, you do not act in a way that is displeasing to God or unloving toward others?
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I find it especially difficult to respond correctly to You and to others when certain changes are taking place in my body. I know that You created my body, that You control the changing cycles and seasons of life, and that You have the resources to help me through. Help me to honor You in each of those seasons. Amen.
Realize
1. Describe what happens to you during "that time of the month". What physical and emotional changes to you experience?
2. How do you normally respond to those changes? Do your actions generally affect your relationships positively or negatively? Explain.
3. In what ways do you try to excuse your behavior-either aloud or just to yourself-when you don't feel well physically?
Reflect
4. Read Psalm 139:1-18 and Luke 12:7. How well does God know you? How is His intimate knowledge of you comforting?
5. List some divine resources that are available when your body is changing and feel out of control (e.g., the grace of God).
Respond
6. What practical steps can you take to ensure that, even if you are experiencing physical changes and your emotions are swinging wildly, you do not act in a way that is displeasing to God or unloving toward others?
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I find it especially difficult to respond correctly to You and to others when certain changes are taking place in my body. I know that You created my body, that You control the changing cycles and seasons of life, and that You have the resources to help me through. Help me to honor You in each of those seasons. Amen.
Wednesday, March 25, 2009
Day Three
Expressing Your Emotions - pgs 197-199
Realize
1. The Psalms are rich with the personal, emotional outpourings of the psalmists' hearts. What emotions are expressed in the following verses?
Psalm 6:1-3; Psalm 9:1-2; Psalm 10:1; Psalm 51:1-2; Psalm 90:7-10; Psalm 118:24
Reflect
2. Why is it significant that, in each of the passages above, the psalmist pours out his heart to the Lord?
3. Read Psalm 6. How did David bring God into his emotional struggle? How can expressing our feelings to God help us deal with runaway emotions?
4. What truths about God helped David find emotional stability in Psalm 6?
5. Read 2 Peter 1:4. How can God's promises protect us from expressing our natural emotions in sinful ways?
6. Write down two biblical promises that you can turn to and rely on when you are feeling overwhelmed by negative emotions.
Respond
7. review the list of promises and commands of God's Word on pages 198-199. Which promise or command can you claim or obey today to help steady any emotions you are feeling that may not be based on the Truth?
Prayer of the Day
Thank You, Father, that I can pour our my heart to You when I am troubled. Thank You for the many promises and commands in Your Word that can protect me from sin. Help me to claim Your promises and look to You for grace to obey Your commands, regardless of what I may be feeling. Amen.
Realize
1. The Psalms are rich with the personal, emotional outpourings of the psalmists' hearts. What emotions are expressed in the following verses?
Psalm 6:1-3; Psalm 9:1-2; Psalm 10:1; Psalm 51:1-2; Psalm 90:7-10; Psalm 118:24
Reflect
2. Why is it significant that, in each of the passages above, the psalmist pours out his heart to the Lord?
3. Read Psalm 6. How did David bring God into his emotional struggle? How can expressing our feelings to God help us deal with runaway emotions?
4. What truths about God helped David find emotional stability in Psalm 6?
5. Read 2 Peter 1:4. How can God's promises protect us from expressing our natural emotions in sinful ways?
6. Write down two biblical promises that you can turn to and rely on when you are feeling overwhelmed by negative emotions.
Respond
7. review the list of promises and commands of God's Word on pages 198-199. Which promise or command can you claim or obey today to help steady any emotions you are feeling that may not be based on the Truth?
Prayer of the Day
Thank You, Father, that I can pour our my heart to You when I am troubled. Thank You for the many promises and commands in Your Word that can protect me from sin. Help me to claim Your promises and look to You for grace to obey Your commands, regardless of what I may be feeling. Amen.
Tuesday, March 24, 2009
Day Two
Controlling Your Emotions - pgs. 197-199
Realize
1. Describe a time when your emotions got the better of you-when you felt that your emotions were out of control.
2. How much do your emotions affect you actions on any given day?
Reflect
3. Ephesians 4:26 says, "In your anger do not sin." The Bible acknowledges the reality of anger, but God expects us to control how we react when we are angry. The emotion of anger itself is not the sin but often prompts a sinful response. Which emotions do you have the hardest time controlling? What are some sinful ways you express those emotions?
4. Describe an occasion when you acted on your feelings in a sinful way.
5. Read Isaiah 26:3; Philippians 4:8-9; and Colossians 3:1-2. How can we be free from the control of feelings that are not based on Truth? Why is it so important to control what we think about?
6. What positive steps does the Scripture exhort us to take in dealing with runaway emotions?
Respond
7. What can you do today to fix your mind, thoughts, and heart on God and His Truth?
Prayer of the Day
Father, sometimes my emotions do seem overwhelming. Thank You that I do not need to be controlled by my feelings. I pray that You will be Lord over every part of my life, including my emotions. Help me to set my thoughts and affections on You each moment of the day. Amen.
Realize
1. Describe a time when your emotions got the better of you-when you felt that your emotions were out of control.
2. How much do your emotions affect you actions on any given day?
Reflect
3. Ephesians 4:26 says, "In your anger do not sin." The Bible acknowledges the reality of anger, but God expects us to control how we react when we are angry. The emotion of anger itself is not the sin but often prompts a sinful response. Which emotions do you have the hardest time controlling? What are some sinful ways you express those emotions?
4. Describe an occasion when you acted on your feelings in a sinful way.
5. Read Isaiah 26:3; Philippians 4:8-9; and Colossians 3:1-2. How can we be free from the control of feelings that are not based on Truth? Why is it so important to control what we think about?
6. What positive steps does the Scripture exhort us to take in dealing with runaway emotions?
Respond
7. What can you do today to fix your mind, thoughts, and heart on God and His Truth?
Prayer of the Day
Father, sometimes my emotions do seem overwhelming. Thank You that I do not need to be controlled by my feelings. I pray that You will be Lord over every part of my life, including my emotions. Help me to set my thoughts and affections on You each moment of the day. Amen.
Monday, March 23, 2009
Handling Emotions - Day One
Discerning Your Emotions - pgs 193-197
Realize
1. Read Deuteronomy 4:24; Psalm 30:5; 36:5; and Matthew 26:38. What are some of the emotions God experiences? Why is it important to understand that god expresses emotions?
2. Because we are made in God's image (Genesis 1:27), what does that mean about our emotions?
Reflect
3. Read Psalm16:5-11. What words or phrases in this passage speak of positive emotional expressions? What causes such emotions to flow out of the psalmist's heart?
4. In what ways are our emotions tainted by the Fall? Describe how you have experienced that tainting of emotions in your life.
5. What are some of the things that can cause our feelings to fluctuate?
6. Why is it dangerous for us to live and act completely on the basis of our feelings?
7. Read Psalm 56:3-4. What is the role of faith in dealing with our emotions?
Respond
8. What is one feeling you have experienced recently that is not consistent with the Truth and needs to be rejected?
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I understand that my emotions are part of how You created me, yet many times they are unreliable because they are influenced by changing circumstances. Help me to reject any feelings that are not based on Truth and to trust Your Word rather than my feelings. Amen.
Realize
1. Read Deuteronomy 4:24; Psalm 30:5; 36:5; and Matthew 26:38. What are some of the emotions God experiences? Why is it important to understand that god expresses emotions?
2. Because we are made in God's image (Genesis 1:27), what does that mean about our emotions?
Reflect
3. Read Psalm16:5-11. What words or phrases in this passage speak of positive emotional expressions? What causes such emotions to flow out of the psalmist's heart?
4. In what ways are our emotions tainted by the Fall? Describe how you have experienced that tainting of emotions in your life.
5. What are some of the things that can cause our feelings to fluctuate?
6. Why is it dangerous for us to live and act completely on the basis of our feelings?
7. Read Psalm 56:3-4. What is the role of faith in dealing with our emotions?
Respond
8. What is one feeling you have experienced recently that is not consistent with the Truth and needs to be rejected?
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I understand that my emotions are part of how You created me, yet many times they are unreliable because they are influenced by changing circumstances. Help me to reject any feelings that are not based on Truth and to trust Your Word rather than my feelings. Amen.
Friday, March 20, 2009
Day Five
Shaping Your Children - pgs 182-187
Realize
1. Read 1 Thessalonians 1:2-6 and 2:3-13. This description of the apostle Paul's ministry has some striking applications for parents who want to see their children become followers of Christ. Record several insights from this passage about the qualities and actions of good discipleship.
2. According to these verses, what were the results of Paul's ministry in the lives of his spiritual children?
Reflect
3. One study indicated that eight out of ten young people who grow up in the church leave the church after high school, never to return. Why do you think so many children grow up in Christian homes, schools, and churches without ever developing a real heart for God?
4. Reread 1 Thessalonians 2:10. Paul recognized the impact of his example on these young believers. In what areas do you believe you have set a good example for your children? In what areas would you not want them to follow your example?
5. Read 1 Thessalonians 2:11-12. Why is it important to provide a balance of warm encouragement and firm admonition for those we lead? Which of these generally comes more easily for you with your children? Which do you need to provide more of?
Respond
6. What character and spiritual qualities do you want your children to have when they leave home? How can you be more intentional about developing those qualities in their lives?
7. If your children end up being a mirror reflection of you, what will they look like? What changes do you need to allow the Lord to make in your life so that you can say to your children, "Imitate me just as I also imitate Christ" (1 Corinthians 11:1)? (If you are really courageous, ask your children to answer these questions about their mother!)
Prayer of the Day
Lord, it is sobering to realize how much our children pick up from our lives, our values, and our walk with You. Please do whatever is needed to make me the mother that my children need. May my life create in them a desire to know and follow You. Please work in their lives to draw them to you, that our family may reflect Your light to others. Amen.
Realize
1. Read 1 Thessalonians 1:2-6 and 2:3-13. This description of the apostle Paul's ministry has some striking applications for parents who want to see their children become followers of Christ. Record several insights from this passage about the qualities and actions of good discipleship.
2. According to these verses, what were the results of Paul's ministry in the lives of his spiritual children?
Reflect
3. One study indicated that eight out of ten young people who grow up in the church leave the church after high school, never to return. Why do you think so many children grow up in Christian homes, schools, and churches without ever developing a real heart for God?
4. Reread 1 Thessalonians 2:10. Paul recognized the impact of his example on these young believers. In what areas do you believe you have set a good example for your children? In what areas would you not want them to follow your example?
5. Read 1 Thessalonians 2:11-12. Why is it important to provide a balance of warm encouragement and firm admonition for those we lead? Which of these generally comes more easily for you with your children? Which do you need to provide more of?
Respond
6. What character and spiritual qualities do you want your children to have when they leave home? How can you be more intentional about developing those qualities in their lives?
7. If your children end up being a mirror reflection of you, what will they look like? What changes do you need to allow the Lord to make in your life so that you can say to your children, "Imitate me just as I also imitate Christ" (1 Corinthians 11:1)? (If you are really courageous, ask your children to answer these questions about their mother!)
Prayer of the Day
Lord, it is sobering to realize how much our children pick up from our lives, our values, and our walk with You. Please do whatever is needed to make me the mother that my children need. May my life create in them a desire to know and follow You. Please work in their lives to draw them to you, that our family may reflect Your light to others. Amen.
Thursday, March 19, 2009
Day Four
Your Children's Faith - pgs 179-182
Realize
1. According to the following verses, what are some of the evidences of genuine conversion?
* 2 Corinthians 5:17
* Hebrews 3:14
* 1 John 2:3-5
* 1 John 3:14-15
* 1 John 4:13,15
Reflect
2. Before parents can pray wisely about the spiritual condition of their children, they must have assurance of their own salvation. Based on the Scriptures above, what evidence does your life give of genuine conversion?
3. The Bible makes it clear that those who call upon the Lord are saved - and that applies to small children as well (Luke 18:16; Romans 10:13). How can parents encourage their children to place their trust in Christ without pushing them into a "decision" apart from the true conviction of sin and the drawing of the Spirit?
4. If your children are strong in their faith, how should you pray for them? if your children have not become believers or are living in ways that contradict their profession of faith, how should you pray for them?
5. Why is it important for parents to give their children spiritual training right from the start? What does the Bible say about training up our children (Proverbs 22:6; Ephesians 6:4)?
Respond
6. If your child is living apart from Christ, why is it dangerous to turn a blind eye to his need for salvation, assuming that in time he will return? What do you think God wants you to do for your straying child today? What does He promise (John 6:39; 2 Peter 3:9)?
Prayer of the Day
Father, I want all of my children to become Your true children. I pray that Your Spirit will bring each of my children to a point of genuine conviction and conversion. May the fruit of my conversion and theirs be evident in the way we live. Amen
Realize
1. According to the following verses, what are some of the evidences of genuine conversion?
* 2 Corinthians 5:17
* Hebrews 3:14
* 1 John 2:3-5
* 1 John 3:14-15
* 1 John 4:13,15
Reflect
2. Before parents can pray wisely about the spiritual condition of their children, they must have assurance of their own salvation. Based on the Scriptures above, what evidence does your life give of genuine conversion?
3. The Bible makes it clear that those who call upon the Lord are saved - and that applies to small children as well (Luke 18:16; Romans 10:13). How can parents encourage their children to place their trust in Christ without pushing them into a "decision" apart from the true conviction of sin and the drawing of the Spirit?
4. If your children are strong in their faith, how should you pray for them? if your children have not become believers or are living in ways that contradict their profession of faith, how should you pray for them?
5. Why is it important for parents to give their children spiritual training right from the start? What does the Bible say about training up our children (Proverbs 22:6; Ephesians 6:4)?
Respond
6. If your child is living apart from Christ, why is it dangerous to turn a blind eye to his need for salvation, assuming that in time he will return? What do you think God wants you to do for your straying child today? What does He promise (John 6:39; 2 Peter 3:9)?
Prayer of the Day
Father, I want all of my children to become Your true children. I pray that Your Spirit will bring each of my children to a point of genuine conviction and conversion. May the fruit of my conversion and theirs be evident in the way we live. Amen
Wednesday, March 18, 2009
Day Three
Avoiding Rebellion - pgs 176-179
Realize
1. Read Psalm 78:1-7. Describe the responsibility god gives parents for their children and grandchildren. What outcome does the psalmist encourage parents to anticipate as a results of their obedience? What resources does God make available to fulfill this responsibility?
2. Read Genesis 18:17-19. What vision did God give Abraham for his role as a father and for his children and the generations to follow?
Reflect
3. God has not left parents without the necessary resources to fulfill their calling with their children. He gives parents His Spirit, His Word, faith, prayer, humility, discipline, instruction, the power of godly modeling, love, the grace of God, and the body of Christ. Select two or three of these resources that you need to take greater advantage of in your home. Explain how each could assist you in leading your children to follow Christ.
4. The promises of God are another resource for parents. read Psalm 103:17-18 and Acts 2:39. How do these verses give hope to parents who walk with God?
Respond
5. If you have a child who is rebelling, how can you best help him through this difficult time so that he has the least amount of regrets or lifelong consequences?
6. In what ways can you give each of your children a vision of the purpose and plans God as for his or her life?
Prayer of the Day
Father, I cry out to You on behalf of my children and plead with You for wisdom to know how to lead them. Help me to communicate Your ways to them, and show me how to rely on Your resources. I pray that You will open their hearts to the Truth, that their wills will be brought into submission to Yours, and that You will protect them from choices they will one day regret. Amen.
Realize
1. Read Psalm 78:1-7. Describe the responsibility god gives parents for their children and grandchildren. What outcome does the psalmist encourage parents to anticipate as a results of their obedience? What resources does God make available to fulfill this responsibility?
2. Read Genesis 18:17-19. What vision did God give Abraham for his role as a father and for his children and the generations to follow?
Reflect
3. God has not left parents without the necessary resources to fulfill their calling with their children. He gives parents His Spirit, His Word, faith, prayer, humility, discipline, instruction, the power of godly modeling, love, the grace of God, and the body of Christ. Select two or three of these resources that you need to take greater advantage of in your home. Explain how each could assist you in leading your children to follow Christ.
4. The promises of God are another resource for parents. read Psalm 103:17-18 and Acts 2:39. How do these verses give hope to parents who walk with God?
Respond
5. If you have a child who is rebelling, how can you best help him through this difficult time so that he has the least amount of regrets or lifelong consequences?
6. In what ways can you give each of your children a vision of the purpose and plans God as for his or her life?
Prayer of the Day
Father, I cry out to You on behalf of my children and plead with You for wisdom to know how to lead them. Help me to communicate Your ways to them, and show me how to rely on Your resources. I pray that You will open their hearts to the Truth, that their wills will be brought into submission to Yours, and that You will protect them from choices they will one day regret. Amen.
Tuesday, March 17, 2009
Day Two
Protecting Your Children - pgs 173-176
Realize
1. Children are a valuable treasure; they must be carefully protected, cared for, and nurtured. As you would protect a delicate seedling from winter storms and regularly give it water, what are some things you can do to care for your precious seedlings" - your children?
* Protect them
* Give them
2. Read Psalm 101. In your own words, summarize what these verses say about the environment parents should seek to create in their homes.
3. Read Psalm 92:13-15. What encouragement do these verses give to parents who seek to raise their children in a Christ-centered environment?
Reflect
4. While God does not intend for us to know evil by experiencing it ourselves, our children need to understand that evil exists and to learn to discern between good and evil. How can parents help their children develop that kind of discernment without exposing them to influences from which they should be protected?
5. Read Matthew 5:13-16. What are some practical ways you can give your children a vision for becoming a righteous influence in an unrighteous world?
Respond
6. If you have children still living at home, prayerfully consider the various influences in their lives. Ask the Lord to show you any negative influences from which they need to be protected and any positive influences that need to be added. Write down any specifics He brings to mind.
* Entertainment (TV, movies, computer games, Internet)
* Reading (books, magazines)
* Music
* Friends
* Education (school, teachers, textbooks)
* Atmosphere and example in the home
Prayer of the Day
Lord, please make me discerning and alert to protect my children from evil influences, even if that means being different than others around us. Give my children a desire for what is holy, true, and good. Help me to model right choices for them. I pray that my children will grow up to love You with all their hearts and to bring You glory in this world. Amen.
Realize
1. Children are a valuable treasure; they must be carefully protected, cared for, and nurtured. As you would protect a delicate seedling from winter storms and regularly give it water, what are some things you can do to care for your precious seedlings" - your children?
* Protect them
* Give them
2. Read Psalm 101. In your own words, summarize what these verses say about the environment parents should seek to create in their homes.
3. Read Psalm 92:13-15. What encouragement do these verses give to parents who seek to raise their children in a Christ-centered environment?
Reflect
4. While God does not intend for us to know evil by experiencing it ourselves, our children need to understand that evil exists and to learn to discern between good and evil. How can parents help their children develop that kind of discernment without exposing them to influences from which they should be protected?
5. Read Matthew 5:13-16. What are some practical ways you can give your children a vision for becoming a righteous influence in an unrighteous world?
Respond
6. If you have children still living at home, prayerfully consider the various influences in their lives. Ask the Lord to show you any negative influences from which they need to be protected and any positive influences that need to be added. Write down any specifics He brings to mind.
* Entertainment (TV, movies, computer games, Internet)
* Reading (books, magazines)
* Music
* Friends
* Education (school, teachers, textbooks)
* Atmosphere and example in the home
Prayer of the Day
Lord, please make me discerning and alert to protect my children from evil influences, even if that means being different than others around us. Give my children a desire for what is holy, true, and good. Help me to model right choices for them. I pray that my children will grow up to love You with all their hearts and to bring You glory in this world. Amen.
Monday, March 16, 2009
Raising Children
The Blessing of Children - pgs 167-172
Note: Again in this chapter, simply skip any questions that do not apply to you if you are not a mom.
Realize
1. Read the following verses: Psalm 113:9; 127:3-5; and Matthew 19:13-15. What do they tell us about God's view of children?
2. How is the world's view of children different than God's view?
Reflect
3. This issue is probably the most controversial one addressed in Lies Women Believe. Why do you think this subject evokes such a strong reaction from so many women?
4. What are some of the factors that commonly influence people's decisions about the size and timing of their family? Put a check mark next to any factors that have influenced your decisions in this area.
5. the Scripture does not explicitly address the subject of birth control (except for the instance when Pharaoh forbade Jewish women from having children). However, it has much to say about children and childbearing: for example,
* children are a blessing and a gift from God;
* they are primary means of passing the faith from one generation to the next;
* God is the One who opens and shuts the womb; childbearing is a primary purpose of marriage (Malachi 2:15);
* the willingness to bear children is a vital evidence of a woman's faith (1 Timothy 2:15; 5:14).
We also know that God is sovereign and that He can be trusted (Jeremiah 29:11). What implications would these truths have for a couple as they make decisions related to childbearing?
Respond
6. Would you say that your decisions in relation to childbearing have been based on...
* fear or faith?
* natural, human reasoning or biblical thinking?
* selfish motives or a commitment to the kingdom of God?
* personal emotions and desires or a sincere desire to honor God?
7. If you have any doubt or confusion as to whether your position on childbearing is pleasing to the Lord, write out a prayer asking God to show you the Truth and to give you the faith and courage to walk in the Truth.
8. Sometimes it's easy to forget that your children really are a blessing? If you have children, write their names and ages below. Next to each name write a phrase or two explaining how that child has been a blessing to you.
Prayer of the Day
Lord, thank You for the gift of children. Help me to welcome them even as You do. Show me how to fulfill my calling as a woman - to be the bearer and nurturer of life, whether that means having physical children of my own or "mothering" spiritual children You entrust in me. Amen.
Note: Again in this chapter, simply skip any questions that do not apply to you if you are not a mom.
Realize
1. Read the following verses: Psalm 113:9; 127:3-5; and Matthew 19:13-15. What do they tell us about God's view of children?
2. How is the world's view of children different than God's view?
Reflect
3. This issue is probably the most controversial one addressed in Lies Women Believe. Why do you think this subject evokes such a strong reaction from so many women?
4. What are some of the factors that commonly influence people's decisions about the size and timing of their family? Put a check mark next to any factors that have influenced your decisions in this area.
5. the Scripture does not explicitly address the subject of birth control (except for the instance when Pharaoh forbade Jewish women from having children). However, it has much to say about children and childbearing: for example,
* children are a blessing and a gift from God;
* they are primary means of passing the faith from one generation to the next;
* God is the One who opens and shuts the womb; childbearing is a primary purpose of marriage (Malachi 2:15);
* the willingness to bear children is a vital evidence of a woman's faith (1 Timothy 2:15; 5:14).
We also know that God is sovereign and that He can be trusted (Jeremiah 29:11). What implications would these truths have for a couple as they make decisions related to childbearing?
Respond
6. Would you say that your decisions in relation to childbearing have been based on...
* fear or faith?
* natural, human reasoning or biblical thinking?
* selfish motives or a commitment to the kingdom of God?
* personal emotions and desires or a sincere desire to honor God?
7. If you have any doubt or confusion as to whether your position on childbearing is pleasing to the Lord, write out a prayer asking God to show you the Truth and to give you the faith and courage to walk in the Truth.
8. Sometimes it's easy to forget that your children really are a blessing? If you have children, write their names and ages below. Next to each name write a phrase or two explaining how that child has been a blessing to you.
Prayer of the Day
Lord, thank You for the gift of children. Help me to welcome them even as You do. Show me how to fulfill my calling as a woman - to be the bearer and nurturer of life, whether that means having physical children of my own or "mothering" spiritual children You entrust in me. Amen.
Friday, March 13, 2009
Day Five
The Covenant of Marriage - pgs 156-161
Realize
1. Read and summarize what the Bible says about marriage in Genesis 2:18-24; Malachi 2:13-16; and Mark 10:2-12. Why is marriage a lifetime, binding relationship? How does divorce mar God's design?
2. What does Ecclesiastes 5:4-6 tell us about God's perspective on vows? What are the consequences of breaking a vow? (Note: If physical danger or abuse is involved, a woman should seek protection, direction and intervention from the appropriate civil and/or spiritual authorities, rather than attempting to handle the situation on her own.)
Reflect
3. Read Psalm 89:33-34 and Isaiah 54:10. What do these verses tell us about the character of God? What are the implications for our lives, as we seek to be like Him and reflect His image in our marriage?
4. Review the list of truths about marriage on pgs 159-160. In your own words, write out any that apply to a challenge you may be facing in your marriage or that you could share with a friend who is in a difficult marriage.
Respond
5. In prayer, claim these truths, and ask God to help you to be faithful to Him and to your mate, no matter how difficult it may feel. In your own words, express below your commitment to be faithful to you marriage vows and to reflect the covenant-keeping heart of God.
Note: If you are divorced, remember that the grace of God can turn "ashes to beauty." He loves you and wants the very best for you. If your husband violated his vow toward you, what steps can you take toward completely forgiving him and finding healing and wholeness in Christ? If you were responsible for breaking your marriage vow, what steps do you need to take to be right with God and with your husband?
Prayer of the Day
Thank You, Lord, for being faithful, even when we are unfaithful to You. I recognize that we need Your presence and power if our marriage is going to reflect You and bring You glory. Please give me grace to be faithful to You and faithful to my husband. In the difficult times, help me to walk in humility, love, and forgiveness, and to trust You to work in our lives and our marriage. Amen.
Realize
1. Read and summarize what the Bible says about marriage in Genesis 2:18-24; Malachi 2:13-16; and Mark 10:2-12. Why is marriage a lifetime, binding relationship? How does divorce mar God's design?
2. What does Ecclesiastes 5:4-6 tell us about God's perspective on vows? What are the consequences of breaking a vow? (Note: If physical danger or abuse is involved, a woman should seek protection, direction and intervention from the appropriate civil and/or spiritual authorities, rather than attempting to handle the situation on her own.)
Reflect
3. Read Psalm 89:33-34 and Isaiah 54:10. What do these verses tell us about the character of God? What are the implications for our lives, as we seek to be like Him and reflect His image in our marriage?
4. Review the list of truths about marriage on pgs 159-160. In your own words, write out any that apply to a challenge you may be facing in your marriage or that you could share with a friend who is in a difficult marriage.
Respond
5. In prayer, claim these truths, and ask God to help you to be faithful to Him and to your mate, no matter how difficult it may feel. In your own words, express below your commitment to be faithful to you marriage vows and to reflect the covenant-keeping heart of God.
Note: If you are divorced, remember that the grace of God can turn "ashes to beauty." He loves you and wants the very best for you. If your husband violated his vow toward you, what steps can you take toward completely forgiving him and finding healing and wholeness in Christ? If you were responsible for breaking your marriage vow, what steps do you need to take to be right with God and with your husband?
Prayer of the Day
Thank You, Lord, for being faithful, even when we are unfaithful to You. I recognize that we need Your presence and power if our marriage is going to reflect You and bring You glory. Please give me grace to be faithful to You and faithful to my husband. In the difficult times, help me to walk in humility, love, and forgiveness, and to trust You to work in our lives and our marriage. Amen.
Thursday, March 12, 2009
Day Four
The Power of Submission - pgs 146-156
Realize
1. Read Ephesians 5:22-23. In what ways should a Christian marriage be a picture of the redemptive relationship between Christ and His church?
2. According to verses 22 and 33, what are the two ways wives are called to respond to their husbands?
Reflect
3. How does submission to God-ordained authority reveal that we are trusting in God?
4. What happens when a woman becomes frustrated with her husband's leadership (or lack of leadership) and takes matters into her own hands? How does that affect her, her husband, and their relationship?
Respond
5. Married women: What is one specific area where you need to pray and wait on the Lord to change your husband's heart, rather than jumping in to handle the matter yourself?
Unmarried women: Even apart from marriage, women can affirm appropriate male leadership by making room for men to take initiative. What is one way you can do this in your relationship with a man such as your father, your employer or your pastor?
6. Married women: How do your responses and your attitude toward your husband measure up to the standard of Ephesians 5?
Unmarried women: How well are you submitting to whatever human authorities God has placed over you?
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I confess that I often struggle against submission. Help me to show my submission to You by the way I respond to my husband's leadership. Thank You that even when my husband (or another authority) fails, I can trust You to protect me as I walk in submission to Your Word. Amen.
Realize
1. Read Ephesians 5:22-23. In what ways should a Christian marriage be a picture of the redemptive relationship between Christ and His church?
2. According to verses 22 and 33, what are the two ways wives are called to respond to their husbands?
Reflect
3. How does submission to God-ordained authority reveal that we are trusting in God?
4. What happens when a woman becomes frustrated with her husband's leadership (or lack of leadership) and takes matters into her own hands? How does that affect her, her husband, and their relationship?
Respond
5. Married women: What is one specific area where you need to pray and wait on the Lord to change your husband's heart, rather than jumping in to handle the matter yourself?
Unmarried women: Even apart from marriage, women can affirm appropriate male leadership by making room for men to take initiative. What is one way you can do this in your relationship with a man such as your father, your employer or your pastor?
6. Married women: How do your responses and your attitude toward your husband measure up to the standard of Ephesians 5?
Unmarried women: How well are you submitting to whatever human authorities God has placed over you?
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I confess that I often struggle against submission. Help me to show my submission to You by the way I respond to my husband's leadership. Thank You that even when my husband (or another authority) fails, I can trust You to protect me as I walk in submission to Your Word. Amen.
Wednesday, March 11, 2009
Day Three
A Virtuous Woman - pgs 142-145
Realize
1. Read Matthew 20:28; John 13:1-5, 12-17; and Philippians 2:5-7. What does it mean to be a servant? How did Jesus demonstrate the heart of a servant? What do we learn from His example about our calling as His followers?
Reflect
2. According to Genesis 2:18, God made the woman to be a "helper suitable" to her husband. What are some practical ways a wife might fulfill that role?
3. The virtuous woman in Proverbs 31:10-31 is probably a composite of the virtuous qualities in many women. What can you learn from her about serving our husband and family?
4. How can a woman develop and maintain a servant's heart when she feels that she is being taken advantage of or that no one appreciates what she does?
Respond
5. What are five practical ways you can demonstrate the servant heart of Jesus toward your husband this week?
6. List some ways that your husband serves you. How will you thank him for those acts of service?
Prayer of the Day
Lord Jesus, You came to this earth to be a servant. I want to be like You. Yet serving is difficult sometimes: it can be such a thankless and lonely job. Help me to serve my husband and family as if I were serving You. Amen.
Realize
1. Read Matthew 20:28; John 13:1-5, 12-17; and Philippians 2:5-7. What does it mean to be a servant? How did Jesus demonstrate the heart of a servant? What do we learn from His example about our calling as His followers?
Reflect
2. According to Genesis 2:18, God made the woman to be a "helper suitable" to her husband. What are some practical ways a wife might fulfill that role?
3. The virtuous woman in Proverbs 31:10-31 is probably a composite of the virtuous qualities in many women. What can you learn from her about serving our husband and family?
4. How can a woman develop and maintain a servant's heart when she feels that she is being taken advantage of or that no one appreciates what she does?
Respond
5. What are five practical ways you can demonstrate the servant heart of Jesus toward your husband this week?
6. List some ways that your husband serves you. How will you thank him for those acts of service?
Prayer of the Day
Lord Jesus, You came to this earth to be a servant. I want to be like You. Yet serving is difficult sometimes: it can be such a thankless and lonely job. Help me to serve my husband and family as if I were serving You. Amen.
Tuesday, March 10, 2009
Day Two
Letting Go - pgs 140-142
Realize
1. While our intentions in wanting to change our husbands may be good in our own eyes, what does the Bible say about women who constantly harp on their husbands? (Read Proverbs 17:1; 19:13; 21:9.)
Reflect
2. Do you feel frustrated by things in your husband's life that you wish would change? If so, how have you been handling those feelings (e.g., ignoring them, ignoring him, nagging, telling your friends, worrying, etc.)?
3. What perspective and hope does Proverbs 21:1 offer about these things that need to be changed in your husband's life?
4. In what ways could living a godly life before your husband be beneficial for both him and you?
5. In what ways can you pray for your husband so that you are truly turning your burden over to the Lord? What if you don't see any answers for years?
Respond
6. Read Matthew 7:1-5. Would you want God and others to deal with your imperfections in the same way you deal with your husband's flaws?
7. What "plank" may you have missed in your own eye, while you have been so focused on trying to get rid of the "speck" in your husband's eye? Ask God to help you see the things in your life that need to be changed.
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I understand that I need to let You work in my life and in my husband's life. Help me not to be nagging, accusatory, or angry. Teach me how to life an upright life before my husband and to bring the burdens I feel about him to You in prayer. Lord, help me to wait on You and trust you to fulfill Your purposes in both our lives. Amen.
Realize
1. While our intentions in wanting to change our husbands may be good in our own eyes, what does the Bible say about women who constantly harp on their husbands? (Read Proverbs 17:1; 19:13; 21:9.)
Reflect
2. Do you feel frustrated by things in your husband's life that you wish would change? If so, how have you been handling those feelings (e.g., ignoring them, ignoring him, nagging, telling your friends, worrying, etc.)?
3. What perspective and hope does Proverbs 21:1 offer about these things that need to be changed in your husband's life?
4. In what ways could living a godly life before your husband be beneficial for both him and you?
5. In what ways can you pray for your husband so that you are truly turning your burden over to the Lord? What if you don't see any answers for years?
Respond
6. Read Matthew 7:1-5. Would you want God and others to deal with your imperfections in the same way you deal with your husband's flaws?
7. What "plank" may you have missed in your own eye, while you have been so focused on trying to get rid of the "speck" in your husband's eye? Ask God to help you see the things in your life that need to be changed.
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I understand that I need to let You work in my life and in my husband's life. Help me not to be nagging, accusatory, or angry. Teach me how to life an upright life before my husband and to bring the burdens I feel about him to You in prayer. Lord, help me to wait on You and trust you to fulfill Your purposes in both our lives. Amen.
Monday, March 9, 2009
Honoring God In My Marriage
Expectations of Marriage - pgs 135-140
Note: If you are not currently married, feel free to skip over any questions in this week's study that do not apply directly to you.
Realize
1. How does our culture promote unrealistic expectations of marriage?
2. What is an expectation you had prior to marriage that you found to be unrealistic after getting married?
Reflect
3. Read Psalm 62:5; 118:8-9; and Jeremiah 17:5-8. Why is it foolish to look to people to satisfy us and meet our needs? Where should we focus our expectations?
4. Reflect on your marriage or, if you aren't married, on your desire for a husband. Are you expecting a man to meet needs in you life that only God can meet? What are those needs?
Respond
5. Have you made your husband a prisoner of your expectations by putting pressure on his to satisfy you and make you happy? Ask God to help you release your husband, and choose to place your hope wholly in God.
6. What is the ultimate source of true happiness? What biblical counsel would you give to a woman who says her husband is not making her happy? To a single woman who is finding it difficult to be content without a husband?
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I thank You for my situation in life. I pray that You will help me not to look to other people to meet my needs but to look only to You. I realize that no human being can control my happiness; ultimately, I may choose to live in joy because of my relationship with You. Amen
Note: If you are not currently married, feel free to skip over any questions in this week's study that do not apply directly to you.
Realize
1. How does our culture promote unrealistic expectations of marriage?
2. What is an expectation you had prior to marriage that you found to be unrealistic after getting married?
Reflect
3. Read Psalm 62:5; 118:8-9; and Jeremiah 17:5-8. Why is it foolish to look to people to satisfy us and meet our needs? Where should we focus our expectations?
4. Reflect on your marriage or, if you aren't married, on your desire for a husband. Are you expecting a man to meet needs in you life that only God can meet? What are those needs?
Respond
5. Have you made your husband a prisoner of your expectations by putting pressure on his to satisfy you and make you happy? Ask God to help you release your husband, and choose to place your hope wholly in God.
6. What is the ultimate source of true happiness? What biblical counsel would you give to a woman who says her husband is not making her happy? To a single woman who is finding it difficult to be content without a husband?
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I thank You for my situation in life. I pray that You will help me not to look to other people to meet my needs but to look only to You. I realize that no human being can control my happiness; ultimately, I may choose to live in joy because of my relationship with You. Amen
Friday, March 6, 2009
Day Five
The Heart of Your Home - pgs 124-131
Realize
1. Read and meditate on Proverbs 31:10-31. These are not requiring you to be superwoman; instead, they present a portrait of a woman whose life is ordered around God-honoring priorities. What do you learn from her about the priorities of a woman who "fears the Lord"?
Reflect
2. What are some of the consequences our culture has reaped as a result of women's hearts being lured away from their homes?
3. Why is the family so important in God's economy? Why are the roles of "wife" and "mother" so vital in building strong homes?
4. What are some practical ways women can demonstrate the priority they place on their roles as wives and mothers?
Respond
5. For wives and moms: Ask God to show you if there are any secondary priorities that have infringed on your primary calling as a wife and mother. Record anything He places on your heart. What changes do you need to make in order to be faithful in fulfilling your responsibility to your family?
6. For single women without children: As a part of the body of Christ, how can you encourage other women in their callings as wives and mothers? What are some practical ways you can invest your time and energies in the family of God?
Prayer of the Day
Thank You, Lord, for the distinctive calling You have given to women in their homes. I want to fulfill the role for which You created me. If there are changes I need to make in my priories, please show me what I need to do and give me the courage to do it. Help me to make our home a safe harbor for my family. Come into our home and make it a place where You are known and loved and revealed. Amen.
Realize
1. Read and meditate on Proverbs 31:10-31. These are not requiring you to be superwoman; instead, they present a portrait of a woman whose life is ordered around God-honoring priorities. What do you learn from her about the priorities of a woman who "fears the Lord"?
Reflect
2. What are some of the consequences our culture has reaped as a result of women's hearts being lured away from their homes?
3. Why is the family so important in God's economy? Why are the roles of "wife" and "mother" so vital in building strong homes?
4. What are some practical ways women can demonstrate the priority they place on their roles as wives and mothers?
Respond
5. For wives and moms: Ask God to show you if there are any secondary priorities that have infringed on your primary calling as a wife and mother. Record anything He places on your heart. What changes do you need to make in order to be faithful in fulfilling your responsibility to your family?
6. For single women without children: As a part of the body of Christ, how can you encourage other women in their callings as wives and mothers? What are some practical ways you can invest your time and energies in the family of God?
Prayer of the Day
Thank You, Lord, for the distinctive calling You have given to women in their homes. I want to fulfill the role for which You created me. If there are changes I need to make in my priories, please show me what I need to do and give me the courage to do it. Help me to make our home a safe harbor for my family. Come into our home and make it a place where You are known and loved and revealed. Amen.
Thursday, March 5, 2009
Day Four
Time in Prayer - pgs 121-124
Realize
1. Read Matthew 14:23; Mark 1:35; and Luke 6:12; 9:28. Jesus had a habit of going off alone to pray. Why do you think prayer was such a priority for Jesus?
2. Read 1 Samuel 23:2,4 and Psalm 5:3. How is David's life an example of the importance of prayer?
Reflect
3. Do you have a daily habit of spending time alone with God, reading His Word and praying? If not, what usually gets in the way?
4. Think about a day when you tried to "run on your own steam." How did things go? In what ways is your life different when you spend time along talking with God?
Respond
5. How can you follow Jesus' example regarding time alone with God?
6. If you are struggling with having a regular quite time because of a busy schedule, then schedule it. Ask the Lord to lead you as to when is the best time for you. Write down a specific time each day that you will set aside for an appointment with God.
Prayer of the Day
Father, I want to cultivate a more intimate relationship with You. Please teach me to pray. Give me the desire and the discipline to spend time each day communicating with You. Amen.
Realize
1. Read Matthew 14:23; Mark 1:35; and Luke 6:12; 9:28. Jesus had a habit of going off alone to pray. Why do you think prayer was such a priority for Jesus?
2. Read 1 Samuel 23:2,4 and Psalm 5:3. How is David's life an example of the importance of prayer?
Reflect
3. Do you have a daily habit of spending time alone with God, reading His Word and praying? If not, what usually gets in the way?
4. Think about a day when you tried to "run on your own steam." How did things go? In what ways is your life different when you spend time along talking with God?
Respond
5. How can you follow Jesus' example regarding time alone with God?
6. If you are struggling with having a regular quite time because of a busy schedule, then schedule it. Ask the Lord to lead you as to when is the best time for you. Write down a specific time each day that you will set aside for an appointment with God.
Prayer of the Day
Father, I want to cultivate a more intimate relationship with You. Please teach me to pray. Give me the desire and the discipline to spend time each day communicating with You. Amen.
Wednesday, March 4, 2009
Day Three
Time in the Word - pgs 121-124
Realize
1. According to the following verses in Psalm 119, what are some of the characteristics and functions of the Word of God? v. 9; vv. 25, 28; vv. 50, 52; v. 72; vv. 98-100; vv. 104, 130; v. 165
Reflect
2. Read Job 23:12 and Matthew 4:4. What do these verses help us understand about the priority of consistent intake of the Word of God into our lives? In what sense is "feeding" on the Word even more important than eating physical food?
3. Describe your current season of life. (In other words, you're chasing toddlers all day, you're working, you're running kids to and from activities, you're an empty nester.) Considering your current season, list below several specific areas in your life where you need God's help, guidance, wisdom, or comfort.
4. As you look over your list, what are some ways the Word of God could meet your current needs?
Respond
5. What phrase best describes your spiritual condition, based on your intake of God's Word over the past six months?
* seriously malnourished - almost no nourishment
* poor diet - barely subsisting on minimal levels
* healthy - consistent, balanced diet
6. What practical action can you take to increase your daily intake of the Word of God and make your time alone with Him a greater priority?
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I realize my need to spend time in Your Word every day. Please give me a greater hunger to read and meditate on Your Word. Speak to me through its pages. Change my life as I encounter You in Your Word. Amen.
Realize
1. According to the following verses in Psalm 119, what are some of the characteristics and functions of the Word of God? v. 9; vv. 25, 28; vv. 50, 52; v. 72; vv. 98-100; vv. 104, 130; v. 165
Reflect
2. Read Job 23:12 and Matthew 4:4. What do these verses help us understand about the priority of consistent intake of the Word of God into our lives? In what sense is "feeding" on the Word even more important than eating physical food?
3. Describe your current season of life. (In other words, you're chasing toddlers all day, you're working, you're running kids to and from activities, you're an empty nester.) Considering your current season, list below several specific areas in your life where you need God's help, guidance, wisdom, or comfort.
4. As you look over your list, what are some ways the Word of God could meet your current needs?
Respond
5. What phrase best describes your spiritual condition, based on your intake of God's Word over the past six months?
* seriously malnourished - almost no nourishment
* poor diet - barely subsisting on minimal levels
* healthy - consistent, balanced diet
6. What practical action can you take to increase your daily intake of the Word of God and make your time alone with Him a greater priority?
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I realize my need to spend time in Your Word every day. Please give me a greater hunger to read and meditate on Your Word. Speak to me through its pages. Change my life as I encounter You in Your Word. Amen.
Tuesday, March 3, 2009
Day Two
Jesus' Example - pgs 117-121
Realize
1. Near the end of His earthly ministry, Jesus said to His Father, "I have glorified You on the earth. I have finished the work which You have given Me to do" (John 17:4 NKJV). What does this verse reveal about Jesus' goals and priorities for His life?
2. According to Acts 20:24, how were the apostle Paul's goals and priorities similar to those of the Lord Jesus?
Reflect
3. If your goal in life is to glorify God and to finish the work He has given you to do, how should that affect your daily schedule and the way you use your time?
4. What helpful insight does Ephesians 2:10 give regarding the specific responsibilities and activities of believers? What difference can this perspective make as you seek to live a well-ordered, godly life?
Respond
5. Describe your typical day (or week). List the activities in which you are involved on a regular basis.
6. Consider the activities about that are "negotiable." Does each of these activities for in with you (and God's) priorities? Why or why not?
7. Prioritize each of the negotiable activities by ranking them with numbers. Are you tending to the top priorities? If not, what can you do now in order to simplify your schedule and your life so that you are acting on what is most important? Ask God what adjustments He wants you to make in your schedule, so that you can be sure you are glorifying Him and fulfilling His agenda for your life.
8. What do you need to do in order to be able to go to bed each night and say, "Today I finished the work that the Lord gave me to do"?
Prayer of the Day
Lord, You know my schedule and all the demands that seem to come at me from every direction. Please help me make wise choices regarding my daily activities, so that at the end of the day I can say that I finished the work that You gave me to do. Amen.
Realize
1. Near the end of His earthly ministry, Jesus said to His Father, "I have glorified You on the earth. I have finished the work which You have given Me to do" (John 17:4 NKJV). What does this verse reveal about Jesus' goals and priorities for His life?
2. According to Acts 20:24, how were the apostle Paul's goals and priorities similar to those of the Lord Jesus?
Reflect
3. If your goal in life is to glorify God and to finish the work He has given you to do, how should that affect your daily schedule and the way you use your time?
4. What helpful insight does Ephesians 2:10 give regarding the specific responsibilities and activities of believers? What difference can this perspective make as you seek to live a well-ordered, godly life?
Respond
5. Describe your typical day (or week). List the activities in which you are involved on a regular basis.
6. Consider the activities about that are "negotiable." Does each of these activities for in with you (and God's) priorities? Why or why not?
7. Prioritize each of the negotiable activities by ranking them with numbers. Are you tending to the top priorities? If not, what can you do now in order to simplify your schedule and your life so that you are acting on what is most important? Ask God what adjustments He wants you to make in your schedule, so that you can be sure you are glorifying Him and fulfilling His agenda for your life.
8. What do you need to do in order to be able to go to bed each night and say, "Today I finished the work that the Lord gave me to do"?
Prayer of the Day
Lord, You know my schedule and all the demands that seem to come at me from every direction. Please help me make wise choices regarding my daily activities, so that at the end of the day I can say that I finished the work that You gave me to do. Amen.
Monday, March 2, 2009
Setting Priorities - Day One
God's Priorities - pgs 115-121
Realize
1. On a scale of 1-5,where do you generally fall on each of the following categories, as it relates to your priorities, your schedule and your use of time?
1 being peaceful, calm and 5 being stressed and frazzled.
1 being well ordered and 5 being out of control
1 being purposeful use of time and 5 being reacting to life
1 being good steward of time and 5 being waste a lot of time
1 being balanced priorities and 5 being overwhelmed by demands
1 being fulfilling His "to-do" list for me and 5 being frustrated by unfinished tasks
1 being relaxed spirit and 5 being uptight spirit
1 being putting "first things first" and 5 being "Majoring in the minors"
1 being led by the Spirit and 5 being driven by others or circumstances
Reflect
2. The word "priority" comes from the Latin word prior, which means "first". Our priorities are the things that take "first place" in our time and attention. We all live by priorities. The question is: are we living by the right priorities? Are we putting the first things first? Read Matthew 6:25-34 and Luke 10:38-42. What are some of the things that compete for "first place" in our lives? What should be the top priorities for every child of God?
3. Read Proverbs 3:5-6. What are some of the consequences we might experience if we rely on our own understanding rather than looking to God to direct our schedule and order our priorities?
4. According to the verses you just read and Proverbs 2:1-6, how can we discern what responsibilities God is assigning us and what is merely on our own "to-do" list?
Respond
5. Complete this sentence: From now on, before I take on any more activities, I will seek God's guidance first by...
6. Write out a brief prayer of commitment, expressing your desire to know and to do the will of God and to have His priorities in your life.
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I want to live according to Your priorities for my life. Please lead me and give me wisdom; teach me what things really matter to You. Help me to make the necessary adjustments in my schedule so that I might use the days You have given me to fulfill Your agenda. Amen.
Realize
1. On a scale of 1-5,where do you generally fall on each of the following categories, as it relates to your priorities, your schedule and your use of time?
1 being peaceful, calm and 5 being stressed and frazzled.
1 being well ordered and 5 being out of control
1 being purposeful use of time and 5 being reacting to life
1 being good steward of time and 5 being waste a lot of time
1 being balanced priorities and 5 being overwhelmed by demands
1 being fulfilling His "to-do" list for me and 5 being frustrated by unfinished tasks
1 being relaxed spirit and 5 being uptight spirit
1 being putting "first things first" and 5 being "Majoring in the minors"
1 being led by the Spirit and 5 being driven by others or circumstances
Reflect
2. The word "priority" comes from the Latin word prior, which means "first". Our priorities are the things that take "first place" in our time and attention. We all live by priorities. The question is: are we living by the right priorities? Are we putting the first things first? Read Matthew 6:25-34 and Luke 10:38-42. What are some of the things that compete for "first place" in our lives? What should be the top priorities for every child of God?
3. Read Proverbs 3:5-6. What are some of the consequences we might experience if we rely on our own understanding rather than looking to God to direct our schedule and order our priorities?
4. According to the verses you just read and Proverbs 2:1-6, how can we discern what responsibilities God is assigning us and what is merely on our own "to-do" list?
Respond
5. Complete this sentence: From now on, before I take on any more activities, I will seek God's guidance first by...
6. Write out a brief prayer of commitment, expressing your desire to know and to do the will of God and to have His priorities in your life.
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I want to live according to Your priorities for my life. Please lead me and give me wisdom; teach me what things really matter to You. Help me to make the necessary adjustments in my schedule so that I might use the days You have given me to fulfill Your agenda. Amen.
Friday, February 27, 2009
Day Five
Victory Over Sin - pgs 105-111
Realize
1. Salvation does not make us sinless. In fact, read about Paul's struggle with sin in Romans 7:15-25. In what ways do you resonate with Paul's words in this passage? According to verse 25, what is the key to experiencing victory over "the law of sin"?
2. Based on Romans 8:1-14, describe the role of the Holy Spirit in setting us free from slavery to the flesh.
Reflect
3. Do you fee in bondage to any sins in your life that you feel you just can't overcome?
4. How does Christ's work on the cross have the power to set us free from bondage to sin? What truths could you share with a friend who is being defeated by habitual sin?
Respond
5. Read Galatians 2:20. What does it mean to be crucified with Christ/ How does that translate into how you will live today?
6. The first step to walking in victory over sin is to acknowledge that you do not have to live under sin's control (assuming you are a child of God). Talk with the Lord about the specific areas where you have continued to give in to sin's control. Thank Him that at the cross, Jesus broke the power of sin to rule your life. Ask Him to show you how to walk in submission to the Spirit and how to experience the victory that is yours through Christ.
Prayer of the Day
Father, thank You for Jesus, who came to set me free from sin's bondage. I agree with Your Word that I am no longer enslaved to sin. Help me to live in that freedom. Thank You for Your Spirit, who lives within me and give me the power to say no to my flesh and yes to You. Amen.
Realize
1. Salvation does not make us sinless. In fact, read about Paul's struggle with sin in Romans 7:15-25. In what ways do you resonate with Paul's words in this passage? According to verse 25, what is the key to experiencing victory over "the law of sin"?
2. Based on Romans 8:1-14, describe the role of the Holy Spirit in setting us free from slavery to the flesh.
Reflect
3. Do you fee in bondage to any sins in your life that you feel you just can't overcome?
4. How does Christ's work on the cross have the power to set us free from bondage to sin? What truths could you share with a friend who is being defeated by habitual sin?
Respond
5. Read Galatians 2:20. What does it mean to be crucified with Christ/ How does that translate into how you will live today?
6. The first step to walking in victory over sin is to acknowledge that you do not have to live under sin's control (assuming you are a child of God). Talk with the Lord about the specific areas where you have continued to give in to sin's control. Thank Him that at the cross, Jesus broke the power of sin to rule your life. Ask Him to show you how to walk in submission to the Spirit and how to experience the victory that is yours through Christ.
Prayer of the Day
Father, thank You for Jesus, who came to set me free from sin's bondage. I agree with Your Word that I am no longer enslaved to sin. Help me to live in that freedom. Thank You for Your Spirit, who lives within me and give me the power to say no to my flesh and yes to You. Amen.
Thursday, February 26, 2009
Day Four
Taking Responsibility - pgs 103-105
Realize
1. Read 1 John 1:5-10. What does it mean to "walk in the light" as it relates to our sin?
2. Second Corinthians 5:21 describes Jesus' sacrifice for our sin. What does this verse tell us about the great exchange that God made possible at Calvary?
Reflect
3. Are there sins in your life that you have been excusing as mere "weaknesses" or "personality traits"? If so, what are they?
4. Have you been playing the blame game? Are there sins you are committing that you have justified as a reaction to your circumstances or the failures of others (e.g., you blame your husband, your kids, your job, your upbringing)? If so, what are they?
5. Read Psalm 51:1-10. How did David find forgiveness and relief from guilt after he had sinned with Bathsheba?
Respond
6. Reread Psalm 51:1-10 aloud, making it your prayer to God. Accept personal responsibility for any specific sins God has brought to your mind as you have answered these questions. Confess them to Him as sin. (To confess simply means to agree with God about your sin, to call it what He calls it-not a mistake, a problem, a struggle, or a justified reaction to someone else's sin-but sin.)
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I acknowledge that I am fully responsible for my own actions and choices, regardless of my circumstances or what has been done to me. I know that at times I try to cover my sins by blaming other people or circumstances. Forgive me, Lord. Thank You for Your grace that is so abundant when I come to You as a guilty sinner. Amen.
Realize
1. Read 1 John 1:5-10. What does it mean to "walk in the light" as it relates to our sin?
2. Second Corinthians 5:21 describes Jesus' sacrifice for our sin. What does this verse tell us about the great exchange that God made possible at Calvary?
Reflect
3. Are there sins in your life that you have been excusing as mere "weaknesses" or "personality traits"? If so, what are they?
4. Have you been playing the blame game? Are there sins you are committing that you have justified as a reaction to your circumstances or the failures of others (e.g., you blame your husband, your kids, your job, your upbringing)? If so, what are they?
5. Read Psalm 51:1-10. How did David find forgiveness and relief from guilt after he had sinned with Bathsheba?
Respond
6. Reread Psalm 51:1-10 aloud, making it your prayer to God. Accept personal responsibility for any specific sins God has brought to your mind as you have answered these questions. Confess them to Him as sin. (To confess simply means to agree with God about your sin, to call it what He calls it-not a mistake, a problem, a struggle, or a justified reaction to someone else's sin-but sin.)
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I acknowledge that I am fully responsible for my own actions and choices, regardless of my circumstances or what has been done to me. I know that at times I try to cover my sins by blaming other people or circumstances. Forgive me, Lord. Thank You for Your grace that is so abundant when I come to You as a guilty sinner. Amen.
Wednesday, February 25, 2009
Day Three
Sin and Grace - pgs 100-102
Realize
1. Some people struggle with receiving God's forgiveness because they feel their sins are just too great. What types of sins do people tend to think are "too serious" for God to be able to forgive?
2. When Jesus died on the cross, what did He accomplish (Isaiah 53:6; John 1:29)?
Reflect
3. If we think that our sins are too big for God to forgive, what are we implying about Jesus' death on the cross?
4. According to Proverbs 28:13 and 1 John 1:9, how do we appropriate God's forgiveness? What is the result when we do?
5. What types of things do people do in an attempt to "do penance" for their sins? What are some of the ways you have tried to "earn" God's favor after you have sinned?
6. What would you say to someone who thinks that her sins are too big for God to forgive?
Respond
7. What does God's forgiveness of your sins mean to you?
Prayer of the Day
Father, I know that the blood of Christ is sufficient to cover all my sin. Thank You for offering cleansing and forgiveness to every sinner who comes to You in repentance and faith. Thank You that so sin is too big for You to forgive. By faith, I receive Your forgiveness for every sin that I have ever committed. Help me to walk as Your cleansed, forgiven child. Amen.
Realize
1. Some people struggle with receiving God's forgiveness because they feel their sins are just too great. What types of sins do people tend to think are "too serious" for God to be able to forgive?
2. When Jesus died on the cross, what did He accomplish (Isaiah 53:6; John 1:29)?
Reflect
3. If we think that our sins are too big for God to forgive, what are we implying about Jesus' death on the cross?
4. According to Proverbs 28:13 and 1 John 1:9, how do we appropriate God's forgiveness? What is the result when we do?
5. What types of things do people do in an attempt to "do penance" for their sins? What are some of the ways you have tried to "earn" God's favor after you have sinned?
6. What would you say to someone who thinks that her sins are too big for God to forgive?
Respond
7. What does God's forgiveness of your sins mean to you?
Prayer of the Day
Father, I know that the blood of Christ is sufficient to cover all my sin. Thank You for offering cleansing and forgiveness to every sinner who comes to You in repentance and faith. Thank You that so sin is too big for You to forgive. By faith, I receive Your forgiveness for every sin that I have ever committed. Help me to walk as Your cleansed, forgiven child. Amen.
Tuesday, February 24, 2009
Day Two
Seeing Sin For What It Is - pgs 99-100
Realize
1. Have you ever compared yourself to other people and thought, "At least I'm not that bad"? What sins in your life seem less important when compared to the sins in others' lives? (Be honest!)
2. Read Galatians 5:19-21. List the acts of the flesh. While different sins may have different consequences, are any of these sins "less sinful" than the others in God's eyes?
3. All sin has one ultimate consequence, according to Romans 6:23. What is the consequence?
Reflect
4. Throughout the Old Testament, why did God require blood sacrifices (Hebrews 9:22)? How did Jesus' death fulfill this requirement?
5. Considering the price Jesus paid for you, what effect should that realization have on how you view the "little" sins in your life?
Respond
6. What sin(s) in your life have you been trivializing or not taking really seriously? Ask God to give you a greater sense of the sinfulness of sin and what your sin cost Him.
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I know that I am a sinner, and I confess that sometimes I forget that every sin I commit is an act of rebellion against You. There are no "little" sins, for they are all equally evil in Your eyes. I pray that You will help me not to excuse my sin but to realize its seriousness and to be truly repentant. Help me to see myself and my sin in the light of Your absolute holiness and the cross of Christ. Amen.
Realize
1. Have you ever compared yourself to other people and thought, "At least I'm not that bad"? What sins in your life seem less important when compared to the sins in others' lives? (Be honest!)
2. Read Galatians 5:19-21. List the acts of the flesh. While different sins may have different consequences, are any of these sins "less sinful" than the others in God's eyes?
3. All sin has one ultimate consequence, according to Romans 6:23. What is the consequence?
Reflect
4. Throughout the Old Testament, why did God require blood sacrifices (Hebrews 9:22)? How did Jesus' death fulfill this requirement?
5. Considering the price Jesus paid for you, what effect should that realization have on how you view the "little" sins in your life?
Respond
6. What sin(s) in your life have you been trivializing or not taking really seriously? Ask God to give you a greater sense of the sinfulness of sin and what your sin cost Him.
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I know that I am a sinner, and I confess that sometimes I forget that every sin I commit is an act of rebellion against You. There are no "little" sins, for they are all equally evil in Your eyes. I pray that You will help me not to excuse my sin but to realize its seriousness and to be truly repentant. Help me to see myself and my sin in the light of Your absolute holiness and the cross of Christ. Amen.
Monday, February 23, 2009
Understanding Sin - Day One
The Truth About Sin - pgs 91-98
Realize
1. In your own words, define "sin."
2. Read Genesis 2:15-3:24. What did God provide for Adam and Eve? Why did God impose such severe consequences for eating a piece of fruit?
3. According to Romans 5:12 and 18a, what was the effect of their sin on the world?
Reflect
4. Even if no one ever finds out about your sin, Who does know? (Proverbs 5:21; 20:27). The fear of the Lord has been described as "living in the constant, conscious awareness of the presence of God." How could that awareness protect you from sin?
5. You may not consciously believe that you can sin and get away with it. But we all live as if we believed this lie at times. Give an example of a sin you committed without really stopping to contemplate what it would cost you.
Respond
6. Becoming more conscious of the true consequences of sin will help protect us from sin. Based on the Scripture as well as your own experience, make a list of as many of sin's consequences as you can think of. You may want to carry that list with you this wee, so that when you are tempted to sin, you can remember the consequences before you make your choice.
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I understand that sin is very real-so real, in fact, that You had to pay the price for my sin with the death of Jesus. Lord, You know everything about me: my thoughts, motives, and desires. Help me to be mindful of Your presence in every moment of my life today. Guard my heart and keep me from sin, for Jesus' sake. Amen.
Realize
1. In your own words, define "sin."
2. Read Genesis 2:15-3:24. What did God provide for Adam and Eve? Why did God impose such severe consequences for eating a piece of fruit?
3. According to Romans 5:12 and 18a, what was the effect of their sin on the world?
Reflect
4. Even if no one ever finds out about your sin, Who does know? (Proverbs 5:21; 20:27). The fear of the Lord has been described as "living in the constant, conscious awareness of the presence of God." How could that awareness protect you from sin?
5. You may not consciously believe that you can sin and get away with it. But we all live as if we believed this lie at times. Give an example of a sin you committed without really stopping to contemplate what it would cost you.
Respond
6. Becoming more conscious of the true consequences of sin will help protect us from sin. Based on the Scripture as well as your own experience, make a list of as many of sin's consequences as you can think of. You may want to carry that list with you this wee, so that when you are tempted to sin, you can remember the consequences before you make your choice.
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I understand that sin is very real-so real, in fact, that You had to pay the price for my sin with the death of Jesus. Lord, You know everything about me: my thoughts, motives, and desires. Help me to be mindful of Your presence in every moment of my life today. Guard my heart and keep me from sin, for Jesus' sake. Amen.
Friday, February 20, 2009
Day Five
Surrendering Our Longings - pgs 82-86
Realize
1. What are some of your heart's desires that have not yet been fulfilled (e.g., to get married, to improve your marriage, to have children, to regain health, etc.)?
2. Read Deuteronomy 8:3. Why did God allow His people to go hungry (i.e., to have unfulfilled longings) in the desert?
3. What are some other reasons God might not allow all of His children's longings to be fulfilled here and now?
Reflect
4. As you think about the legitimate longings you recorded in question 1 above, have you fallen into the trap of demanding that God fulfill your desires or resenting that He has not chosen to do so? Have you made any sinful choices as a result of trying to meet those longings in illegitimate ways?
5. From Ecclesiastes 3:11, what does it mean that God has placed eternity in your heart?
6. Read Philippians 3:20-4:1. What does it mean that your citizenship is in heaven? What implications do this passage and the verse from Ecclesiastes have as you face what may be legitimate longings that God has not chosen to fulfill?
7. According to Psalm 16:11, where is the only place that all our longings can be completely met?
Respond
8. Elisabeth Elliot reminds us that unfulfilled longings proved "material for sacrifice." What longings can you offer up as a sacrifice to the Lord?
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I have many desires deep within me. I understand that my longings are not necessarily bad, but in my impatience, Lord, help me not to attempt to meet those longings in wrong ways. Help me to be patient, knowing that You know my longings and that You have my best in mind. Thank You that the day is coming when the deepest thirst and longings of my soul will be fully satisfied in Your presence. Amen.
Realize
1. What are some of your heart's desires that have not yet been fulfilled (e.g., to get married, to improve your marriage, to have children, to regain health, etc.)?
2. Read Deuteronomy 8:3. Why did God allow His people to go hungry (i.e., to have unfulfilled longings) in the desert?
3. What are some other reasons God might not allow all of His children's longings to be fulfilled here and now?
Reflect
4. As you think about the legitimate longings you recorded in question 1 above, have you fallen into the trap of demanding that God fulfill your desires or resenting that He has not chosen to do so? Have you made any sinful choices as a result of trying to meet those longings in illegitimate ways?
5. From Ecclesiastes 3:11, what does it mean that God has placed eternity in your heart?
6. Read Philippians 3:20-4:1. What does it mean that your citizenship is in heaven? What implications do this passage and the verse from Ecclesiastes have as you face what may be legitimate longings that God has not chosen to fulfill?
7. According to Psalm 16:11, where is the only place that all our longings can be completely met?
Respond
8. Elisabeth Elliot reminds us that unfulfilled longings proved "material for sacrifice." What longings can you offer up as a sacrifice to the Lord?
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I have many desires deep within me. I understand that my longings are not necessarily bad, but in my impatience, Lord, help me not to attempt to meet those longings in wrong ways. Help me to be patient, knowing that You know my longings and that You have my best in mind. Thank You that the day is coming when the deepest thirst and longings of my soul will be fully satisfied in Your presence. Amen.
Thursday, February 19, 2009
Day Four
Lasting Beauty - pgs 77-82
Realize
1. Some of the most physically beautiful women are also extremely miserable. Why doesn't physical beauty necessarily make a woman happy?
2. Read 1 Samuel 16:7. What does it mean that God looks at people's hearts?
Reflect
3. How would you compare the time and effort you invest in your physical appearance with the time and effort you put into developing a beautiful heart and spirit?
4. Read Proverbs 31:30; 1 Timothy 2:9-10; and 1 Peter 3:1-6. Why is it a shortsighted mistake for us to become preoccupied with external, physical beauty?
5. According to the passages above, what are the qualities that make a woman truly beautiful to God and to others? How do those qualities affect her outer appearance?
6. If God were to hold a mirror up to your heart today, what would He see?
Respond
7. How can you develop a heart that reflects great beauty?
Prayer of the Day
Father, I realize that the most important beauty I can have is the kind that comes from within. Please develop in me that true, enduring, inner beauty that is pleasing to You. Amen.
Realize
1. Some of the most physically beautiful women are also extremely miserable. Why doesn't physical beauty necessarily make a woman happy?
2. Read 1 Samuel 16:7. What does it mean that God looks at people's hearts?
Reflect
3. How would you compare the time and effort you invest in your physical appearance with the time and effort you put into developing a beautiful heart and spirit?
4. Read Proverbs 31:30; 1 Timothy 2:9-10; and 1 Peter 3:1-6. Why is it a shortsighted mistake for us to become preoccupied with external, physical beauty?
5. According to the passages above, what are the qualities that make a woman truly beautiful to God and to others? How do those qualities affect her outer appearance?
6. If God were to hold a mirror up to your heart today, what would He see?
Respond
7. How can you develop a heart that reflects great beauty?
Prayer of the Day
Father, I realize that the most important beauty I can have is the kind that comes from within. Please develop in me that true, enduring, inner beauty that is pleasing to You. Amen.
Wednesday, February 18, 2009
Day Three
Yielding Rights - pgs 73-76
Realize
1. Look at the list of things that many women claim as their "rights" on page 75. While you might wish all of these things to be true in your own life, what makes it inaccurate to claim them as your rights?
2. When people claim their rights, how do they respond when those supposed rights are violated?
Why does claiming right so often result in anger, bitterness, depression, and broken relationships?
Reflect
3. Read Psalm 37:1-11. What are the attitudes and behaviors of a person who is claiming her rights? What are the attitudes and responses of the person who has yielded her rights and expectations to God?
4. In what area(s) of your life have you tended to think that something is your "right" when it may not truly be a "right" at all (e.g., you might think you have a "right" to a healthy marriage, good children, a problem-free church, faithful friends, etc.)?
Respond
5. Make a list of any "right" you may still be holding on to, along with any expectations you have placed on others. Consciously surrender each of those "rights" and expectations to God.
Prayer of the Day
Father, I confess my tendency to defend my "rights" and to become angry, resentful or impatient when those "rights" are violated. By faith, I yield all those "rights" and expectations to You and trust You to meet my needs and to work out Your purposes for my life. Amen
Realize
1. Look at the list of things that many women claim as their "rights" on page 75. While you might wish all of these things to be true in your own life, what makes it inaccurate to claim them as your rights?
2. When people claim their rights, how do they respond when those supposed rights are violated?
Why does claiming right so often result in anger, bitterness, depression, and broken relationships?
Reflect
3. Read Psalm 37:1-11. What are the attitudes and behaviors of a person who is claiming her rights? What are the attitudes and responses of the person who has yielded her rights and expectations to God?
4. In what area(s) of your life have you tended to think that something is your "right" when it may not truly be a "right" at all (e.g., you might think you have a "right" to a healthy marriage, good children, a problem-free church, faithful friends, etc.)?
Respond
5. Make a list of any "right" you may still be holding on to, along with any expectations you have placed on others. Consciously surrender each of those "rights" and expectations to God.
Prayer of the Day
Father, I confess my tendency to defend my "rights" and to become angry, resentful or impatient when those "rights" are violated. By faith, I yield all those "rights" and expectations to You and trust You to meet my needs and to work out Your purposes for my life. Amen
Tuesday, February 17, 2009
Day Two
Accepting Responsibility - pgs 71-73
Realize
1. List some of the excuses you've heard people use to explain their wrong behavior (e.g., "My parents got divorced"; "We never had much money"; "I never felt loved").
2. Obviously, our upbringing and environment have an effect on who we are. However, these factors cannot determine who we are. Negative circumstances don't always mean that a child will turn out badly, nor do positive experiences always mean that a child will turn out good. What do you think makes the difference?
3. Some people live as victims all their lives. What effect does it have on them? Who controls their lives?
Reflect
4. Read Colossians 3:1-17. On the basis of who Christ is and what He has done for us (Colossians 1-2), the apostle Paul tells us that we are responsible to make godly choices in every area of life, including our attitudes, our behavior, and our relationships, What are wen to "put off"? What are we to "put on"?
5. In Galatians 5:22-23, what does Paul promise that the Holy Spirit will help to do in our lives?
Respond
6. In what area(s) of your life have you been blaming your circumstances, your upbringing, or another person for the way you are, rather than assuming personal responsibility? How do you think God wants you to view that struggle? What fruit of the Spirit do you need to help you deal with the issue?
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I agree with You that I am not a helpless victim of my circumstances or my past. I understand that I may not be able to change the circumstances of my life, but, because of what Jesus has done for me and in me, I can control my attitude and my responses. By the power of Your Spirit help me to choose to obey You, to take responsibility for my actions, and to be changed into the image of Christ. Amen.
Realize
1. List some of the excuses you've heard people use to explain their wrong behavior (e.g., "My parents got divorced"; "We never had much money"; "I never felt loved").
2. Obviously, our upbringing and environment have an effect on who we are. However, these factors cannot determine who we are. Negative circumstances don't always mean that a child will turn out badly, nor do positive experiences always mean that a child will turn out good. What do you think makes the difference?
3. Some people live as victims all their lives. What effect does it have on them? Who controls their lives?
Reflect
4. Read Colossians 3:1-17. On the basis of who Christ is and what He has done for us (Colossians 1-2), the apostle Paul tells us that we are responsible to make godly choices in every area of life, including our attitudes, our behavior, and our relationships, What are wen to "put off"? What are we to "put on"?
5. In Galatians 5:22-23, what does Paul promise that the Holy Spirit will help to do in our lives?
Respond
6. In what area(s) of your life have you been blaming your circumstances, your upbringing, or another person for the way you are, rather than assuming personal responsibility? How do you think God wants you to view that struggle? What fruit of the Spirit do you need to help you deal with the issue?
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I agree with You that I am not a helpless victim of my circumstances or my past. I understand that I may not be able to change the circumstances of my life, but, because of what Jesus has done for me and in me, I can control my attitude and my responses. By the power of Your Spirit help me to choose to obey You, to take responsibility for my actions, and to be changed into the image of Christ. Amen.
Monday, February 16, 2009
Seeing Myself As God Sees Me
Accepting God's Assessment - pgs 63-71
Realize
1. Describe a times in your life when you felt on top of the world. Next, describe a time when you felt completely worthless. What common factors do you find in both experiences? (For example, were your feelings dependent on others' to you, on how you looked, on how you performed?)
2. Read Psalm 139:1-18. What do you learn from the psalm about God's heart and thoughts toward you?
Reflect
3. Is there someone who affirmation you crave? Someone whose approval matters more to you than God's?
4. How has that longing for human acceptance affected your thoughts? Your emotions? Your behavior? Your relationships with others?
5. Read Romans 5:6-11. What makes it possible for us, as fallen sinners and enemies of God, to be accepted by God?
6. What effect do you think a renewed vision of your position in Christ might have on your interactions with family and friends?
Respond
7. How can you begin to renew your mind, to understand and trust God's love for you and His acceptance of you through Christ?
Prayer of the Day
Lord, thank You for loving me so much. Thank You for choosing me and saving me. Thank You that through Christ I have been made acceptable to You and that I am Your treasured possession. Help me to think of myself as Your beloved daughter and to rejoice in the privilege of my relationship with You. Amen.
Realize
1. Describe a times in your life when you felt on top of the world. Next, describe a time when you felt completely worthless. What common factors do you find in both experiences? (For example, were your feelings dependent on others' to you, on how you looked, on how you performed?)
2. Read Psalm 139:1-18. What do you learn from the psalm about God's heart and thoughts toward you?
Reflect
3. Is there someone who affirmation you crave? Someone whose approval matters more to you than God's?
4. How has that longing for human acceptance affected your thoughts? Your emotions? Your behavior? Your relationships with others?
5. Read Romans 5:6-11. What makes it possible for us, as fallen sinners and enemies of God, to be accepted by God?
6. What effect do you think a renewed vision of your position in Christ might have on your interactions with family and friends?
Respond
7. How can you begin to renew your mind, to understand and trust God's love for you and His acceptance of you through Christ?
Prayer of the Day
Lord, thank You for loving me so much. Thank You for choosing me and saving me. Thank You that through Christ I have been made acceptable to You and that I am Your treasured possession. Help me to think of myself as Your beloved daughter and to rejoice in the privilege of my relationship with You. Amen.
Friday, February 13, 2009
Day Five
Divine Delays and Denials - pgs 56-58
Realize
1. What are some illustrations of the way our society is conditioned to expect quick fixes?
2. Read 2 Corinthians 12:7-10. What kind of problem was Paul facing? What do you think his motivation was in asking for it to be removed? Do you think he was wrong to pray this way?
3. What was God's response to Paul's request?
Reflect
4. What difficulties are you facing today? Are there problems and trials in your life that you've asked God to remove and He has not?
5. Why might God sometimes choose not to fix or remove your problems? What greater goals might He have in mind? If God chooses not to remove your difficulties, what does the Bible tell you that He may be trying to do instead (Job 23:10; Romans 5:3-4; James 1:2-4)?
6. In what ways have you seen God work through difficulties in your life or in others' lives?
Respond
7. Identify the biggest problem you are facing currently. What do you think God may want to teach you through your current struggle? If God never "fixed" that problem, how could He use this circumstance to change you and to reveal His character through you?
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I know that You want what is best for me. You desire to help me become mature. I understand that sometimes the only way I will grow is through pain. In the difficulties that I am facing today, Lord, I pray that You will grant me peace and patience to accept Your perfect will in my life. Amen.
Realize
1. What are some illustrations of the way our society is conditioned to expect quick fixes?
2. Read 2 Corinthians 12:7-10. What kind of problem was Paul facing? What do you think his motivation was in asking for it to be removed? Do you think he was wrong to pray this way?
3. What was God's response to Paul's request?
Reflect
4. What difficulties are you facing today? Are there problems and trials in your life that you've asked God to remove and He has not?
5. Why might God sometimes choose not to fix or remove your problems? What greater goals might He have in mind? If God chooses not to remove your difficulties, what does the Bible tell you that He may be trying to do instead (Job 23:10; Romans 5:3-4; James 1:2-4)?
6. In what ways have you seen God work through difficulties in your life or in others' lives?
Respond
7. Identify the biggest problem you are facing currently. What do you think God may want to teach you through your current struggle? If God never "fixed" that problem, how could He use this circumstance to change you and to reveal His character through you?
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I know that You want what is best for me. You desire to help me become mature. I understand that sometimes the only way I will grow is through pain. In the difficulties that I am facing today, Lord, I pray that You will grant me peace and patience to accept Your perfect will in my life. Amen.
Thursday, February 12, 2009
Day Four
The Law of Liberty - pgs 55-56
Realize
1. What would the world be like if there were no laws? In what ways are laws necessary and beneficial to society?
2. What does Deuteronomy 6:24-25 say about the value and blessing of obedience to God's law?
Reflect
3. Read James 1:19-27. What does James mean when he refers to "the perfect law that gives freedom"(v. 25)? How do God's laws give us freedom?
4. Describe a time when you decided to do your own thing instead of obeying God. What happened?
5. In what ways are God's restrictions actually a benefit and a blessing to His children? How could you explain their benefit to others?
Respond
6. Are there any biblical commands you have been resisting or hesitating to obey, thinking you would be better off doing things your way? "Obedience is the pathway to freedom." Will you surrender and choose to obey God's way?
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I know that the direction in Your Word has been given to us out of love. Help me to trust You and to be willing to obey You even when Your ways do not make sense to my finite mind. Amen.
Realize
1. What would the world be like if there were no laws? In what ways are laws necessary and beneficial to society?
2. What does Deuteronomy 6:24-25 say about the value and blessing of obedience to God's law?
Reflect
3. Read James 1:19-27. What does James mean when he refers to "the perfect law that gives freedom"(v. 25)? How do God's laws give us freedom?
4. Describe a time when you decided to do your own thing instead of obeying God. What happened?
5. In what ways are God's restrictions actually a benefit and a blessing to His children? How could you explain their benefit to others?
Respond
6. Are there any biblical commands you have been resisting or hesitating to obey, thinking you would be better off doing things your way? "Obedience is the pathway to freedom." Will you surrender and choose to obey God's way?
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I know that the direction in Your Word has been given to us out of love. Help me to trust You and to be willing to obey You even when Your ways do not make sense to my finite mind. Amen.
Wednesday, February 11, 2009
Day Three
God is Enough - pgs 54-55
Realize
1. Think about some of the advertisements and commercials you have seen recently. What are some of the things our culture tells us we must have in order to be truly fulfilled, happy, and complete?
Read Colossians 2:9-10. What does it mean that you have been given "fullness" of "completeness" in Christ?
Reflect
3. Do you really believe that if you have God, you have enough? What are some of the "pluses" that you tend to think you have to have to be happy?
4. What are some practical ways we can wean ourselves from dependence on earthly, temporal things and find full satisfaction in the Lord?
Respond
5. Read Psalm 73:23-26. Personalize the psalmist's prayer and write it in your own words. Ask God to make this prayer the true expression of your heart.
Prayer for the Day
Father, I am so prone to look to people and things other than You to fill the empty places of my heart and to satisfy my needs and longings. Your Word tells me that when I have You, I am complete. Thank You that no matter what else I may or may not have in this life, with You I have enough. Amen.
Realize
1. Think about some of the advertisements and commercials you have seen recently. What are some of the things our culture tells us we must have in order to be truly fulfilled, happy, and complete?
Read Colossians 2:9-10. What does it mean that you have been given "fullness" of "completeness" in Christ?
Reflect
3. Do you really believe that if you have God, you have enough? What are some of the "pluses" that you tend to think you have to have to be happy?
4. What are some practical ways we can wean ourselves from dependence on earthly, temporal things and find full satisfaction in the Lord?
Respond
5. Read Psalm 73:23-26. Personalize the psalmist's prayer and write it in your own words. Ask God to make this prayer the true expression of your heart.
Prayer for the Day
Father, I am so prone to look to people and things other than You to fill the empty places of my heart and to satisfy my needs and longings. Your Word tells me that when I have You, I am complete. Thank You that no matter what else I may or may not have in this life, with You I have enough. Amen.
Tuesday, February 10, 2009
Day Two
God Is Loving - pgs 50-54
Realize
1. Based on John 15:13, how did Jesus show His live for you? What else does the Bible tell you about God's love?(See John 3:16; Romans 5:8; 1 John 4:7-10)
2. What effect do your feelings have on the truth of God's love for you?
Reflect
3. Even though you may know that God loves you, you probably don't always feel that He does. What are some of the things that can cause you to feel that no one really loves or cares about you?
4. How can you live within the reality of God's love even on those days when you don't feel His love?
Respond
5. It has been said that if we could begin to grasp the greatness of God's love, our lives would be totally transformed. How would you think differently about God, about Yourself, and about your circumstances if you truly understood how incredibly much God loves you?
6. What are some ways you can grow in your understanding of the love of God?
7. Read Paul's prayer in Ephesians 3:14-19. Personalize this prayer and pray it for yourself or for someone you know who has difficulty accepting the love of God.
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I know that You love me. I admit that on some days I just don't feel it. Remind me at those times not to trust my feelings but to believe the truths I know from Your Word. Amen.
Realize
1. Based on John 15:13, how did Jesus show His live for you? What else does the Bible tell you about God's love?(See John 3:16; Romans 5:8; 1 John 4:7-10)
2. What effect do your feelings have on the truth of God's love for you?
Reflect
3. Even though you may know that God loves you, you probably don't always feel that He does. What are some of the things that can cause you to feel that no one really loves or cares about you?
4. How can you live within the reality of God's love even on those days when you don't feel His love?
Respond
5. It has been said that if we could begin to grasp the greatness of God's love, our lives would be totally transformed. How would you think differently about God, about Yourself, and about your circumstances if you truly understood how incredibly much God loves you?
6. What are some ways you can grow in your understanding of the love of God?
7. Read Paul's prayer in Ephesians 3:14-19. Personalize this prayer and pray it for yourself or for someone you know who has difficulty accepting the love of God.
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I know that You love me. I admit that on some days I just don't feel it. Remind me at those times not to trust my feelings but to believe the truths I know from Your Word. Amen.
Monday, February 9, 2009
Trusting God - Day One
Good is Good - pgs 45-49
Realize
1. When you were a child, you may have prayed this little rhyme before meals: "God is great, God is good..." Suppose you had never been to church or had never read a Bible. Would you think a good God exists? Why or why not?
2. Look up Ephesians 1:3-14. Make a list of all the blessing God has given you that you can find in this passage.
3. According to Psalm 34:8 and 106:1, what are appropriate responses to the goodness of God?
Reflect
4. Describe a situation, either past or present, in which you have been tempted to question God's goodness. (This could be anything from a difficult marriage to an unanswered prayer to an unexpected illness.)
5. Romans 8:28 is a familiar verse to many believers. Read that verse as well as verses 29-39. What perspective about God and His good purposes does this passage provide to help us face painful or difficult life situations?
Respond
6. For whatever difficulties you are currently facing, choose to "give thanks to the Lord, for he is good," and to claim the promise of Romans 8:28-29. "Lord, even though I am facing difficulty regarding ______________, I know You are good, and You have promised to work that situation out for good. I know that Your commitment is to make me like Jesus. Thank You that You will use this circumstance (or person) as a means to fulfill Your good purpose for my life."
Prayer for the day
Lord, I know that You are good, but I admit that deep down I sometimes wonder about Your goodness when I'm facing hard times. Help me to trust in Your goodness, even when I cannot see it clearly. Amen.
Realize
1. When you were a child, you may have prayed this little rhyme before meals: "God is great, God is good..." Suppose you had never been to church or had never read a Bible. Would you think a good God exists? Why or why not?
2. Look up Ephesians 1:3-14. Make a list of all the blessing God has given you that you can find in this passage.
3. According to Psalm 34:8 and 106:1, what are appropriate responses to the goodness of God?
Reflect
4. Describe a situation, either past or present, in which you have been tempted to question God's goodness. (This could be anything from a difficult marriage to an unanswered prayer to an unexpected illness.)
5. Romans 8:28 is a familiar verse to many believers. Read that verse as well as verses 29-39. What perspective about God and His good purposes does this passage provide to help us face painful or difficult life situations?
Respond
6. For whatever difficulties you are currently facing, choose to "give thanks to the Lord, for he is good," and to claim the promise of Romans 8:28-29. "Lord, even though I am facing difficulty regarding ______________, I know You are good, and You have promised to work that situation out for good. I know that Your commitment is to make me like Jesus. Thank You that You will use this circumstance (or person) as a means to fulfill Your good purpose for my life."
Prayer for the day
Lord, I know that You are good, but I admit that deep down I sometimes wonder about Your goodness when I'm facing hard times. Help me to trust in Your goodness, even when I cannot see it clearly. Amen.
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