Day Five

Shaping Your Children - pgs 182-187

Realize
1. Read 1 Thessalonians 1:2-6 and 2:3-13. This description of the apostle Paul's ministry has some striking applications for parents who want to see their children become followers of Christ. Record several insights from this passage about the qualities and actions of good discipleship.

2. According to these verses, what were the results of Paul's ministry in the lives of his spiritual children?

Reflect
3. One study indicated that eight out of ten young people who grow up in the church leave the church after high school, never to return. Why do you think so many children grow up in Christian homes, schools, and churches without ever developing a real heart for God?

4. Reread 1 Thessalonians 2:10. Paul recognized the impact of his example on these young believers. In what areas do you believe you have set a good example for your children? In what areas would you not want them to follow your example?

5. Read 1 Thessalonians 2:11-12. Why is it important to provide a balance of warm encouragement and firm admonition for those we lead? Which of these generally comes more easily for you with your children? Which do you need to provide more of?

Respond
6. What character and spiritual qualities do you want your children to have when they leave home? How can you be more intentional about developing those qualities in their lives?

7. If your children end up being a mirror reflection of you, what will they look like? What changes do you need to allow the Lord to make in your life so that you can say to your children, "Imitate me just as I also imitate Christ" (1 Corinthians 11:1)? (If you are really courageous, ask your children to answer these questions about their mother!)

Prayer of the Day
Lord, it is sobering to realize how much our children pick up from our lives, our values, and our walk with You. Please do whatever is needed to make me the mother that my children need. May my life create in them a desire to know and follow You. Please work in their lives to draw them to you, that our family may reflect Your light to others. Amen.