Victory Over Sin - pgs 105-111
Realize
1. Salvation does not make us sinless. In fact, read about Paul's struggle with sin in Romans 7:15-25. In what ways do you resonate with Paul's words in this passage? According to verse 25, what is the key to experiencing victory over "the law of sin"?
2. Based on Romans 8:1-14, describe the role of the Holy Spirit in setting us free from slavery to the flesh.
Reflect
3. Do you fee in bondage to any sins in your life that you feel you just can't overcome?
4. How does Christ's work on the cross have the power to set us free from bondage to sin? What truths could you share with a friend who is being defeated by habitual sin?
Respond
5. Read Galatians 2:20. What does it mean to be crucified with Christ/ How does that translate into how you will live today?
6. The first step to walking in victory over sin is to acknowledge that you do not have to live under sin's control (assuming you are a child of God). Talk with the Lord about the specific areas where you have continued to give in to sin's control. Thank Him that at the cross, Jesus broke the power of sin to rule your life. Ask Him to show you how to walk in submission to the Spirit and how to experience the victory that is yours through Christ.
Prayer of the Day
Father, thank You for Jesus, who came to set me free from sin's bondage. I agree with Your Word that I am no longer enslaved to sin. Help me to live in that freedom. Thank You for Your Spirit, who lives within me and give me the power to say no to my flesh and yes to You. Amen.
Friday, February 27, 2009
Thursday, February 26, 2009
Day Four
Taking Responsibility - pgs 103-105
Realize
1. Read 1 John 1:5-10. What does it mean to "walk in the light" as it relates to our sin?
2. Second Corinthians 5:21 describes Jesus' sacrifice for our sin. What does this verse tell us about the great exchange that God made possible at Calvary?
Reflect
3. Are there sins in your life that you have been excusing as mere "weaknesses" or "personality traits"? If so, what are they?
4. Have you been playing the blame game? Are there sins you are committing that you have justified as a reaction to your circumstances or the failures of others (e.g., you blame your husband, your kids, your job, your upbringing)? If so, what are they?
5. Read Psalm 51:1-10. How did David find forgiveness and relief from guilt after he had sinned with Bathsheba?
Respond
6. Reread Psalm 51:1-10 aloud, making it your prayer to God. Accept personal responsibility for any specific sins God has brought to your mind as you have answered these questions. Confess them to Him as sin. (To confess simply means to agree with God about your sin, to call it what He calls it-not a mistake, a problem, a struggle, or a justified reaction to someone else's sin-but sin.)
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I acknowledge that I am fully responsible for my own actions and choices, regardless of my circumstances or what has been done to me. I know that at times I try to cover my sins by blaming other people or circumstances. Forgive me, Lord. Thank You for Your grace that is so abundant when I come to You as a guilty sinner. Amen.
Realize
1. Read 1 John 1:5-10. What does it mean to "walk in the light" as it relates to our sin?
2. Second Corinthians 5:21 describes Jesus' sacrifice for our sin. What does this verse tell us about the great exchange that God made possible at Calvary?
Reflect
3. Are there sins in your life that you have been excusing as mere "weaknesses" or "personality traits"? If so, what are they?
4. Have you been playing the blame game? Are there sins you are committing that you have justified as a reaction to your circumstances or the failures of others (e.g., you blame your husband, your kids, your job, your upbringing)? If so, what are they?
5. Read Psalm 51:1-10. How did David find forgiveness and relief from guilt after he had sinned with Bathsheba?
Respond
6. Reread Psalm 51:1-10 aloud, making it your prayer to God. Accept personal responsibility for any specific sins God has brought to your mind as you have answered these questions. Confess them to Him as sin. (To confess simply means to agree with God about your sin, to call it what He calls it-not a mistake, a problem, a struggle, or a justified reaction to someone else's sin-but sin.)
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I acknowledge that I am fully responsible for my own actions and choices, regardless of my circumstances or what has been done to me. I know that at times I try to cover my sins by blaming other people or circumstances. Forgive me, Lord. Thank You for Your grace that is so abundant when I come to You as a guilty sinner. Amen.
Wednesday, February 25, 2009
Day Three
Sin and Grace - pgs 100-102
Realize
1. Some people struggle with receiving God's forgiveness because they feel their sins are just too great. What types of sins do people tend to think are "too serious" for God to be able to forgive?
2. When Jesus died on the cross, what did He accomplish (Isaiah 53:6; John 1:29)?
Reflect
3. If we think that our sins are too big for God to forgive, what are we implying about Jesus' death on the cross?
4. According to Proverbs 28:13 and 1 John 1:9, how do we appropriate God's forgiveness? What is the result when we do?
5. What types of things do people do in an attempt to "do penance" for their sins? What are some of the ways you have tried to "earn" God's favor after you have sinned?
6. What would you say to someone who thinks that her sins are too big for God to forgive?
Respond
7. What does God's forgiveness of your sins mean to you?
Prayer of the Day
Father, I know that the blood of Christ is sufficient to cover all my sin. Thank You for offering cleansing and forgiveness to every sinner who comes to You in repentance and faith. Thank You that so sin is too big for You to forgive. By faith, I receive Your forgiveness for every sin that I have ever committed. Help me to walk as Your cleansed, forgiven child. Amen.
Realize
1. Some people struggle with receiving God's forgiveness because they feel their sins are just too great. What types of sins do people tend to think are "too serious" for God to be able to forgive?
2. When Jesus died on the cross, what did He accomplish (Isaiah 53:6; John 1:29)?
Reflect
3. If we think that our sins are too big for God to forgive, what are we implying about Jesus' death on the cross?
4. According to Proverbs 28:13 and 1 John 1:9, how do we appropriate God's forgiveness? What is the result when we do?
5. What types of things do people do in an attempt to "do penance" for their sins? What are some of the ways you have tried to "earn" God's favor after you have sinned?
6. What would you say to someone who thinks that her sins are too big for God to forgive?
Respond
7. What does God's forgiveness of your sins mean to you?
Prayer of the Day
Father, I know that the blood of Christ is sufficient to cover all my sin. Thank You for offering cleansing and forgiveness to every sinner who comes to You in repentance and faith. Thank You that so sin is too big for You to forgive. By faith, I receive Your forgiveness for every sin that I have ever committed. Help me to walk as Your cleansed, forgiven child. Amen.
Tuesday, February 24, 2009
Day Two
Seeing Sin For What It Is - pgs 99-100
Realize
1. Have you ever compared yourself to other people and thought, "At least I'm not that bad"? What sins in your life seem less important when compared to the sins in others' lives? (Be honest!)
2. Read Galatians 5:19-21. List the acts of the flesh. While different sins may have different consequences, are any of these sins "less sinful" than the others in God's eyes?
3. All sin has one ultimate consequence, according to Romans 6:23. What is the consequence?
Reflect
4. Throughout the Old Testament, why did God require blood sacrifices (Hebrews 9:22)? How did Jesus' death fulfill this requirement?
5. Considering the price Jesus paid for you, what effect should that realization have on how you view the "little" sins in your life?
Respond
6. What sin(s) in your life have you been trivializing or not taking really seriously? Ask God to give you a greater sense of the sinfulness of sin and what your sin cost Him.
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I know that I am a sinner, and I confess that sometimes I forget that every sin I commit is an act of rebellion against You. There are no "little" sins, for they are all equally evil in Your eyes. I pray that You will help me not to excuse my sin but to realize its seriousness and to be truly repentant. Help me to see myself and my sin in the light of Your absolute holiness and the cross of Christ. Amen.
Realize
1. Have you ever compared yourself to other people and thought, "At least I'm not that bad"? What sins in your life seem less important when compared to the sins in others' lives? (Be honest!)
2. Read Galatians 5:19-21. List the acts of the flesh. While different sins may have different consequences, are any of these sins "less sinful" than the others in God's eyes?
3. All sin has one ultimate consequence, according to Romans 6:23. What is the consequence?
Reflect
4. Throughout the Old Testament, why did God require blood sacrifices (Hebrews 9:22)? How did Jesus' death fulfill this requirement?
5. Considering the price Jesus paid for you, what effect should that realization have on how you view the "little" sins in your life?
Respond
6. What sin(s) in your life have you been trivializing or not taking really seriously? Ask God to give you a greater sense of the sinfulness of sin and what your sin cost Him.
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I know that I am a sinner, and I confess that sometimes I forget that every sin I commit is an act of rebellion against You. There are no "little" sins, for they are all equally evil in Your eyes. I pray that You will help me not to excuse my sin but to realize its seriousness and to be truly repentant. Help me to see myself and my sin in the light of Your absolute holiness and the cross of Christ. Amen.
Monday, February 23, 2009
Understanding Sin - Day One
The Truth About Sin - pgs 91-98
Realize
1. In your own words, define "sin."
2. Read Genesis 2:15-3:24. What did God provide for Adam and Eve? Why did God impose such severe consequences for eating a piece of fruit?
3. According to Romans 5:12 and 18a, what was the effect of their sin on the world?
Reflect
4. Even if no one ever finds out about your sin, Who does know? (Proverbs 5:21; 20:27). The fear of the Lord has been described as "living in the constant, conscious awareness of the presence of God." How could that awareness protect you from sin?
5. You may not consciously believe that you can sin and get away with it. But we all live as if we believed this lie at times. Give an example of a sin you committed without really stopping to contemplate what it would cost you.
Respond
6. Becoming more conscious of the true consequences of sin will help protect us from sin. Based on the Scripture as well as your own experience, make a list of as many of sin's consequences as you can think of. You may want to carry that list with you this wee, so that when you are tempted to sin, you can remember the consequences before you make your choice.
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I understand that sin is very real-so real, in fact, that You had to pay the price for my sin with the death of Jesus. Lord, You know everything about me: my thoughts, motives, and desires. Help me to be mindful of Your presence in every moment of my life today. Guard my heart and keep me from sin, for Jesus' sake. Amen.
Realize
1. In your own words, define "sin."
2. Read Genesis 2:15-3:24. What did God provide for Adam and Eve? Why did God impose such severe consequences for eating a piece of fruit?
3. According to Romans 5:12 and 18a, what was the effect of their sin on the world?
Reflect
4. Even if no one ever finds out about your sin, Who does know? (Proverbs 5:21; 20:27). The fear of the Lord has been described as "living in the constant, conscious awareness of the presence of God." How could that awareness protect you from sin?
5. You may not consciously believe that you can sin and get away with it. But we all live as if we believed this lie at times. Give an example of a sin you committed without really stopping to contemplate what it would cost you.
Respond
6. Becoming more conscious of the true consequences of sin will help protect us from sin. Based on the Scripture as well as your own experience, make a list of as many of sin's consequences as you can think of. You may want to carry that list with you this wee, so that when you are tempted to sin, you can remember the consequences before you make your choice.
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I understand that sin is very real-so real, in fact, that You had to pay the price for my sin with the death of Jesus. Lord, You know everything about me: my thoughts, motives, and desires. Help me to be mindful of Your presence in every moment of my life today. Guard my heart and keep me from sin, for Jesus' sake. Amen.
Friday, February 20, 2009
Day Five
Surrendering Our Longings - pgs 82-86
Realize
1. What are some of your heart's desires that have not yet been fulfilled (e.g., to get married, to improve your marriage, to have children, to regain health, etc.)?
2. Read Deuteronomy 8:3. Why did God allow His people to go hungry (i.e., to have unfulfilled longings) in the desert?
3. What are some other reasons God might not allow all of His children's longings to be fulfilled here and now?
Reflect
4. As you think about the legitimate longings you recorded in question 1 above, have you fallen into the trap of demanding that God fulfill your desires or resenting that He has not chosen to do so? Have you made any sinful choices as a result of trying to meet those longings in illegitimate ways?
5. From Ecclesiastes 3:11, what does it mean that God has placed eternity in your heart?
6. Read Philippians 3:20-4:1. What does it mean that your citizenship is in heaven? What implications do this passage and the verse from Ecclesiastes have as you face what may be legitimate longings that God has not chosen to fulfill?
7. According to Psalm 16:11, where is the only place that all our longings can be completely met?
Respond
8. Elisabeth Elliot reminds us that unfulfilled longings proved "material for sacrifice." What longings can you offer up as a sacrifice to the Lord?
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I have many desires deep within me. I understand that my longings are not necessarily bad, but in my impatience, Lord, help me not to attempt to meet those longings in wrong ways. Help me to be patient, knowing that You know my longings and that You have my best in mind. Thank You that the day is coming when the deepest thirst and longings of my soul will be fully satisfied in Your presence. Amen.
Realize
1. What are some of your heart's desires that have not yet been fulfilled (e.g., to get married, to improve your marriage, to have children, to regain health, etc.)?
2. Read Deuteronomy 8:3. Why did God allow His people to go hungry (i.e., to have unfulfilled longings) in the desert?
3. What are some other reasons God might not allow all of His children's longings to be fulfilled here and now?
Reflect
4. As you think about the legitimate longings you recorded in question 1 above, have you fallen into the trap of demanding that God fulfill your desires or resenting that He has not chosen to do so? Have you made any sinful choices as a result of trying to meet those longings in illegitimate ways?
5. From Ecclesiastes 3:11, what does it mean that God has placed eternity in your heart?
6. Read Philippians 3:20-4:1. What does it mean that your citizenship is in heaven? What implications do this passage and the verse from Ecclesiastes have as you face what may be legitimate longings that God has not chosen to fulfill?
7. According to Psalm 16:11, where is the only place that all our longings can be completely met?
Respond
8. Elisabeth Elliot reminds us that unfulfilled longings proved "material for sacrifice." What longings can you offer up as a sacrifice to the Lord?
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I have many desires deep within me. I understand that my longings are not necessarily bad, but in my impatience, Lord, help me not to attempt to meet those longings in wrong ways. Help me to be patient, knowing that You know my longings and that You have my best in mind. Thank You that the day is coming when the deepest thirst and longings of my soul will be fully satisfied in Your presence. Amen.
Thursday, February 19, 2009
Day Four
Lasting Beauty - pgs 77-82
Realize
1. Some of the most physically beautiful women are also extremely miserable. Why doesn't physical beauty necessarily make a woman happy?
2. Read 1 Samuel 16:7. What does it mean that God looks at people's hearts?
Reflect
3. How would you compare the time and effort you invest in your physical appearance with the time and effort you put into developing a beautiful heart and spirit?
4. Read Proverbs 31:30; 1 Timothy 2:9-10; and 1 Peter 3:1-6. Why is it a shortsighted mistake for us to become preoccupied with external, physical beauty?
5. According to the passages above, what are the qualities that make a woman truly beautiful to God and to others? How do those qualities affect her outer appearance?
6. If God were to hold a mirror up to your heart today, what would He see?
Respond
7. How can you develop a heart that reflects great beauty?
Prayer of the Day
Father, I realize that the most important beauty I can have is the kind that comes from within. Please develop in me that true, enduring, inner beauty that is pleasing to You. Amen.
Realize
1. Some of the most physically beautiful women are also extremely miserable. Why doesn't physical beauty necessarily make a woman happy?
2. Read 1 Samuel 16:7. What does it mean that God looks at people's hearts?
Reflect
3. How would you compare the time and effort you invest in your physical appearance with the time and effort you put into developing a beautiful heart and spirit?
4. Read Proverbs 31:30; 1 Timothy 2:9-10; and 1 Peter 3:1-6. Why is it a shortsighted mistake for us to become preoccupied with external, physical beauty?
5. According to the passages above, what are the qualities that make a woman truly beautiful to God and to others? How do those qualities affect her outer appearance?
6. If God were to hold a mirror up to your heart today, what would He see?
Respond
7. How can you develop a heart that reflects great beauty?
Prayer of the Day
Father, I realize that the most important beauty I can have is the kind that comes from within. Please develop in me that true, enduring, inner beauty that is pleasing to You. Amen.
Wednesday, February 18, 2009
Day Three
Yielding Rights - pgs 73-76
Realize
1. Look at the list of things that many women claim as their "rights" on page 75. While you might wish all of these things to be true in your own life, what makes it inaccurate to claim them as your rights?
2. When people claim their rights, how do they respond when those supposed rights are violated?
Why does claiming right so often result in anger, bitterness, depression, and broken relationships?
Reflect
3. Read Psalm 37:1-11. What are the attitudes and behaviors of a person who is claiming her rights? What are the attitudes and responses of the person who has yielded her rights and expectations to God?
4. In what area(s) of your life have you tended to think that something is your "right" when it may not truly be a "right" at all (e.g., you might think you have a "right" to a healthy marriage, good children, a problem-free church, faithful friends, etc.)?
Respond
5. Make a list of any "right" you may still be holding on to, along with any expectations you have placed on others. Consciously surrender each of those "rights" and expectations to God.
Prayer of the Day
Father, I confess my tendency to defend my "rights" and to become angry, resentful or impatient when those "rights" are violated. By faith, I yield all those "rights" and expectations to You and trust You to meet my needs and to work out Your purposes for my life. Amen
Realize
1. Look at the list of things that many women claim as their "rights" on page 75. While you might wish all of these things to be true in your own life, what makes it inaccurate to claim them as your rights?
2. When people claim their rights, how do they respond when those supposed rights are violated?
Why does claiming right so often result in anger, bitterness, depression, and broken relationships?
Reflect
3. Read Psalm 37:1-11. What are the attitudes and behaviors of a person who is claiming her rights? What are the attitudes and responses of the person who has yielded her rights and expectations to God?
4. In what area(s) of your life have you tended to think that something is your "right" when it may not truly be a "right" at all (e.g., you might think you have a "right" to a healthy marriage, good children, a problem-free church, faithful friends, etc.)?
Respond
5. Make a list of any "right" you may still be holding on to, along with any expectations you have placed on others. Consciously surrender each of those "rights" and expectations to God.
Prayer of the Day
Father, I confess my tendency to defend my "rights" and to become angry, resentful or impatient when those "rights" are violated. By faith, I yield all those "rights" and expectations to You and trust You to meet my needs and to work out Your purposes for my life. Amen
Tuesday, February 17, 2009
Day Two
Accepting Responsibility - pgs 71-73
Realize
1. List some of the excuses you've heard people use to explain their wrong behavior (e.g., "My parents got divorced"; "We never had much money"; "I never felt loved").
2. Obviously, our upbringing and environment have an effect on who we are. However, these factors cannot determine who we are. Negative circumstances don't always mean that a child will turn out badly, nor do positive experiences always mean that a child will turn out good. What do you think makes the difference?
3. Some people live as victims all their lives. What effect does it have on them? Who controls their lives?
Reflect
4. Read Colossians 3:1-17. On the basis of who Christ is and what He has done for us (Colossians 1-2), the apostle Paul tells us that we are responsible to make godly choices in every area of life, including our attitudes, our behavior, and our relationships, What are wen to "put off"? What are we to "put on"?
5. In Galatians 5:22-23, what does Paul promise that the Holy Spirit will help to do in our lives?
Respond
6. In what area(s) of your life have you been blaming your circumstances, your upbringing, or another person for the way you are, rather than assuming personal responsibility? How do you think God wants you to view that struggle? What fruit of the Spirit do you need to help you deal with the issue?
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I agree with You that I am not a helpless victim of my circumstances or my past. I understand that I may not be able to change the circumstances of my life, but, because of what Jesus has done for me and in me, I can control my attitude and my responses. By the power of Your Spirit help me to choose to obey You, to take responsibility for my actions, and to be changed into the image of Christ. Amen.
Realize
1. List some of the excuses you've heard people use to explain their wrong behavior (e.g., "My parents got divorced"; "We never had much money"; "I never felt loved").
2. Obviously, our upbringing and environment have an effect on who we are. However, these factors cannot determine who we are. Negative circumstances don't always mean that a child will turn out badly, nor do positive experiences always mean that a child will turn out good. What do you think makes the difference?
3. Some people live as victims all their lives. What effect does it have on them? Who controls their lives?
Reflect
4. Read Colossians 3:1-17. On the basis of who Christ is and what He has done for us (Colossians 1-2), the apostle Paul tells us that we are responsible to make godly choices in every area of life, including our attitudes, our behavior, and our relationships, What are wen to "put off"? What are we to "put on"?
5. In Galatians 5:22-23, what does Paul promise that the Holy Spirit will help to do in our lives?
Respond
6. In what area(s) of your life have you been blaming your circumstances, your upbringing, or another person for the way you are, rather than assuming personal responsibility? How do you think God wants you to view that struggle? What fruit of the Spirit do you need to help you deal with the issue?
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I agree with You that I am not a helpless victim of my circumstances or my past. I understand that I may not be able to change the circumstances of my life, but, because of what Jesus has done for me and in me, I can control my attitude and my responses. By the power of Your Spirit help me to choose to obey You, to take responsibility for my actions, and to be changed into the image of Christ. Amen.
Monday, February 16, 2009
Seeing Myself As God Sees Me
Accepting God's Assessment - pgs 63-71
Realize
1. Describe a times in your life when you felt on top of the world. Next, describe a time when you felt completely worthless. What common factors do you find in both experiences? (For example, were your feelings dependent on others' to you, on how you looked, on how you performed?)
2. Read Psalm 139:1-18. What do you learn from the psalm about God's heart and thoughts toward you?
Reflect
3. Is there someone who affirmation you crave? Someone whose approval matters more to you than God's?
4. How has that longing for human acceptance affected your thoughts? Your emotions? Your behavior? Your relationships with others?
5. Read Romans 5:6-11. What makes it possible for us, as fallen sinners and enemies of God, to be accepted by God?
6. What effect do you think a renewed vision of your position in Christ might have on your interactions with family and friends?
Respond
7. How can you begin to renew your mind, to understand and trust God's love for you and His acceptance of you through Christ?
Prayer of the Day
Lord, thank You for loving me so much. Thank You for choosing me and saving me. Thank You that through Christ I have been made acceptable to You and that I am Your treasured possession. Help me to think of myself as Your beloved daughter and to rejoice in the privilege of my relationship with You. Amen.
Realize
1. Describe a times in your life when you felt on top of the world. Next, describe a time when you felt completely worthless. What common factors do you find in both experiences? (For example, were your feelings dependent on others' to you, on how you looked, on how you performed?)
2. Read Psalm 139:1-18. What do you learn from the psalm about God's heart and thoughts toward you?
Reflect
3. Is there someone who affirmation you crave? Someone whose approval matters more to you than God's?
4. How has that longing for human acceptance affected your thoughts? Your emotions? Your behavior? Your relationships with others?
5. Read Romans 5:6-11. What makes it possible for us, as fallen sinners and enemies of God, to be accepted by God?
6. What effect do you think a renewed vision of your position in Christ might have on your interactions with family and friends?
Respond
7. How can you begin to renew your mind, to understand and trust God's love for you and His acceptance of you through Christ?
Prayer of the Day
Lord, thank You for loving me so much. Thank You for choosing me and saving me. Thank You that through Christ I have been made acceptable to You and that I am Your treasured possession. Help me to think of myself as Your beloved daughter and to rejoice in the privilege of my relationship with You. Amen.
Friday, February 13, 2009
Day Five
Divine Delays and Denials - pgs 56-58
Realize
1. What are some illustrations of the way our society is conditioned to expect quick fixes?
2. Read 2 Corinthians 12:7-10. What kind of problem was Paul facing? What do you think his motivation was in asking for it to be removed? Do you think he was wrong to pray this way?
3. What was God's response to Paul's request?
Reflect
4. What difficulties are you facing today? Are there problems and trials in your life that you've asked God to remove and He has not?
5. Why might God sometimes choose not to fix or remove your problems? What greater goals might He have in mind? If God chooses not to remove your difficulties, what does the Bible tell you that He may be trying to do instead (Job 23:10; Romans 5:3-4; James 1:2-4)?
6. In what ways have you seen God work through difficulties in your life or in others' lives?
Respond
7. Identify the biggest problem you are facing currently. What do you think God may want to teach you through your current struggle? If God never "fixed" that problem, how could He use this circumstance to change you and to reveal His character through you?
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I know that You want what is best for me. You desire to help me become mature. I understand that sometimes the only way I will grow is through pain. In the difficulties that I am facing today, Lord, I pray that You will grant me peace and patience to accept Your perfect will in my life. Amen.
Realize
1. What are some illustrations of the way our society is conditioned to expect quick fixes?
2. Read 2 Corinthians 12:7-10. What kind of problem was Paul facing? What do you think his motivation was in asking for it to be removed? Do you think he was wrong to pray this way?
3. What was God's response to Paul's request?
Reflect
4. What difficulties are you facing today? Are there problems and trials in your life that you've asked God to remove and He has not?
5. Why might God sometimes choose not to fix or remove your problems? What greater goals might He have in mind? If God chooses not to remove your difficulties, what does the Bible tell you that He may be trying to do instead (Job 23:10; Romans 5:3-4; James 1:2-4)?
6. In what ways have you seen God work through difficulties in your life or in others' lives?
Respond
7. Identify the biggest problem you are facing currently. What do you think God may want to teach you through your current struggle? If God never "fixed" that problem, how could He use this circumstance to change you and to reveal His character through you?
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I know that You want what is best for me. You desire to help me become mature. I understand that sometimes the only way I will grow is through pain. In the difficulties that I am facing today, Lord, I pray that You will grant me peace and patience to accept Your perfect will in my life. Amen.
Thursday, February 12, 2009
Day Four
The Law of Liberty - pgs 55-56
Realize
1. What would the world be like if there were no laws? In what ways are laws necessary and beneficial to society?
2. What does Deuteronomy 6:24-25 say about the value and blessing of obedience to God's law?
Reflect
3. Read James 1:19-27. What does James mean when he refers to "the perfect law that gives freedom"(v. 25)? How do God's laws give us freedom?
4. Describe a time when you decided to do your own thing instead of obeying God. What happened?
5. In what ways are God's restrictions actually a benefit and a blessing to His children? How could you explain their benefit to others?
Respond
6. Are there any biblical commands you have been resisting or hesitating to obey, thinking you would be better off doing things your way? "Obedience is the pathway to freedom." Will you surrender and choose to obey God's way?
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I know that the direction in Your Word has been given to us out of love. Help me to trust You and to be willing to obey You even when Your ways do not make sense to my finite mind. Amen.
Realize
1. What would the world be like if there were no laws? In what ways are laws necessary and beneficial to society?
2. What does Deuteronomy 6:24-25 say about the value and blessing of obedience to God's law?
Reflect
3. Read James 1:19-27. What does James mean when he refers to "the perfect law that gives freedom"(v. 25)? How do God's laws give us freedom?
4. Describe a time when you decided to do your own thing instead of obeying God. What happened?
5. In what ways are God's restrictions actually a benefit and a blessing to His children? How could you explain their benefit to others?
Respond
6. Are there any biblical commands you have been resisting or hesitating to obey, thinking you would be better off doing things your way? "Obedience is the pathway to freedom." Will you surrender and choose to obey God's way?
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I know that the direction in Your Word has been given to us out of love. Help me to trust You and to be willing to obey You even when Your ways do not make sense to my finite mind. Amen.
Wednesday, February 11, 2009
Day Three
God is Enough - pgs 54-55
Realize
1. Think about some of the advertisements and commercials you have seen recently. What are some of the things our culture tells us we must have in order to be truly fulfilled, happy, and complete?
Read Colossians 2:9-10. What does it mean that you have been given "fullness" of "completeness" in Christ?
Reflect
3. Do you really believe that if you have God, you have enough? What are some of the "pluses" that you tend to think you have to have to be happy?
4. What are some practical ways we can wean ourselves from dependence on earthly, temporal things and find full satisfaction in the Lord?
Respond
5. Read Psalm 73:23-26. Personalize the psalmist's prayer and write it in your own words. Ask God to make this prayer the true expression of your heart.
Prayer for the Day
Father, I am so prone to look to people and things other than You to fill the empty places of my heart and to satisfy my needs and longings. Your Word tells me that when I have You, I am complete. Thank You that no matter what else I may or may not have in this life, with You I have enough. Amen.
Realize
1. Think about some of the advertisements and commercials you have seen recently. What are some of the things our culture tells us we must have in order to be truly fulfilled, happy, and complete?
Read Colossians 2:9-10. What does it mean that you have been given "fullness" of "completeness" in Christ?
Reflect
3. Do you really believe that if you have God, you have enough? What are some of the "pluses" that you tend to think you have to have to be happy?
4. What are some practical ways we can wean ourselves from dependence on earthly, temporal things and find full satisfaction in the Lord?
Respond
5. Read Psalm 73:23-26. Personalize the psalmist's prayer and write it in your own words. Ask God to make this prayer the true expression of your heart.
Prayer for the Day
Father, I am so prone to look to people and things other than You to fill the empty places of my heart and to satisfy my needs and longings. Your Word tells me that when I have You, I am complete. Thank You that no matter what else I may or may not have in this life, with You I have enough. Amen.
Tuesday, February 10, 2009
Day Two
God Is Loving - pgs 50-54
Realize
1. Based on John 15:13, how did Jesus show His live for you? What else does the Bible tell you about God's love?(See John 3:16; Romans 5:8; 1 John 4:7-10)
2. What effect do your feelings have on the truth of God's love for you?
Reflect
3. Even though you may know that God loves you, you probably don't always feel that He does. What are some of the things that can cause you to feel that no one really loves or cares about you?
4. How can you live within the reality of God's love even on those days when you don't feel His love?
Respond
5. It has been said that if we could begin to grasp the greatness of God's love, our lives would be totally transformed. How would you think differently about God, about Yourself, and about your circumstances if you truly understood how incredibly much God loves you?
6. What are some ways you can grow in your understanding of the love of God?
7. Read Paul's prayer in Ephesians 3:14-19. Personalize this prayer and pray it for yourself or for someone you know who has difficulty accepting the love of God.
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I know that You love me. I admit that on some days I just don't feel it. Remind me at those times not to trust my feelings but to believe the truths I know from Your Word. Amen.
Realize
1. Based on John 15:13, how did Jesus show His live for you? What else does the Bible tell you about God's love?(See John 3:16; Romans 5:8; 1 John 4:7-10)
2. What effect do your feelings have on the truth of God's love for you?
Reflect
3. Even though you may know that God loves you, you probably don't always feel that He does. What are some of the things that can cause you to feel that no one really loves or cares about you?
4. How can you live within the reality of God's love even on those days when you don't feel His love?
Respond
5. It has been said that if we could begin to grasp the greatness of God's love, our lives would be totally transformed. How would you think differently about God, about Yourself, and about your circumstances if you truly understood how incredibly much God loves you?
6. What are some ways you can grow in your understanding of the love of God?
7. Read Paul's prayer in Ephesians 3:14-19. Personalize this prayer and pray it for yourself or for someone you know who has difficulty accepting the love of God.
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I know that You love me. I admit that on some days I just don't feel it. Remind me at those times not to trust my feelings but to believe the truths I know from Your Word. Amen.
Monday, February 9, 2009
Trusting God - Day One
Good is Good - pgs 45-49
Realize
1. When you were a child, you may have prayed this little rhyme before meals: "God is great, God is good..." Suppose you had never been to church or had never read a Bible. Would you think a good God exists? Why or why not?
2. Look up Ephesians 1:3-14. Make a list of all the blessing God has given you that you can find in this passage.
3. According to Psalm 34:8 and 106:1, what are appropriate responses to the goodness of God?
Reflect
4. Describe a situation, either past or present, in which you have been tempted to question God's goodness. (This could be anything from a difficult marriage to an unanswered prayer to an unexpected illness.)
5. Romans 8:28 is a familiar verse to many believers. Read that verse as well as verses 29-39. What perspective about God and His good purposes does this passage provide to help us face painful or difficult life situations?
Respond
6. For whatever difficulties you are currently facing, choose to "give thanks to the Lord, for he is good," and to claim the promise of Romans 8:28-29. "Lord, even though I am facing difficulty regarding ______________, I know You are good, and You have promised to work that situation out for good. I know that Your commitment is to make me like Jesus. Thank You that You will use this circumstance (or person) as a means to fulfill Your good purpose for my life."
Prayer for the day
Lord, I know that You are good, but I admit that deep down I sometimes wonder about Your goodness when I'm facing hard times. Help me to trust in Your goodness, even when I cannot see it clearly. Amen.
Realize
1. When you were a child, you may have prayed this little rhyme before meals: "God is great, God is good..." Suppose you had never been to church or had never read a Bible. Would you think a good God exists? Why or why not?
2. Look up Ephesians 1:3-14. Make a list of all the blessing God has given you that you can find in this passage.
3. According to Psalm 34:8 and 106:1, what are appropriate responses to the goodness of God?
Reflect
4. Describe a situation, either past or present, in which you have been tempted to question God's goodness. (This could be anything from a difficult marriage to an unanswered prayer to an unexpected illness.)
5. Romans 8:28 is a familiar verse to many believers. Read that verse as well as verses 29-39. What perspective about God and His good purposes does this passage provide to help us face painful or difficult life situations?
Respond
6. For whatever difficulties you are currently facing, choose to "give thanks to the Lord, for he is good," and to claim the promise of Romans 8:28-29. "Lord, even though I am facing difficulty regarding ______________, I know You are good, and You have promised to work that situation out for good. I know that Your commitment is to make me like Jesus. Thank You that You will use this circumstance (or person) as a means to fulfill Your good purpose for my life."
Prayer for the day
Lord, I know that You are good, but I admit that deep down I sometimes wonder about Your goodness when I'm facing hard times. Help me to trust in Your goodness, even when I cannot see it clearly. Amen.
Wednesday, February 4, 2009
Day Five
Claiming the Truth - pgs 40-41
Realize
1. What are the three steps that will help us move from spiritual bondage to freedom?
Reflect
2. How does the Truth counter lies?
3. What does the Bible say about Truth in the following verses?
Psalm 33:4, Psalm 51:6, John 8:32, John 17:17, 2 Timothy 2:15
4. Read John 14:15-17 and 16:13. What is the Holy Spirit's role in helping us discern and walk in the Truth?
Respond
5. Can you identify and specific area(s) of bondage in your life-any area where you are not walking in freedom?(see pages 17, 40-41 for examples of common types of bondage)
6. "Every area of bondage in our lives can be traced back to a lie". Ask God to help you during the course of this study to discover what lie(s) you have believed that my have placed you in bondage. Also ask the Lord to show you the truth from His Word that counters Satan's lie.
Prayer for the day
Lord, I pray that You will show me clearly what lies I have believed. Then show me the Truth that will set me free. Thank You for Your Word and for Your Holy Spirit that point me to the Truth. Help me to claim Your Truth and to walk in Your Truth today and every day. Amen.
Answers to Bible trivia questions:
1. Gideon (Judges 8:30)
2. Jacob and Esau Genesis 25:23-26)
3. Naomi (Ruth 4:15)
Realize
1. What are the three steps that will help us move from spiritual bondage to freedom?
Reflect
2. How does the Truth counter lies?
3. What does the Bible say about Truth in the following verses?
Psalm 33:4, Psalm 51:6, John 8:32, John 17:17, 2 Timothy 2:15
4. Read John 14:15-17 and 16:13. What is the Holy Spirit's role in helping us discern and walk in the Truth?
Respond
5. Can you identify and specific area(s) of bondage in your life-any area where you are not walking in freedom?(see pages 17, 40-41 for examples of common types of bondage)
6. "Every area of bondage in our lives can be traced back to a lie". Ask God to help you during the course of this study to discover what lie(s) you have believed that my have placed you in bondage. Also ask the Lord to show you the truth from His Word that counters Satan's lie.
Prayer for the day
Lord, I pray that You will show me clearly what lies I have believed. Then show me the Truth that will set me free. Thank You for Your Word and for Your Holy Spirit that point me to the Truth. Help me to claim Your Truth and to walk in Your Truth today and every day. Amen.
Answers to Bible trivia questions:
1. Gideon (Judges 8:30)
2. Jacob and Esau Genesis 25:23-26)
3. Naomi (Ruth 4:15)
Day Four
Seeing The Progression - pgs 37-40
Realize
1. From pages 37-40, what are the four steps that take us from initial deception to bondage?
2. Look again at Genesis 3:1-13. What did Eve do that matched each of these four steps that led her from deception to bondage?
Reflect
3. As long as we live in this world, we cannot completely isolate ourselves so that we never hear any lies. What is the difference between "hearing" and "listening to" lies?
4. Read Philippians 4:8-9. Why is it so important to be selective about the input we allow to come into our minds and to consciously choose to expose ourselves and listen to the Truth?
Respond
5. Review the list you made on Day Three of sources of input that you are allowing to come into your life. Is there anything on that list that is exposing you unnecessarily to deception?
6. What steps can you take to better protect your mind and heart from Satan's deception?
Prayer for the day
Lord, please show me any ways that I have made myself more vulnerable to Satan's lies by the kinds of influences I am choosing to allow into my life. Help me to fill my mind and heart with the Truth. Amen.
Realize
1. From pages 37-40, what are the four steps that take us from initial deception to bondage?
2. Look again at Genesis 3:1-13. What did Eve do that matched each of these four steps that led her from deception to bondage?
Reflect
3. As long as we live in this world, we cannot completely isolate ourselves so that we never hear any lies. What is the difference between "hearing" and "listening to" lies?
4. Read Philippians 4:8-9. Why is it so important to be selective about the input we allow to come into our minds and to consciously choose to expose ourselves and listen to the Truth?
Respond
5. Review the list you made on Day Three of sources of input that you are allowing to come into your life. Is there anything on that list that is exposing you unnecessarily to deception?
6. What steps can you take to better protect your mind and heart from Satan's deception?
Prayer for the day
Lord, please show me any ways that I have made myself more vulnerable to Satan's lies by the kinds of influences I am choosing to allow into my life. Help me to fill my mind and heart with the Truth. Amen.
Monday, February 2, 2009
Day Three
Opening Your Eyes - pgs 32-37
Realize
1. Read Genesis 2:15-17 and 3:1-13. What seemingly good think did Satan offer to Even? Why did she think it was a good offer?
Reflect
2. Make a list of the primary sources of input you have coming into you life (e.g., movies, books, certain friends, a counselor).
3. How careful are you about evaluating that input and seeking to discern Truth from error. Which statement below best describes you?
*I have been heavily influenced by the culture and other "voices" around me and don't generally stop to evaluate what I hear and see in light of God's Word. I am not very discerning when it comes to Truth and error. (If this is really true of you, chances are you have been deceived and may not even realize that it describe you!)
* I am careful in some areas but not in others. I need to grow in spiritual discernment.
* I evaluate the things I hear and see through the grid of God's Word and carefully consider the consequences when tempted with wrong choices. (According to Hebrews 5:14, the ability to discern between good and evil is a mark of spiritual maturity.)
4. Describe a time when you made a wrong choice without stopping to consider the cost and the consequences.
5. Identify the lie that Satan used to lead you to believe that you (or others) would not be affected by the sin.
6. What truth from God's Word can you now cite that would have helped you walk away from Satan's lie?
Respond
7. Ask God to help you grow in your ability to discern good from evil and to make godly choices. Ask Him to show you if there is any area of your life where you are currently being deceived by input that is contrary to the Word of God.
Prayer for the day
Father, open my eyes so that I will not be deceived by Satan's lies. Sometimes a course of action seems right when I don't stop to think about Your Truth or about the consequences that could result. Teach me to consider my choices in light of Your Word. Amen.
Okay, here are the trivia questions for this week. They are about children. Please post your answers, even if someone else already has.
1. What judge had 70 sons?
2. Who were the first twins mentioned in the Bible?
3. Who was told she had a daughter-in-law who treated her better than seven sons could?
I will post the answers on Friday. Have fun!
Realize
1. Read Genesis 2:15-17 and 3:1-13. What seemingly good think did Satan offer to Even? Why did she think it was a good offer?
Reflect
2. Make a list of the primary sources of input you have coming into you life (e.g., movies, books, certain friends, a counselor).
3. How careful are you about evaluating that input and seeking to discern Truth from error. Which statement below best describes you?
*I have been heavily influenced by the culture and other "voices" around me and don't generally stop to evaluate what I hear and see in light of God's Word. I am not very discerning when it comes to Truth and error. (If this is really true of you, chances are you have been deceived and may not even realize that it describe you!)
* I am careful in some areas but not in others. I need to grow in spiritual discernment.
* I evaluate the things I hear and see through the grid of God's Word and carefully consider the consequences when tempted with wrong choices. (According to Hebrews 5:14, the ability to discern between good and evil is a mark of spiritual maturity.)
4. Describe a time when you made a wrong choice without stopping to consider the cost and the consequences.
5. Identify the lie that Satan used to lead you to believe that you (or others) would not be affected by the sin.
6. What truth from God's Word can you now cite that would have helped you walk away from Satan's lie?
Respond
7. Ask God to help you grow in your ability to discern good from evil and to make godly choices. Ask Him to show you if there is any area of your life where you are currently being deceived by input that is contrary to the Word of God.
Prayer for the day
Father, open my eyes so that I will not be deceived by Satan's lies. Sometimes a course of action seems right when I don't stop to think about Your Truth or about the consequences that could result. Teach me to consider my choices in light of Your Word. Amen.
Okay, here are the trivia questions for this week. They are about children. Please post your answers, even if someone else already has.
1. What judge had 70 sons?
2. Who were the first twins mentioned in the Bible?
3. Who was told she had a daughter-in-law who treated her better than seven sons could?
I will post the answers on Friday. Have fun!
Day Two
Knowing Your Enemy - pgs 27-32
Realize
1. What do the following verses tell you about Satan and the way he operates?
John 8:44, 2 Corinthians 4:4, 2 Corinthians 11:14, Ephesians 6:11-12, 1 Peter 5:8
Reflect
2. Why do Satan's lies often appear good and attractive?
3. What are some of the forms Satan's deception takes in our culture?
4. How can you discern the difference between Truth and deception? How can you keep from being deceived by Satan's lies?
Respond
5. Satan knows that you will be more vulnerable to deception if you are not regularly meditating on God's Word. What "good" things keep you away from consistent study of the Word?
6. How can you raise your awareness of the Enemy? What can you do today to consciously embrace God's powerful Truth?
Prayer for the day
Lord, I know that Satan is a very real enemy and that he would like nothing better than to make me ineffective for You and Your kingdom. I ask that You will help me to stay in Your Word and to be aware of the truth that no matter how powerful Satan is, You are more powerful. Amen.
Realize
1. What do the following verses tell you about Satan and the way he operates?
John 8:44, 2 Corinthians 4:4, 2 Corinthians 11:14, Ephesians 6:11-12, 1 Peter 5:8
Reflect
2. Why do Satan's lies often appear good and attractive?
3. What are some of the forms Satan's deception takes in our culture?
4. How can you discern the difference between Truth and deception? How can you keep from being deceived by Satan's lies?
Respond
5. Satan knows that you will be more vulnerable to deception if you are not regularly meditating on God's Word. What "good" things keep you away from consistent study of the Word?
6. How can you raise your awareness of the Enemy? What can you do today to consciously embrace God's powerful Truth?
Prayer for the day
Lord, I know that Satan is a very real enemy and that he would like nothing better than to make me ineffective for You and Your kingdom. I ask that You will help me to stay in Your Word and to be aware of the truth that no matter how powerful Satan is, You are more powerful. Amen.
Laying the Foundation - Day One
Today begins our 10-week study of the book Lies Women Believe and the Truth That Sets Them Free. Each Monday, I am going to post what pages you should read each day and the questions to along with that day's reading. These questions are in the companion guide, if you have it. If not, don't worry, but I would encourage you have a journal so you can record your answers to the questions. Again, I would encourage you to post your comments during the week.
Day One - Pgs 15-23
Realize
1. Read John 10:10. As you think about your life, would you say you are experiencing the abundant life Jesus came to give? Or do you find yourself just existing, coping, surviving, or struggling along? Explain.
Reflect
2. Look at the list of words on pg. 16. List any of the words that describe your current season of life. (If you are not currently dealing with any of the feelings but know someone who is, describe how you think she is feeling. You can use this study to lean how to help her and others who are stuggling.)
3. Look at the list of words on pg. 18. Write the words that you would like to describe your life.
4. Read John 8:31-36. What do you think Jesus meant when He talked about being free? How do you know He did not mean being free to do anything we want to do?
5. Read Galatians 5:1 and John 14:6. What (Who) is the Truth that sets us free?
Respond
6. The young woman whose story began on pg 21 said she had "given up hope" that she could ever be completely free from the moral habit that had kept her in bondage for years. Is there any area of your life where you have given up hope that you can ever be free?
7. In what ways would you like your life to change as a result of this study?
I pray as we do this study together that we will all experience growth. I pray that God will show us where we are in bondage and reveal to us any lives we may have believed that are holding us there. I pray that God will show us the Truth that we need to know so we call be truly free.
Because this post can be really long if I post the questions for each day on Monday, I'm going to post everyday. So, tomorrow I'll post that day's pages and questions. If you find there is a better way to do this, please let me know. I'm up for any suggestions. Also, don't forget, Wednesdays post will also include a few Bible trivia questions.
Day One - Pgs 15-23
Realize
1. Read John 10:10. As you think about your life, would you say you are experiencing the abundant life Jesus came to give? Or do you find yourself just existing, coping, surviving, or struggling along? Explain.
Reflect
2. Look at the list of words on pg. 16. List any of the words that describe your current season of life. (If you are not currently dealing with any of the feelings but know someone who is, describe how you think she is feeling. You can use this study to lean how to help her and others who are stuggling.)
3. Look at the list of words on pg. 18. Write the words that you would like to describe your life.
4. Read John 8:31-36. What do you think Jesus meant when He talked about being free? How do you know He did not mean being free to do anything we want to do?
5. Read Galatians 5:1 and John 14:6. What (Who) is the Truth that sets us free?
Respond
6. The young woman whose story began on pg 21 said she had "given up hope" that she could ever be completely free from the moral habit that had kept her in bondage for years. Is there any area of your life where you have given up hope that you can ever be free?
7. In what ways would you like your life to change as a result of this study?
I pray as we do this study together that we will all experience growth. I pray that God will show us where we are in bondage and reveal to us any lives we may have believed that are holding us there. I pray that God will show us the Truth that we need to know so we call be truly free.
Because this post can be really long if I post the questions for each day on Monday, I'm going to post everyday. So, tomorrow I'll post that day's pages and questions. If you find there is a better way to do this, please let me know. I'm up for any suggestions. Also, don't forget, Wednesdays post will also include a few Bible trivia questions.
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