Purpose In Suffering - pgs 221-223
Realize
1. List several different kinds of suffering that you or others you know have had to endure (e.g., financial disaster).
2. Give two or three illustrations of the natural human instinct to escape from suffering (e.g., divorce).
3. Why is suffering an inescapable fact of the human condition? Will we ever be totally free from suffering and pain while we live in this world? Why not?
Reflect
4. What do the following verses in the book of 1 Peter teach us about the purposes of God in suffering and how we should respond to suffering?
* 1:7
* 2:21-23
* 3:9
* 3:14-17
* 4:1-2
* 4:12-16, 19
* 5:8-10
5. Give an illustration of the "redemptive, sanctifying fruit" that suffering has produced in your life.
Respond
6. How could a painful situation you are facing at this time be for you "a pathway to sanctification and a doorway into greater intimacy with God"?
Prayer of the Day
Lord, at times when I am hurting, my natural instinct is to cry out for relief. But I don't want to forfeit the blessings that You can bring to me and to others through my suffering. Thank You that You use suffering to make us more mature, more like Your Son, who suffered for us. Help me to embrace the pain and to allow You to fulfill all Your purposes in and through my life. Amen.
Tuesday, March 31, 2009
Monday, March 30, 2009
Dealing With Circumstances - Day One
Accepting Our Circumstances - pgs 215-221
Before I get started with today's questions, I just want to remind everyone that after this week there is only one week of lessons left. Please be looking into what you want the next lesson to be and let me know by commenting on a post this week or next. I would like to say that I personally would like to have a study where the study guide is part of the book (where you don't have to purchase 2 books).
Realize
1. Describe Eve's circumstances in the Garden, before the entrance of sin. In spite of an ideal setting, Eve managed to become discontent and make a wrong choice. What does that say about our circumstances and our choices?
2. Look at the list of "if onlys" on pages 219-220. Do any of these apply to you? What are your personal "if onlys" - circumstances you blame for your wrong responses or your lack of joy?
3. What sinful responses have you been excusing or rationalizing because of circumstances beyond your control (e.g., I have not honored my husband, have spoken critically of him to others, and have been worrying because of his poor financial decisions)?
4. Give an example of a circumstance in your life that revealed some thing about your heart that needed to be changed (e.g., you become impatient while waiting in the line at the supermarket).
5. Read 2 Corinthians 4:8-11, 16. How did the apostle Paul emerge from his circumstances as a victor, rather than a victim?
Respond
6. List one of more difficult circumstances you are facing at this time. next to each circumstance describe your inward and outward response to that situation. God may or may not choose to change your circumstance, but if you will let Him, He will use your circumstance to change you. What changes are needed in your attitude or your responses?
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I confess that I often let my circumstances control my attitudes and my responses. I want to be controlled by Your Spirit. Please help me to trust in You, regardless of what is going on around me, and to learn to rejoice and be content in every circumstance. Amen.
Before I get started with today's questions, I just want to remind everyone that after this week there is only one week of lessons left. Please be looking into what you want the next lesson to be and let me know by commenting on a post this week or next. I would like to say that I personally would like to have a study where the study guide is part of the book (where you don't have to purchase 2 books).
Realize
1. Describe Eve's circumstances in the Garden, before the entrance of sin. In spite of an ideal setting, Eve managed to become discontent and make a wrong choice. What does that say about our circumstances and our choices?
2. Look at the list of "if onlys" on pages 219-220. Do any of these apply to you? What are your personal "if onlys" - circumstances you blame for your wrong responses or your lack of joy?
3. What sinful responses have you been excusing or rationalizing because of circumstances beyond your control (e.g., I have not honored my husband, have spoken critically of him to others, and have been worrying because of his poor financial decisions)?
4. Give an example of a circumstance in your life that revealed some thing about your heart that needed to be changed (e.g., you become impatient while waiting in the line at the supermarket).
5. Read 2 Corinthians 4:8-11, 16. How did the apostle Paul emerge from his circumstances as a victor, rather than a victim?
Respond
6. List one of more difficult circumstances you are facing at this time. next to each circumstance describe your inward and outward response to that situation. God may or may not choose to change your circumstance, but if you will let Him, He will use your circumstance to change you. What changes are needed in your attitude or your responses?
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I confess that I often let my circumstances control my attitudes and my responses. I want to be controlled by Your Spirit. Please help me to trust in You, regardless of what is going on around me, and to learn to rejoice and be content in every circumstance. Amen.
Friday, March 27, 2009
Day Five
Dealing With Depression - pgs 204-210
Realize
1. Read Psalm 42. Describe some of the circumstances David was facing and how he was feeling when he wrote this psalm.
2. Which verses in this passage show that David...
- was honest with God about how he was feeling?
- made himself face the root issues of his depression?
- turned to God in his depression?
- counseled his heart according to the Truth of God's character?
- exercised faith in God's ultimate victory over his feeling and circumstances?
Reflect
3. It is commonly assumed today that depression is caused by physiological and neurological problems. But the Scriptures indicate that spiritual issues can actually produce physical and emotional symptoms of depression. Select two or three of those issues (top of page 205) and explain how they could contribute to symptoms of depression.
4. Describe an occasion whey you experienced physical or emotional symptoms related to depression, as a result of one or more of these spiritual issues.
5. Select two or three of the following "divine resources" and explain why they are important in dealing with depression: prayer, forgiveness, confession of sin, obedience, acceptance, yielding "rights", the body of Christ, God's grace, the Word, praise and faith.
6. Many Christians have experienced a "dark night of the soul", even while they are walking with God. Read Isaiah 50:10; Hebrews 4:14-16; and 12:3. According to God's Word, what should a believer do at such times?
Respond
7. Read Psalm 42:11. Write it in your own words below, putting your name where the psalmist says "O my soul". Write this verse on a card, and put it in a place where you will be reminded to quote it to yourself as needed.
Prayer of the Day
Lord, You are my Light in the darkness, my Hope in times of despair, and my Helper in life's most desperate hours. You life up my head. No matter how great the darkness I am experiencing emotionally, help me to look to You, to wait patiently for You, and to trust that You are faithful and that Your mercy and grace will sustain me. Amen.
Realize
1. Read Psalm 42. Describe some of the circumstances David was facing and how he was feeling when he wrote this psalm.
2. Which verses in this passage show that David...
- was honest with God about how he was feeling?
- made himself face the root issues of his depression?
- turned to God in his depression?
- counseled his heart according to the Truth of God's character?
- exercised faith in God's ultimate victory over his feeling and circumstances?
Reflect
3. It is commonly assumed today that depression is caused by physiological and neurological problems. But the Scriptures indicate that spiritual issues can actually produce physical and emotional symptoms of depression. Select two or three of those issues (top of page 205) and explain how they could contribute to symptoms of depression.
4. Describe an occasion whey you experienced physical or emotional symptoms related to depression, as a result of one or more of these spiritual issues.
5. Select two or three of the following "divine resources" and explain why they are important in dealing with depression: prayer, forgiveness, confession of sin, obedience, acceptance, yielding "rights", the body of Christ, God's grace, the Word, praise and faith.
6. Many Christians have experienced a "dark night of the soul", even while they are walking with God. Read Isaiah 50:10; Hebrews 4:14-16; and 12:3. According to God's Word, what should a believer do at such times?
Respond
7. Read Psalm 42:11. Write it in your own words below, putting your name where the psalmist says "O my soul". Write this verse on a card, and put it in a place where you will be reminded to quote it to yourself as needed.
Prayer of the Day
Lord, You are my Light in the darkness, my Hope in times of despair, and my Helper in life's most desperate hours. You life up my head. No matter how great the darkness I am experiencing emotionally, help me to look to You, to wait patiently for You, and to trust that You are faithful and that Your mercy and grace will sustain me. Amen.
Thursday, March 26, 2009
Day Four
Facing Life's Changing Seasons - pgs 200-203
Realize
1. Describe what happens to you during "that time of the month". What physical and emotional changes to you experience?
2. How do you normally respond to those changes? Do your actions generally affect your relationships positively or negatively? Explain.
3. In what ways do you try to excuse your behavior-either aloud or just to yourself-when you don't feel well physically?
Reflect
4. Read Psalm 139:1-18 and Luke 12:7. How well does God know you? How is His intimate knowledge of you comforting?
5. List some divine resources that are available when your body is changing and feel out of control (e.g., the grace of God).
Respond
6. What practical steps can you take to ensure that, even if you are experiencing physical changes and your emotions are swinging wildly, you do not act in a way that is displeasing to God or unloving toward others?
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I find it especially difficult to respond correctly to You and to others when certain changes are taking place in my body. I know that You created my body, that You control the changing cycles and seasons of life, and that You have the resources to help me through. Help me to honor You in each of those seasons. Amen.
Realize
1. Describe what happens to you during "that time of the month". What physical and emotional changes to you experience?
2. How do you normally respond to those changes? Do your actions generally affect your relationships positively or negatively? Explain.
3. In what ways do you try to excuse your behavior-either aloud or just to yourself-when you don't feel well physically?
Reflect
4. Read Psalm 139:1-18 and Luke 12:7. How well does God know you? How is His intimate knowledge of you comforting?
5. List some divine resources that are available when your body is changing and feel out of control (e.g., the grace of God).
Respond
6. What practical steps can you take to ensure that, even if you are experiencing physical changes and your emotions are swinging wildly, you do not act in a way that is displeasing to God or unloving toward others?
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I find it especially difficult to respond correctly to You and to others when certain changes are taking place in my body. I know that You created my body, that You control the changing cycles and seasons of life, and that You have the resources to help me through. Help me to honor You in each of those seasons. Amen.
Wednesday, March 25, 2009
Day Three
Expressing Your Emotions - pgs 197-199
Realize
1. The Psalms are rich with the personal, emotional outpourings of the psalmists' hearts. What emotions are expressed in the following verses?
Psalm 6:1-3; Psalm 9:1-2; Psalm 10:1; Psalm 51:1-2; Psalm 90:7-10; Psalm 118:24
Reflect
2. Why is it significant that, in each of the passages above, the psalmist pours out his heart to the Lord?
3. Read Psalm 6. How did David bring God into his emotional struggle? How can expressing our feelings to God help us deal with runaway emotions?
4. What truths about God helped David find emotional stability in Psalm 6?
5. Read 2 Peter 1:4. How can God's promises protect us from expressing our natural emotions in sinful ways?
6. Write down two biblical promises that you can turn to and rely on when you are feeling overwhelmed by negative emotions.
Respond
7. review the list of promises and commands of God's Word on pages 198-199. Which promise or command can you claim or obey today to help steady any emotions you are feeling that may not be based on the Truth?
Prayer of the Day
Thank You, Father, that I can pour our my heart to You when I am troubled. Thank You for the many promises and commands in Your Word that can protect me from sin. Help me to claim Your promises and look to You for grace to obey Your commands, regardless of what I may be feeling. Amen.
Realize
1. The Psalms are rich with the personal, emotional outpourings of the psalmists' hearts. What emotions are expressed in the following verses?
Psalm 6:1-3; Psalm 9:1-2; Psalm 10:1; Psalm 51:1-2; Psalm 90:7-10; Psalm 118:24
Reflect
2. Why is it significant that, in each of the passages above, the psalmist pours out his heart to the Lord?
3. Read Psalm 6. How did David bring God into his emotional struggle? How can expressing our feelings to God help us deal with runaway emotions?
4. What truths about God helped David find emotional stability in Psalm 6?
5. Read 2 Peter 1:4. How can God's promises protect us from expressing our natural emotions in sinful ways?
6. Write down two biblical promises that you can turn to and rely on when you are feeling overwhelmed by negative emotions.
Respond
7. review the list of promises and commands of God's Word on pages 198-199. Which promise or command can you claim or obey today to help steady any emotions you are feeling that may not be based on the Truth?
Prayer of the Day
Thank You, Father, that I can pour our my heart to You when I am troubled. Thank You for the many promises and commands in Your Word that can protect me from sin. Help me to claim Your promises and look to You for grace to obey Your commands, regardless of what I may be feeling. Amen.
Tuesday, March 24, 2009
Day Two
Controlling Your Emotions - pgs. 197-199
Realize
1. Describe a time when your emotions got the better of you-when you felt that your emotions were out of control.
2. How much do your emotions affect you actions on any given day?
Reflect
3. Ephesians 4:26 says, "In your anger do not sin." The Bible acknowledges the reality of anger, but God expects us to control how we react when we are angry. The emotion of anger itself is not the sin but often prompts a sinful response. Which emotions do you have the hardest time controlling? What are some sinful ways you express those emotions?
4. Describe an occasion when you acted on your feelings in a sinful way.
5. Read Isaiah 26:3; Philippians 4:8-9; and Colossians 3:1-2. How can we be free from the control of feelings that are not based on Truth? Why is it so important to control what we think about?
6. What positive steps does the Scripture exhort us to take in dealing with runaway emotions?
Respond
7. What can you do today to fix your mind, thoughts, and heart on God and His Truth?
Prayer of the Day
Father, sometimes my emotions do seem overwhelming. Thank You that I do not need to be controlled by my feelings. I pray that You will be Lord over every part of my life, including my emotions. Help me to set my thoughts and affections on You each moment of the day. Amen.
Realize
1. Describe a time when your emotions got the better of you-when you felt that your emotions were out of control.
2. How much do your emotions affect you actions on any given day?
Reflect
3. Ephesians 4:26 says, "In your anger do not sin." The Bible acknowledges the reality of anger, but God expects us to control how we react when we are angry. The emotion of anger itself is not the sin but often prompts a sinful response. Which emotions do you have the hardest time controlling? What are some sinful ways you express those emotions?
4. Describe an occasion when you acted on your feelings in a sinful way.
5. Read Isaiah 26:3; Philippians 4:8-9; and Colossians 3:1-2. How can we be free from the control of feelings that are not based on Truth? Why is it so important to control what we think about?
6. What positive steps does the Scripture exhort us to take in dealing with runaway emotions?
Respond
7. What can you do today to fix your mind, thoughts, and heart on God and His Truth?
Prayer of the Day
Father, sometimes my emotions do seem overwhelming. Thank You that I do not need to be controlled by my feelings. I pray that You will be Lord over every part of my life, including my emotions. Help me to set my thoughts and affections on You each moment of the day. Amen.
Monday, March 23, 2009
Handling Emotions - Day One
Discerning Your Emotions - pgs 193-197
Realize
1. Read Deuteronomy 4:24; Psalm 30:5; 36:5; and Matthew 26:38. What are some of the emotions God experiences? Why is it important to understand that god expresses emotions?
2. Because we are made in God's image (Genesis 1:27), what does that mean about our emotions?
Reflect
3. Read Psalm16:5-11. What words or phrases in this passage speak of positive emotional expressions? What causes such emotions to flow out of the psalmist's heart?
4. In what ways are our emotions tainted by the Fall? Describe how you have experienced that tainting of emotions in your life.
5. What are some of the things that can cause our feelings to fluctuate?
6. Why is it dangerous for us to live and act completely on the basis of our feelings?
7. Read Psalm 56:3-4. What is the role of faith in dealing with our emotions?
Respond
8. What is one feeling you have experienced recently that is not consistent with the Truth and needs to be rejected?
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I understand that my emotions are part of how You created me, yet many times they are unreliable because they are influenced by changing circumstances. Help me to reject any feelings that are not based on Truth and to trust Your Word rather than my feelings. Amen.
Realize
1. Read Deuteronomy 4:24; Psalm 30:5; 36:5; and Matthew 26:38. What are some of the emotions God experiences? Why is it important to understand that god expresses emotions?
2. Because we are made in God's image (Genesis 1:27), what does that mean about our emotions?
Reflect
3. Read Psalm16:5-11. What words or phrases in this passage speak of positive emotional expressions? What causes such emotions to flow out of the psalmist's heart?
4. In what ways are our emotions tainted by the Fall? Describe how you have experienced that tainting of emotions in your life.
5. What are some of the things that can cause our feelings to fluctuate?
6. Why is it dangerous for us to live and act completely on the basis of our feelings?
7. Read Psalm 56:3-4. What is the role of faith in dealing with our emotions?
Respond
8. What is one feeling you have experienced recently that is not consistent with the Truth and needs to be rejected?
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I understand that my emotions are part of how You created me, yet many times they are unreliable because they are influenced by changing circumstances. Help me to reject any feelings that are not based on Truth and to trust Your Word rather than my feelings. Amen.
Friday, March 20, 2009
Day Five
Shaping Your Children - pgs 182-187
Realize
1. Read 1 Thessalonians 1:2-6 and 2:3-13. This description of the apostle Paul's ministry has some striking applications for parents who want to see their children become followers of Christ. Record several insights from this passage about the qualities and actions of good discipleship.
2. According to these verses, what were the results of Paul's ministry in the lives of his spiritual children?
Reflect
3. One study indicated that eight out of ten young people who grow up in the church leave the church after high school, never to return. Why do you think so many children grow up in Christian homes, schools, and churches without ever developing a real heart for God?
4. Reread 1 Thessalonians 2:10. Paul recognized the impact of his example on these young believers. In what areas do you believe you have set a good example for your children? In what areas would you not want them to follow your example?
5. Read 1 Thessalonians 2:11-12. Why is it important to provide a balance of warm encouragement and firm admonition for those we lead? Which of these generally comes more easily for you with your children? Which do you need to provide more of?
Respond
6. What character and spiritual qualities do you want your children to have when they leave home? How can you be more intentional about developing those qualities in their lives?
7. If your children end up being a mirror reflection of you, what will they look like? What changes do you need to allow the Lord to make in your life so that you can say to your children, "Imitate me just as I also imitate Christ" (1 Corinthians 11:1)? (If you are really courageous, ask your children to answer these questions about their mother!)
Prayer of the Day
Lord, it is sobering to realize how much our children pick up from our lives, our values, and our walk with You. Please do whatever is needed to make me the mother that my children need. May my life create in them a desire to know and follow You. Please work in their lives to draw them to you, that our family may reflect Your light to others. Amen.
Realize
1. Read 1 Thessalonians 1:2-6 and 2:3-13. This description of the apostle Paul's ministry has some striking applications for parents who want to see their children become followers of Christ. Record several insights from this passage about the qualities and actions of good discipleship.
2. According to these verses, what were the results of Paul's ministry in the lives of his spiritual children?
Reflect
3. One study indicated that eight out of ten young people who grow up in the church leave the church after high school, never to return. Why do you think so many children grow up in Christian homes, schools, and churches without ever developing a real heart for God?
4. Reread 1 Thessalonians 2:10. Paul recognized the impact of his example on these young believers. In what areas do you believe you have set a good example for your children? In what areas would you not want them to follow your example?
5. Read 1 Thessalonians 2:11-12. Why is it important to provide a balance of warm encouragement and firm admonition for those we lead? Which of these generally comes more easily for you with your children? Which do you need to provide more of?
Respond
6. What character and spiritual qualities do you want your children to have when they leave home? How can you be more intentional about developing those qualities in their lives?
7. If your children end up being a mirror reflection of you, what will they look like? What changes do you need to allow the Lord to make in your life so that you can say to your children, "Imitate me just as I also imitate Christ" (1 Corinthians 11:1)? (If you are really courageous, ask your children to answer these questions about their mother!)
Prayer of the Day
Lord, it is sobering to realize how much our children pick up from our lives, our values, and our walk with You. Please do whatever is needed to make me the mother that my children need. May my life create in them a desire to know and follow You. Please work in their lives to draw them to you, that our family may reflect Your light to others. Amen.
Thursday, March 19, 2009
Day Four
Your Children's Faith - pgs 179-182
Realize
1. According to the following verses, what are some of the evidences of genuine conversion?
* 2 Corinthians 5:17
* Hebrews 3:14
* 1 John 2:3-5
* 1 John 3:14-15
* 1 John 4:13,15
Reflect
2. Before parents can pray wisely about the spiritual condition of their children, they must have assurance of their own salvation. Based on the Scriptures above, what evidence does your life give of genuine conversion?
3. The Bible makes it clear that those who call upon the Lord are saved - and that applies to small children as well (Luke 18:16; Romans 10:13). How can parents encourage their children to place their trust in Christ without pushing them into a "decision" apart from the true conviction of sin and the drawing of the Spirit?
4. If your children are strong in their faith, how should you pray for them? if your children have not become believers or are living in ways that contradict their profession of faith, how should you pray for them?
5. Why is it important for parents to give their children spiritual training right from the start? What does the Bible say about training up our children (Proverbs 22:6; Ephesians 6:4)?
Respond
6. If your child is living apart from Christ, why is it dangerous to turn a blind eye to his need for salvation, assuming that in time he will return? What do you think God wants you to do for your straying child today? What does He promise (John 6:39; 2 Peter 3:9)?
Prayer of the Day
Father, I want all of my children to become Your true children. I pray that Your Spirit will bring each of my children to a point of genuine conviction and conversion. May the fruit of my conversion and theirs be evident in the way we live. Amen
Realize
1. According to the following verses, what are some of the evidences of genuine conversion?
* 2 Corinthians 5:17
* Hebrews 3:14
* 1 John 2:3-5
* 1 John 3:14-15
* 1 John 4:13,15
Reflect
2. Before parents can pray wisely about the spiritual condition of their children, they must have assurance of their own salvation. Based on the Scriptures above, what evidence does your life give of genuine conversion?
3. The Bible makes it clear that those who call upon the Lord are saved - and that applies to small children as well (Luke 18:16; Romans 10:13). How can parents encourage their children to place their trust in Christ without pushing them into a "decision" apart from the true conviction of sin and the drawing of the Spirit?
4. If your children are strong in their faith, how should you pray for them? if your children have not become believers or are living in ways that contradict their profession of faith, how should you pray for them?
5. Why is it important for parents to give their children spiritual training right from the start? What does the Bible say about training up our children (Proverbs 22:6; Ephesians 6:4)?
Respond
6. If your child is living apart from Christ, why is it dangerous to turn a blind eye to his need for salvation, assuming that in time he will return? What do you think God wants you to do for your straying child today? What does He promise (John 6:39; 2 Peter 3:9)?
Prayer of the Day
Father, I want all of my children to become Your true children. I pray that Your Spirit will bring each of my children to a point of genuine conviction and conversion. May the fruit of my conversion and theirs be evident in the way we live. Amen
Wednesday, March 18, 2009
Day Three
Avoiding Rebellion - pgs 176-179
Realize
1. Read Psalm 78:1-7. Describe the responsibility god gives parents for their children and grandchildren. What outcome does the psalmist encourage parents to anticipate as a results of their obedience? What resources does God make available to fulfill this responsibility?
2. Read Genesis 18:17-19. What vision did God give Abraham for his role as a father and for his children and the generations to follow?
Reflect
3. God has not left parents without the necessary resources to fulfill their calling with their children. He gives parents His Spirit, His Word, faith, prayer, humility, discipline, instruction, the power of godly modeling, love, the grace of God, and the body of Christ. Select two or three of these resources that you need to take greater advantage of in your home. Explain how each could assist you in leading your children to follow Christ.
4. The promises of God are another resource for parents. read Psalm 103:17-18 and Acts 2:39. How do these verses give hope to parents who walk with God?
Respond
5. If you have a child who is rebelling, how can you best help him through this difficult time so that he has the least amount of regrets or lifelong consequences?
6. In what ways can you give each of your children a vision of the purpose and plans God as for his or her life?
Prayer of the Day
Father, I cry out to You on behalf of my children and plead with You for wisdom to know how to lead them. Help me to communicate Your ways to them, and show me how to rely on Your resources. I pray that You will open their hearts to the Truth, that their wills will be brought into submission to Yours, and that You will protect them from choices they will one day regret. Amen.
Realize
1. Read Psalm 78:1-7. Describe the responsibility god gives parents for their children and grandchildren. What outcome does the psalmist encourage parents to anticipate as a results of their obedience? What resources does God make available to fulfill this responsibility?
2. Read Genesis 18:17-19. What vision did God give Abraham for his role as a father and for his children and the generations to follow?
Reflect
3. God has not left parents without the necessary resources to fulfill their calling with their children. He gives parents His Spirit, His Word, faith, prayer, humility, discipline, instruction, the power of godly modeling, love, the grace of God, and the body of Christ. Select two or three of these resources that you need to take greater advantage of in your home. Explain how each could assist you in leading your children to follow Christ.
4. The promises of God are another resource for parents. read Psalm 103:17-18 and Acts 2:39. How do these verses give hope to parents who walk with God?
Respond
5. If you have a child who is rebelling, how can you best help him through this difficult time so that he has the least amount of regrets or lifelong consequences?
6. In what ways can you give each of your children a vision of the purpose and plans God as for his or her life?
Prayer of the Day
Father, I cry out to You on behalf of my children and plead with You for wisdom to know how to lead them. Help me to communicate Your ways to them, and show me how to rely on Your resources. I pray that You will open their hearts to the Truth, that their wills will be brought into submission to Yours, and that You will protect them from choices they will one day regret. Amen.
Tuesday, March 17, 2009
Day Two
Protecting Your Children - pgs 173-176
Realize
1. Children are a valuable treasure; they must be carefully protected, cared for, and nurtured. As you would protect a delicate seedling from winter storms and regularly give it water, what are some things you can do to care for your precious seedlings" - your children?
* Protect them
* Give them
2. Read Psalm 101. In your own words, summarize what these verses say about the environment parents should seek to create in their homes.
3. Read Psalm 92:13-15. What encouragement do these verses give to parents who seek to raise their children in a Christ-centered environment?
Reflect
4. While God does not intend for us to know evil by experiencing it ourselves, our children need to understand that evil exists and to learn to discern between good and evil. How can parents help their children develop that kind of discernment without exposing them to influences from which they should be protected?
5. Read Matthew 5:13-16. What are some practical ways you can give your children a vision for becoming a righteous influence in an unrighteous world?
Respond
6. If you have children still living at home, prayerfully consider the various influences in their lives. Ask the Lord to show you any negative influences from which they need to be protected and any positive influences that need to be added. Write down any specifics He brings to mind.
* Entertainment (TV, movies, computer games, Internet)
* Reading (books, magazines)
* Music
* Friends
* Education (school, teachers, textbooks)
* Atmosphere and example in the home
Prayer of the Day
Lord, please make me discerning and alert to protect my children from evil influences, even if that means being different than others around us. Give my children a desire for what is holy, true, and good. Help me to model right choices for them. I pray that my children will grow up to love You with all their hearts and to bring You glory in this world. Amen.
Realize
1. Children are a valuable treasure; they must be carefully protected, cared for, and nurtured. As you would protect a delicate seedling from winter storms and regularly give it water, what are some things you can do to care for your precious seedlings" - your children?
* Protect them
* Give them
2. Read Psalm 101. In your own words, summarize what these verses say about the environment parents should seek to create in their homes.
3. Read Psalm 92:13-15. What encouragement do these verses give to parents who seek to raise their children in a Christ-centered environment?
Reflect
4. While God does not intend for us to know evil by experiencing it ourselves, our children need to understand that evil exists and to learn to discern between good and evil. How can parents help their children develop that kind of discernment without exposing them to influences from which they should be protected?
5. Read Matthew 5:13-16. What are some practical ways you can give your children a vision for becoming a righteous influence in an unrighteous world?
Respond
6. If you have children still living at home, prayerfully consider the various influences in their lives. Ask the Lord to show you any negative influences from which they need to be protected and any positive influences that need to be added. Write down any specifics He brings to mind.
* Entertainment (TV, movies, computer games, Internet)
* Reading (books, magazines)
* Music
* Friends
* Education (school, teachers, textbooks)
* Atmosphere and example in the home
Prayer of the Day
Lord, please make me discerning and alert to protect my children from evil influences, even if that means being different than others around us. Give my children a desire for what is holy, true, and good. Help me to model right choices for them. I pray that my children will grow up to love You with all their hearts and to bring You glory in this world. Amen.
Monday, March 16, 2009
Raising Children
The Blessing of Children - pgs 167-172
Note: Again in this chapter, simply skip any questions that do not apply to you if you are not a mom.
Realize
1. Read the following verses: Psalm 113:9; 127:3-5; and Matthew 19:13-15. What do they tell us about God's view of children?
2. How is the world's view of children different than God's view?
Reflect
3. This issue is probably the most controversial one addressed in Lies Women Believe. Why do you think this subject evokes such a strong reaction from so many women?
4. What are some of the factors that commonly influence people's decisions about the size and timing of their family? Put a check mark next to any factors that have influenced your decisions in this area.
5. the Scripture does not explicitly address the subject of birth control (except for the instance when Pharaoh forbade Jewish women from having children). However, it has much to say about children and childbearing: for example,
* children are a blessing and a gift from God;
* they are primary means of passing the faith from one generation to the next;
* God is the One who opens and shuts the womb; childbearing is a primary purpose of marriage (Malachi 2:15);
* the willingness to bear children is a vital evidence of a woman's faith (1 Timothy 2:15; 5:14).
We also know that God is sovereign and that He can be trusted (Jeremiah 29:11). What implications would these truths have for a couple as they make decisions related to childbearing?
Respond
6. Would you say that your decisions in relation to childbearing have been based on...
* fear or faith?
* natural, human reasoning or biblical thinking?
* selfish motives or a commitment to the kingdom of God?
* personal emotions and desires or a sincere desire to honor God?
7. If you have any doubt or confusion as to whether your position on childbearing is pleasing to the Lord, write out a prayer asking God to show you the Truth and to give you the faith and courage to walk in the Truth.
8. Sometimes it's easy to forget that your children really are a blessing? If you have children, write their names and ages below. Next to each name write a phrase or two explaining how that child has been a blessing to you.
Prayer of the Day
Lord, thank You for the gift of children. Help me to welcome them even as You do. Show me how to fulfill my calling as a woman - to be the bearer and nurturer of life, whether that means having physical children of my own or "mothering" spiritual children You entrust in me. Amen.
Note: Again in this chapter, simply skip any questions that do not apply to you if you are not a mom.
Realize
1. Read the following verses: Psalm 113:9; 127:3-5; and Matthew 19:13-15. What do they tell us about God's view of children?
2. How is the world's view of children different than God's view?
Reflect
3. This issue is probably the most controversial one addressed in Lies Women Believe. Why do you think this subject evokes such a strong reaction from so many women?
4. What are some of the factors that commonly influence people's decisions about the size and timing of their family? Put a check mark next to any factors that have influenced your decisions in this area.
5. the Scripture does not explicitly address the subject of birth control (except for the instance when Pharaoh forbade Jewish women from having children). However, it has much to say about children and childbearing: for example,
* children are a blessing and a gift from God;
* they are primary means of passing the faith from one generation to the next;
* God is the One who opens and shuts the womb; childbearing is a primary purpose of marriage (Malachi 2:15);
* the willingness to bear children is a vital evidence of a woman's faith (1 Timothy 2:15; 5:14).
We also know that God is sovereign and that He can be trusted (Jeremiah 29:11). What implications would these truths have for a couple as they make decisions related to childbearing?
Respond
6. Would you say that your decisions in relation to childbearing have been based on...
* fear or faith?
* natural, human reasoning or biblical thinking?
* selfish motives or a commitment to the kingdom of God?
* personal emotions and desires or a sincere desire to honor God?
7. If you have any doubt or confusion as to whether your position on childbearing is pleasing to the Lord, write out a prayer asking God to show you the Truth and to give you the faith and courage to walk in the Truth.
8. Sometimes it's easy to forget that your children really are a blessing? If you have children, write their names and ages below. Next to each name write a phrase or two explaining how that child has been a blessing to you.
Prayer of the Day
Lord, thank You for the gift of children. Help me to welcome them even as You do. Show me how to fulfill my calling as a woman - to be the bearer and nurturer of life, whether that means having physical children of my own or "mothering" spiritual children You entrust in me. Amen.
Friday, March 13, 2009
Day Five
The Covenant of Marriage - pgs 156-161
Realize
1. Read and summarize what the Bible says about marriage in Genesis 2:18-24; Malachi 2:13-16; and Mark 10:2-12. Why is marriage a lifetime, binding relationship? How does divorce mar God's design?
2. What does Ecclesiastes 5:4-6 tell us about God's perspective on vows? What are the consequences of breaking a vow? (Note: If physical danger or abuse is involved, a woman should seek protection, direction and intervention from the appropriate civil and/or spiritual authorities, rather than attempting to handle the situation on her own.)
Reflect
3. Read Psalm 89:33-34 and Isaiah 54:10. What do these verses tell us about the character of God? What are the implications for our lives, as we seek to be like Him and reflect His image in our marriage?
4. Review the list of truths about marriage on pgs 159-160. In your own words, write out any that apply to a challenge you may be facing in your marriage or that you could share with a friend who is in a difficult marriage.
Respond
5. In prayer, claim these truths, and ask God to help you to be faithful to Him and to your mate, no matter how difficult it may feel. In your own words, express below your commitment to be faithful to you marriage vows and to reflect the covenant-keeping heart of God.
Note: If you are divorced, remember that the grace of God can turn "ashes to beauty." He loves you and wants the very best for you. If your husband violated his vow toward you, what steps can you take toward completely forgiving him and finding healing and wholeness in Christ? If you were responsible for breaking your marriage vow, what steps do you need to take to be right with God and with your husband?
Prayer of the Day
Thank You, Lord, for being faithful, even when we are unfaithful to You. I recognize that we need Your presence and power if our marriage is going to reflect You and bring You glory. Please give me grace to be faithful to You and faithful to my husband. In the difficult times, help me to walk in humility, love, and forgiveness, and to trust You to work in our lives and our marriage. Amen.
Realize
1. Read and summarize what the Bible says about marriage in Genesis 2:18-24; Malachi 2:13-16; and Mark 10:2-12. Why is marriage a lifetime, binding relationship? How does divorce mar God's design?
2. What does Ecclesiastes 5:4-6 tell us about God's perspective on vows? What are the consequences of breaking a vow? (Note: If physical danger or abuse is involved, a woman should seek protection, direction and intervention from the appropriate civil and/or spiritual authorities, rather than attempting to handle the situation on her own.)
Reflect
3. Read Psalm 89:33-34 and Isaiah 54:10. What do these verses tell us about the character of God? What are the implications for our lives, as we seek to be like Him and reflect His image in our marriage?
4. Review the list of truths about marriage on pgs 159-160. In your own words, write out any that apply to a challenge you may be facing in your marriage or that you could share with a friend who is in a difficult marriage.
Respond
5. In prayer, claim these truths, and ask God to help you to be faithful to Him and to your mate, no matter how difficult it may feel. In your own words, express below your commitment to be faithful to you marriage vows and to reflect the covenant-keeping heart of God.
Note: If you are divorced, remember that the grace of God can turn "ashes to beauty." He loves you and wants the very best for you. If your husband violated his vow toward you, what steps can you take toward completely forgiving him and finding healing and wholeness in Christ? If you were responsible for breaking your marriage vow, what steps do you need to take to be right with God and with your husband?
Prayer of the Day
Thank You, Lord, for being faithful, even when we are unfaithful to You. I recognize that we need Your presence and power if our marriage is going to reflect You and bring You glory. Please give me grace to be faithful to You and faithful to my husband. In the difficult times, help me to walk in humility, love, and forgiveness, and to trust You to work in our lives and our marriage. Amen.
Thursday, March 12, 2009
Day Four
The Power of Submission - pgs 146-156
Realize
1. Read Ephesians 5:22-23. In what ways should a Christian marriage be a picture of the redemptive relationship between Christ and His church?
2. According to verses 22 and 33, what are the two ways wives are called to respond to their husbands?
Reflect
3. How does submission to God-ordained authority reveal that we are trusting in God?
4. What happens when a woman becomes frustrated with her husband's leadership (or lack of leadership) and takes matters into her own hands? How does that affect her, her husband, and their relationship?
Respond
5. Married women: What is one specific area where you need to pray and wait on the Lord to change your husband's heart, rather than jumping in to handle the matter yourself?
Unmarried women: Even apart from marriage, women can affirm appropriate male leadership by making room for men to take initiative. What is one way you can do this in your relationship with a man such as your father, your employer or your pastor?
6. Married women: How do your responses and your attitude toward your husband measure up to the standard of Ephesians 5?
Unmarried women: How well are you submitting to whatever human authorities God has placed over you?
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I confess that I often struggle against submission. Help me to show my submission to You by the way I respond to my husband's leadership. Thank You that even when my husband (or another authority) fails, I can trust You to protect me as I walk in submission to Your Word. Amen.
Realize
1. Read Ephesians 5:22-23. In what ways should a Christian marriage be a picture of the redemptive relationship between Christ and His church?
2. According to verses 22 and 33, what are the two ways wives are called to respond to their husbands?
Reflect
3. How does submission to God-ordained authority reveal that we are trusting in God?
4. What happens when a woman becomes frustrated with her husband's leadership (or lack of leadership) and takes matters into her own hands? How does that affect her, her husband, and their relationship?
Respond
5. Married women: What is one specific area where you need to pray and wait on the Lord to change your husband's heart, rather than jumping in to handle the matter yourself?
Unmarried women: Even apart from marriage, women can affirm appropriate male leadership by making room for men to take initiative. What is one way you can do this in your relationship with a man such as your father, your employer or your pastor?
6. Married women: How do your responses and your attitude toward your husband measure up to the standard of Ephesians 5?
Unmarried women: How well are you submitting to whatever human authorities God has placed over you?
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I confess that I often struggle against submission. Help me to show my submission to You by the way I respond to my husband's leadership. Thank You that even when my husband (or another authority) fails, I can trust You to protect me as I walk in submission to Your Word. Amen.
Wednesday, March 11, 2009
Day Three
A Virtuous Woman - pgs 142-145
Realize
1. Read Matthew 20:28; John 13:1-5, 12-17; and Philippians 2:5-7. What does it mean to be a servant? How did Jesus demonstrate the heart of a servant? What do we learn from His example about our calling as His followers?
Reflect
2. According to Genesis 2:18, God made the woman to be a "helper suitable" to her husband. What are some practical ways a wife might fulfill that role?
3. The virtuous woman in Proverbs 31:10-31 is probably a composite of the virtuous qualities in many women. What can you learn from her about serving our husband and family?
4. How can a woman develop and maintain a servant's heart when she feels that she is being taken advantage of or that no one appreciates what she does?
Respond
5. What are five practical ways you can demonstrate the servant heart of Jesus toward your husband this week?
6. List some ways that your husband serves you. How will you thank him for those acts of service?
Prayer of the Day
Lord Jesus, You came to this earth to be a servant. I want to be like You. Yet serving is difficult sometimes: it can be such a thankless and lonely job. Help me to serve my husband and family as if I were serving You. Amen.
Realize
1. Read Matthew 20:28; John 13:1-5, 12-17; and Philippians 2:5-7. What does it mean to be a servant? How did Jesus demonstrate the heart of a servant? What do we learn from His example about our calling as His followers?
Reflect
2. According to Genesis 2:18, God made the woman to be a "helper suitable" to her husband. What are some practical ways a wife might fulfill that role?
3. The virtuous woman in Proverbs 31:10-31 is probably a composite of the virtuous qualities in many women. What can you learn from her about serving our husband and family?
4. How can a woman develop and maintain a servant's heart when she feels that she is being taken advantage of or that no one appreciates what she does?
Respond
5. What are five practical ways you can demonstrate the servant heart of Jesus toward your husband this week?
6. List some ways that your husband serves you. How will you thank him for those acts of service?
Prayer of the Day
Lord Jesus, You came to this earth to be a servant. I want to be like You. Yet serving is difficult sometimes: it can be such a thankless and lonely job. Help me to serve my husband and family as if I were serving You. Amen.
Tuesday, March 10, 2009
Day Two
Letting Go - pgs 140-142
Realize
1. While our intentions in wanting to change our husbands may be good in our own eyes, what does the Bible say about women who constantly harp on their husbands? (Read Proverbs 17:1; 19:13; 21:9.)
Reflect
2. Do you feel frustrated by things in your husband's life that you wish would change? If so, how have you been handling those feelings (e.g., ignoring them, ignoring him, nagging, telling your friends, worrying, etc.)?
3. What perspective and hope does Proverbs 21:1 offer about these things that need to be changed in your husband's life?
4. In what ways could living a godly life before your husband be beneficial for both him and you?
5. In what ways can you pray for your husband so that you are truly turning your burden over to the Lord? What if you don't see any answers for years?
Respond
6. Read Matthew 7:1-5. Would you want God and others to deal with your imperfections in the same way you deal with your husband's flaws?
7. What "plank" may you have missed in your own eye, while you have been so focused on trying to get rid of the "speck" in your husband's eye? Ask God to help you see the things in your life that need to be changed.
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I understand that I need to let You work in my life and in my husband's life. Help me not to be nagging, accusatory, or angry. Teach me how to life an upright life before my husband and to bring the burdens I feel about him to You in prayer. Lord, help me to wait on You and trust you to fulfill Your purposes in both our lives. Amen.
Realize
1. While our intentions in wanting to change our husbands may be good in our own eyes, what does the Bible say about women who constantly harp on their husbands? (Read Proverbs 17:1; 19:13; 21:9.)
Reflect
2. Do you feel frustrated by things in your husband's life that you wish would change? If so, how have you been handling those feelings (e.g., ignoring them, ignoring him, nagging, telling your friends, worrying, etc.)?
3. What perspective and hope does Proverbs 21:1 offer about these things that need to be changed in your husband's life?
4. In what ways could living a godly life before your husband be beneficial for both him and you?
5. In what ways can you pray for your husband so that you are truly turning your burden over to the Lord? What if you don't see any answers for years?
Respond
6. Read Matthew 7:1-5. Would you want God and others to deal with your imperfections in the same way you deal with your husband's flaws?
7. What "plank" may you have missed in your own eye, while you have been so focused on trying to get rid of the "speck" in your husband's eye? Ask God to help you see the things in your life that need to be changed.
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I understand that I need to let You work in my life and in my husband's life. Help me not to be nagging, accusatory, or angry. Teach me how to life an upright life before my husband and to bring the burdens I feel about him to You in prayer. Lord, help me to wait on You and trust you to fulfill Your purposes in both our lives. Amen.
Monday, March 9, 2009
Honoring God In My Marriage
Expectations of Marriage - pgs 135-140
Note: If you are not currently married, feel free to skip over any questions in this week's study that do not apply directly to you.
Realize
1. How does our culture promote unrealistic expectations of marriage?
2. What is an expectation you had prior to marriage that you found to be unrealistic after getting married?
Reflect
3. Read Psalm 62:5; 118:8-9; and Jeremiah 17:5-8. Why is it foolish to look to people to satisfy us and meet our needs? Where should we focus our expectations?
4. Reflect on your marriage or, if you aren't married, on your desire for a husband. Are you expecting a man to meet needs in you life that only God can meet? What are those needs?
Respond
5. Have you made your husband a prisoner of your expectations by putting pressure on his to satisfy you and make you happy? Ask God to help you release your husband, and choose to place your hope wholly in God.
6. What is the ultimate source of true happiness? What biblical counsel would you give to a woman who says her husband is not making her happy? To a single woman who is finding it difficult to be content without a husband?
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I thank You for my situation in life. I pray that You will help me not to look to other people to meet my needs but to look only to You. I realize that no human being can control my happiness; ultimately, I may choose to live in joy because of my relationship with You. Amen
Note: If you are not currently married, feel free to skip over any questions in this week's study that do not apply directly to you.
Realize
1. How does our culture promote unrealistic expectations of marriage?
2. What is an expectation you had prior to marriage that you found to be unrealistic after getting married?
Reflect
3. Read Psalm 62:5; 118:8-9; and Jeremiah 17:5-8. Why is it foolish to look to people to satisfy us and meet our needs? Where should we focus our expectations?
4. Reflect on your marriage or, if you aren't married, on your desire for a husband. Are you expecting a man to meet needs in you life that only God can meet? What are those needs?
Respond
5. Have you made your husband a prisoner of your expectations by putting pressure on his to satisfy you and make you happy? Ask God to help you release your husband, and choose to place your hope wholly in God.
6. What is the ultimate source of true happiness? What biblical counsel would you give to a woman who says her husband is not making her happy? To a single woman who is finding it difficult to be content without a husband?
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I thank You for my situation in life. I pray that You will help me not to look to other people to meet my needs but to look only to You. I realize that no human being can control my happiness; ultimately, I may choose to live in joy because of my relationship with You. Amen
Friday, March 6, 2009
Day Five
The Heart of Your Home - pgs 124-131
Realize
1. Read and meditate on Proverbs 31:10-31. These are not requiring you to be superwoman; instead, they present a portrait of a woman whose life is ordered around God-honoring priorities. What do you learn from her about the priorities of a woman who "fears the Lord"?
Reflect
2. What are some of the consequences our culture has reaped as a result of women's hearts being lured away from their homes?
3. Why is the family so important in God's economy? Why are the roles of "wife" and "mother" so vital in building strong homes?
4. What are some practical ways women can demonstrate the priority they place on their roles as wives and mothers?
Respond
5. For wives and moms: Ask God to show you if there are any secondary priorities that have infringed on your primary calling as a wife and mother. Record anything He places on your heart. What changes do you need to make in order to be faithful in fulfilling your responsibility to your family?
6. For single women without children: As a part of the body of Christ, how can you encourage other women in their callings as wives and mothers? What are some practical ways you can invest your time and energies in the family of God?
Prayer of the Day
Thank You, Lord, for the distinctive calling You have given to women in their homes. I want to fulfill the role for which You created me. If there are changes I need to make in my priories, please show me what I need to do and give me the courage to do it. Help me to make our home a safe harbor for my family. Come into our home and make it a place where You are known and loved and revealed. Amen.
Realize
1. Read and meditate on Proverbs 31:10-31. These are not requiring you to be superwoman; instead, they present a portrait of a woman whose life is ordered around God-honoring priorities. What do you learn from her about the priorities of a woman who "fears the Lord"?
Reflect
2. What are some of the consequences our culture has reaped as a result of women's hearts being lured away from their homes?
3. Why is the family so important in God's economy? Why are the roles of "wife" and "mother" so vital in building strong homes?
4. What are some practical ways women can demonstrate the priority they place on their roles as wives and mothers?
Respond
5. For wives and moms: Ask God to show you if there are any secondary priorities that have infringed on your primary calling as a wife and mother. Record anything He places on your heart. What changes do you need to make in order to be faithful in fulfilling your responsibility to your family?
6. For single women without children: As a part of the body of Christ, how can you encourage other women in their callings as wives and mothers? What are some practical ways you can invest your time and energies in the family of God?
Prayer of the Day
Thank You, Lord, for the distinctive calling You have given to women in their homes. I want to fulfill the role for which You created me. If there are changes I need to make in my priories, please show me what I need to do and give me the courage to do it. Help me to make our home a safe harbor for my family. Come into our home and make it a place where You are known and loved and revealed. Amen.
Thursday, March 5, 2009
Day Four
Time in Prayer - pgs 121-124
Realize
1. Read Matthew 14:23; Mark 1:35; and Luke 6:12; 9:28. Jesus had a habit of going off alone to pray. Why do you think prayer was such a priority for Jesus?
2. Read 1 Samuel 23:2,4 and Psalm 5:3. How is David's life an example of the importance of prayer?
Reflect
3. Do you have a daily habit of spending time alone with God, reading His Word and praying? If not, what usually gets in the way?
4. Think about a day when you tried to "run on your own steam." How did things go? In what ways is your life different when you spend time along talking with God?
Respond
5. How can you follow Jesus' example regarding time alone with God?
6. If you are struggling with having a regular quite time because of a busy schedule, then schedule it. Ask the Lord to lead you as to when is the best time for you. Write down a specific time each day that you will set aside for an appointment with God.
Prayer of the Day
Father, I want to cultivate a more intimate relationship with You. Please teach me to pray. Give me the desire and the discipline to spend time each day communicating with You. Amen.
Realize
1. Read Matthew 14:23; Mark 1:35; and Luke 6:12; 9:28. Jesus had a habit of going off alone to pray. Why do you think prayer was such a priority for Jesus?
2. Read 1 Samuel 23:2,4 and Psalm 5:3. How is David's life an example of the importance of prayer?
Reflect
3. Do you have a daily habit of spending time alone with God, reading His Word and praying? If not, what usually gets in the way?
4. Think about a day when you tried to "run on your own steam." How did things go? In what ways is your life different when you spend time along talking with God?
Respond
5. How can you follow Jesus' example regarding time alone with God?
6. If you are struggling with having a regular quite time because of a busy schedule, then schedule it. Ask the Lord to lead you as to when is the best time for you. Write down a specific time each day that you will set aside for an appointment with God.
Prayer of the Day
Father, I want to cultivate a more intimate relationship with You. Please teach me to pray. Give me the desire and the discipline to spend time each day communicating with You. Amen.
Wednesday, March 4, 2009
Day Three
Time in the Word - pgs 121-124
Realize
1. According to the following verses in Psalm 119, what are some of the characteristics and functions of the Word of God? v. 9; vv. 25, 28; vv. 50, 52; v. 72; vv. 98-100; vv. 104, 130; v. 165
Reflect
2. Read Job 23:12 and Matthew 4:4. What do these verses help us understand about the priority of consistent intake of the Word of God into our lives? In what sense is "feeding" on the Word even more important than eating physical food?
3. Describe your current season of life. (In other words, you're chasing toddlers all day, you're working, you're running kids to and from activities, you're an empty nester.) Considering your current season, list below several specific areas in your life where you need God's help, guidance, wisdom, or comfort.
4. As you look over your list, what are some ways the Word of God could meet your current needs?
Respond
5. What phrase best describes your spiritual condition, based on your intake of God's Word over the past six months?
* seriously malnourished - almost no nourishment
* poor diet - barely subsisting on minimal levels
* healthy - consistent, balanced diet
6. What practical action can you take to increase your daily intake of the Word of God and make your time alone with Him a greater priority?
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I realize my need to spend time in Your Word every day. Please give me a greater hunger to read and meditate on Your Word. Speak to me through its pages. Change my life as I encounter You in Your Word. Amen.
Realize
1. According to the following verses in Psalm 119, what are some of the characteristics and functions of the Word of God? v. 9; vv. 25, 28; vv. 50, 52; v. 72; vv. 98-100; vv. 104, 130; v. 165
Reflect
2. Read Job 23:12 and Matthew 4:4. What do these verses help us understand about the priority of consistent intake of the Word of God into our lives? In what sense is "feeding" on the Word even more important than eating physical food?
3. Describe your current season of life. (In other words, you're chasing toddlers all day, you're working, you're running kids to and from activities, you're an empty nester.) Considering your current season, list below several specific areas in your life where you need God's help, guidance, wisdom, or comfort.
4. As you look over your list, what are some ways the Word of God could meet your current needs?
Respond
5. What phrase best describes your spiritual condition, based on your intake of God's Word over the past six months?
* seriously malnourished - almost no nourishment
* poor diet - barely subsisting on minimal levels
* healthy - consistent, balanced diet
6. What practical action can you take to increase your daily intake of the Word of God and make your time alone with Him a greater priority?
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I realize my need to spend time in Your Word every day. Please give me a greater hunger to read and meditate on Your Word. Speak to me through its pages. Change my life as I encounter You in Your Word. Amen.
Tuesday, March 3, 2009
Day Two
Jesus' Example - pgs 117-121
Realize
1. Near the end of His earthly ministry, Jesus said to His Father, "I have glorified You on the earth. I have finished the work which You have given Me to do" (John 17:4 NKJV). What does this verse reveal about Jesus' goals and priorities for His life?
2. According to Acts 20:24, how were the apostle Paul's goals and priorities similar to those of the Lord Jesus?
Reflect
3. If your goal in life is to glorify God and to finish the work He has given you to do, how should that affect your daily schedule and the way you use your time?
4. What helpful insight does Ephesians 2:10 give regarding the specific responsibilities and activities of believers? What difference can this perspective make as you seek to live a well-ordered, godly life?
Respond
5. Describe your typical day (or week). List the activities in which you are involved on a regular basis.
6. Consider the activities about that are "negotiable." Does each of these activities for in with you (and God's) priorities? Why or why not?
7. Prioritize each of the negotiable activities by ranking them with numbers. Are you tending to the top priorities? If not, what can you do now in order to simplify your schedule and your life so that you are acting on what is most important? Ask God what adjustments He wants you to make in your schedule, so that you can be sure you are glorifying Him and fulfilling His agenda for your life.
8. What do you need to do in order to be able to go to bed each night and say, "Today I finished the work that the Lord gave me to do"?
Prayer of the Day
Lord, You know my schedule and all the demands that seem to come at me from every direction. Please help me make wise choices regarding my daily activities, so that at the end of the day I can say that I finished the work that You gave me to do. Amen.
Realize
1. Near the end of His earthly ministry, Jesus said to His Father, "I have glorified You on the earth. I have finished the work which You have given Me to do" (John 17:4 NKJV). What does this verse reveal about Jesus' goals and priorities for His life?
2. According to Acts 20:24, how were the apostle Paul's goals and priorities similar to those of the Lord Jesus?
Reflect
3. If your goal in life is to glorify God and to finish the work He has given you to do, how should that affect your daily schedule and the way you use your time?
4. What helpful insight does Ephesians 2:10 give regarding the specific responsibilities and activities of believers? What difference can this perspective make as you seek to live a well-ordered, godly life?
Respond
5. Describe your typical day (or week). List the activities in which you are involved on a regular basis.
6. Consider the activities about that are "negotiable." Does each of these activities for in with you (and God's) priorities? Why or why not?
7. Prioritize each of the negotiable activities by ranking them with numbers. Are you tending to the top priorities? If not, what can you do now in order to simplify your schedule and your life so that you are acting on what is most important? Ask God what adjustments He wants you to make in your schedule, so that you can be sure you are glorifying Him and fulfilling His agenda for your life.
8. What do you need to do in order to be able to go to bed each night and say, "Today I finished the work that the Lord gave me to do"?
Prayer of the Day
Lord, You know my schedule and all the demands that seem to come at me from every direction. Please help me make wise choices regarding my daily activities, so that at the end of the day I can say that I finished the work that You gave me to do. Amen.
Monday, March 2, 2009
Setting Priorities - Day One
God's Priorities - pgs 115-121
Realize
1. On a scale of 1-5,where do you generally fall on each of the following categories, as it relates to your priorities, your schedule and your use of time?
1 being peaceful, calm and 5 being stressed and frazzled.
1 being well ordered and 5 being out of control
1 being purposeful use of time and 5 being reacting to life
1 being good steward of time and 5 being waste a lot of time
1 being balanced priorities and 5 being overwhelmed by demands
1 being fulfilling His "to-do" list for me and 5 being frustrated by unfinished tasks
1 being relaxed spirit and 5 being uptight spirit
1 being putting "first things first" and 5 being "Majoring in the minors"
1 being led by the Spirit and 5 being driven by others or circumstances
Reflect
2. The word "priority" comes from the Latin word prior, which means "first". Our priorities are the things that take "first place" in our time and attention. We all live by priorities. The question is: are we living by the right priorities? Are we putting the first things first? Read Matthew 6:25-34 and Luke 10:38-42. What are some of the things that compete for "first place" in our lives? What should be the top priorities for every child of God?
3. Read Proverbs 3:5-6. What are some of the consequences we might experience if we rely on our own understanding rather than looking to God to direct our schedule and order our priorities?
4. According to the verses you just read and Proverbs 2:1-6, how can we discern what responsibilities God is assigning us and what is merely on our own "to-do" list?
Respond
5. Complete this sentence: From now on, before I take on any more activities, I will seek God's guidance first by...
6. Write out a brief prayer of commitment, expressing your desire to know and to do the will of God and to have His priorities in your life.
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I want to live according to Your priorities for my life. Please lead me and give me wisdom; teach me what things really matter to You. Help me to make the necessary adjustments in my schedule so that I might use the days You have given me to fulfill Your agenda. Amen.
Realize
1. On a scale of 1-5,where do you generally fall on each of the following categories, as it relates to your priorities, your schedule and your use of time?
1 being peaceful, calm and 5 being stressed and frazzled.
1 being well ordered and 5 being out of control
1 being purposeful use of time and 5 being reacting to life
1 being good steward of time and 5 being waste a lot of time
1 being balanced priorities and 5 being overwhelmed by demands
1 being fulfilling His "to-do" list for me and 5 being frustrated by unfinished tasks
1 being relaxed spirit and 5 being uptight spirit
1 being putting "first things first" and 5 being "Majoring in the minors"
1 being led by the Spirit and 5 being driven by others or circumstances
Reflect
2. The word "priority" comes from the Latin word prior, which means "first". Our priorities are the things that take "first place" in our time and attention. We all live by priorities. The question is: are we living by the right priorities? Are we putting the first things first? Read Matthew 6:25-34 and Luke 10:38-42. What are some of the things that compete for "first place" in our lives? What should be the top priorities for every child of God?
3. Read Proverbs 3:5-6. What are some of the consequences we might experience if we rely on our own understanding rather than looking to God to direct our schedule and order our priorities?
4. According to the verses you just read and Proverbs 2:1-6, how can we discern what responsibilities God is assigning us and what is merely on our own "to-do" list?
Respond
5. Complete this sentence: From now on, before I take on any more activities, I will seek God's guidance first by...
6. Write out a brief prayer of commitment, expressing your desire to know and to do the will of God and to have His priorities in your life.
Prayer of the Day
Lord, I want to live according to Your priorities for my life. Please lead me and give me wisdom; teach me what things really matter to You. Help me to make the necessary adjustments in my schedule so that I might use the days You have given me to fulfill Your agenda. Amen.
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