Day Five

The Covenant of Marriage - pgs 156-161

Realize
1. Read and summarize what the Bible says about marriage in Genesis 2:18-24; Malachi 2:13-16; and Mark 10:2-12. Why is marriage a lifetime, binding relationship? How does divorce mar God's design?

2. What does Ecclesiastes 5:4-6 tell us about God's perspective on vows? What are the consequences of breaking a vow? (Note: If physical danger or abuse is involved, a woman should seek protection, direction and intervention from the appropriate civil and/or spiritual authorities, rather than attempting to handle the situation on her own.)

Reflect
3. Read Psalm 89:33-34 and Isaiah 54:10. What do these verses tell us about the character of God? What are the implications for our lives, as we seek to be like Him and reflect His image in our marriage?

4. Review the list of truths about marriage on pgs 159-160. In your own words, write out any that apply to a challenge you may be facing in your marriage or that you could share with a friend who is in a difficult marriage.

Respond
5. In prayer, claim these truths, and ask God to help you to be faithful to Him and to your mate, no matter how difficult it may feel. In your own words, express below your commitment to be faithful to you marriage vows and to reflect the covenant-keeping heart of God.

Note: If you are divorced, remember that the grace of God can turn "ashes to beauty." He loves you and wants the very best for you. If your husband violated his vow toward you, what steps can you take toward completely forgiving him and finding healing and wholeness in Christ? If you were responsible for breaking your marriage vow, what steps do you need to take to be right with God and with your husband?

Prayer of the Day
Thank You, Lord, for being faithful, even when we are unfaithful to You. I recognize that we need Your presence and power if our marriage is going to reflect You and bring You glory. Please give me grace to be faithful to You and faithful to my husband. In the difficult times, help me to walk in humility, love, and forgiveness, and to trust You to work in our lives and our marriage. Amen.